Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. Sexually, I'm pretty open to a "friends with benefits" situation. For me a perfect date is a concert by someone we both enjoy. I like my partners to be open to anything. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. If you contact me I promise to make it worth your while. I'm not changing my life, I'm just turning up the volume on my leisure time.