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Should I go to a ?  

whoisagentj 54M
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7/10/2019 6:30 am

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7/25/2019 6:40 am
Should I go to a ?

Yesterday I talked to one of my posters here and he suggested that because of my feelings of needing someone physical and because I haven't had sex in a long time, that I might consider seeing a "woman", in order to fulfill my need for intimacy and physical sex.
Now normally I wouldn't consider doing this, paying someone for sex. And I don't look down on sex workers for the most part, because sometimes they fill the needs of people who are lonely. Now, I've never gotten a sex worker before. I have considered it in the past, but never acted on it. The thought of me paying for sex is normally not something I would consider doing. And right now, the thought of me spending over a couple hundred dollars for an hour of sexual gratification...I could be using that to pay down my bills to improve my situation. On the other hand, it's tempting.

So at this time...I'm torn between the idea of actually doing this and not doing it. I really don't know what to do. Part of me wants to do it. Another part of me is saying "Are you sure you want to do this?"

What are your thoughts on this? Would you ever consider using a sex worker? And if you have used one before, what were your thoughts before and after?
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pocogato12 71F  
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7/22/2019 9:00 am

 In areas outside the US where sexual services are legal 99% of them are continually screened for STDs. Personally, as dry as my life is right now I would not even consider reaching out for a man for pay.. Just a personal boundary I have to keep. Having done a wee bit of internet research in NYC and DC some of the Escort services charge $1000 and hour and the service keeps 50%. Other areas the fees are considerably lower even down to $100/hr .But that's also money that could have been better spent with longer range of benefits
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whoisagentj replies on 7/25/2019 6:40 am:
Yeah, I don't think I'm going to take a trip to another country for it to be legal. And I've seen some of the prices for the higher priced escorts which is ridiculous. I mean they look great, but I'm not spending 500-1000 bucks for an hour.

thax013 46M
1089 posts
7/13/2019 9:17 pm

 Oh wow. I wanted to read some of the responses, and I see none.

I have never approached one, first, I promised myself I would not pay for seX a long time ago. Second, in many places, it is illegal, and I am naive enough to be unable to tell if it was a worker, or a policewoman. Third, I have always heard that they are most likely to have the dreaded StDs. I would be so mad at myself if I contracted something. Are these good reasons? Are they even accurate? Or are they just something to be aware of?

At work, it is common for us to get approached by ... workers. A few have even ... flashed the goods. We are allowed to look (who wouldn’t?) but we cannot approach or give them anything resembling money or goods. Every city resident is effectively our boss, and if we get a complaint called in about it, then it is very easy to be fired. So it is extreme hands off with witnesses.
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whoisagentj replies on 7/15/2019 6:30 am:
You know thax, I was expecting a TON of responses and you're the only one that replied.

I thought long and hard on this one. I was planning on seeing an escort, but I decided against it. I just can't justify spending money like that for an hour of pleasure. It's not that I wouldn't spend that type of money, like going to a fancy dinner, going out on the town, stuff like that, but something in my head just says don't do it. It's like an invisible line. Once you cross it, I don't know if I could ever go back, you know?

And the other thing is definitely that a lot of sex workers do have STD's. So for me, I'd be afraid of that as well. But it's not uncommon for other women to have STD's. You just have to be careful and wear a condom and protect yourself.

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
7/10/2019 6:31 am

 Definitely would like to hear what you think on this one...
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