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12/2/2019 9:40 pm |
Hey if it is your style and makes you feel comfortable...then stay with it. You don't seem to be mean but I only read what you write. You be safe and never sorry. [post 4275685]
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12/2/2019 9:43 pm |
Be yourself
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Your boss violating your privacy is not funny. Good on the guy who told her he'd get your phone number from you or not at all.
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Always be yourself and be real.
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12/2/2019 11:53 pm |
I personally hate the feeling of being expected to apologize for being who I am rather than who people expect me to be. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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She told/suggested that you wear more make-up? Really?
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I don’t see mean in you. I see assertive. I admire him for his stance on the phone number. And it would irritate me that she gave him the number. It is a violation of employee privacy and be cause for termination where I work. Keep being you.
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What the hell kind of store do you work in where the manager is peddling you off to customers? Ooohhh . . . wait . . . cats . . . and the "store" is a house. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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And what would HR say about your managers actions? You ARE mean - but I see it as a self-defense mechanism really. Sand in My Shoes The Clam before the Storm Black Friday Alternative [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Did the guy who refused your number then ask you for it?! If he's been giving you the eye for months, maybe he needed a kick up the ass! My sisters plan for me getting a man is to wear makeup to work I;m not really a makeup woman, I only wear it if I go on a date.... which is hardly never so maybe she's right I'm not a swoony giggly woman either.. perhaps that's where we are all going wrong
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well...you are not like being mean on purpose...i guess that's being a part of you, right??? so i won't change a thing... so your boss, she hooked up with a customer, who is now her husband...well, although it's nothing wrong with that, i guess she sold her little too cheap??? lol... seriously...i can't believe she just gave your number to unknown people??? i would be furious...she has no business doing that...
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I agree with you be yourself, either they like you or they don't!!! And I would of told my manager not to be given out my number as you don't know what kind of people they are unless you know them. You just keep being you and you never know Mr. Wonderful might be your next patron.. Enjoy your day..
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I’m not the eyelash-batting type, either. Even basic flirting pretty much eludes me. I don’t think I’d want my manager to be doing any matchmaking unless it was with someone who I’d specifically told her I was interested in. Even in that situation, it would be a bit mortifying. Then again, I’m perpetually single so we see how THAT attitude’s working for me!
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Don't change for the sake of it. Keep being the real deal
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Just like I have said before, You be you, any way you want to. Tell the store owner you run your life and to get the F... out of it.. but do be polite when you say it!!!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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You let her give your number out? lol....Yeah, I read the other posts. I just wanted to get that part in there. You're NOT mean. There's a difference between being mean and being someone who doesn't tolerate bullshit and dishonesty. You're very straight-forward and to the point. Too many people have problems dealing with that. They want it all sugar-coated. Nah....sugar-coating the truth just distracts them from hearing the part they need to hear....the part they're SUPPOSED to hear. Unfortunately, it also scares people and pushes them away.
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Still, she tells me I'd increase my chances if I'd wear makeup and stop being so mean Say what? I guess there's no HR department to tell boss lady to mind her own business.
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Good Luck to you Lala I have not seen any meanness in you unless they would do you dirty first. Standing up for yourself is not a problem in my book Take care and we all will hope for what is best for you and that you are not at the airport when your boat comes in.
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You're not mean, you're straight. If someone can't take that, that's their problem, not yours! And I cannae be arsed wi' people who make other people feel the need to explain themselves when they've done fuck all wrong in the first place....... And
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Well myself I don't care for make-up on anyone I'm involved in a relationship with. If I somehow found myself in a relationship with a woman that was a regular make-up user I would want her to remove it as soon as we were home together as I have zero interest in kissing a make-up covered face. I don't care for fakery be it make-up or the social interactions and would tire quickly of anyone who was fake laughing etc. at my jokes or whatever. I respect honesty not fakery. So carry on being yourself as it is always better than being someone else. Vive La Difference
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