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I can meet you in a half hour.  

secret_lade 49F
14388 posts
12/8/2019 9:28 am
I can meet you in a half hour.


Really?? A half hour you say....

At the top of my To Do List today was to meet a random stranger who just happens to be in my town today and says he can meet me in minutes or less.

Will he have a pizza with him as well?

I have to honestly ask, does this line actually work for people out there?

Perhaps I'm behind the times as I like to be selective in who I meet. I want to know I'm not about to catch The Clap. I want to believe there won't be a scorned wife / girlfriend stalking me at my very public place of employment. I would also like to minimize my chances of becoming a victim of crime.

After all.... this guy is willing to meet me sight unseen.

I politely declined his offer, telling him that I already had a friend and thanked him for his interest.

On a weird side note.... Not seconds after I sent that response, I received a stating "goo.gl" was verifying my "phone#" and that I should respond to the hyperlink.

Related, ya think????

I very rarely respond on here unless it's in response to a blog (I have a few readers that comment via my inbox) or it's one of the few online friends I've made over the years.

I guess this is what I get for trying to be polite.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/10/2019 3:19 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    thanks for sharing this post

    I could meet you in 30 minutes if we were 1025 miles closer, and many "ifs" were satisfied, but, that's alot of "ifs" on both parts

    just sayin'

    I keep waiting for any of my "sliding top 30" or Profile options to cum forward

    reminded me of this

    Carlton Anderson - "Drop Everything"

    You say you made some plans
    Already with your friends
    You're gonna hit the town
    They'll be here any minute now
    Oh and baby I don't know
    Who keeps blowin' up your phone
    But you've hit decline
    At least a hundred times
    You say that it's your boyfriend, but y'all ain't been doin' too good
    Well that's good
    And if you're wonderin' if you oughtta break up with him
    Baby you should
    Yeah you should
    Drop everything, your plans, your man
    I don't see a ring on your pretty little hand
    Drop some plastic on the tab, my Chevy into gear
    Drop your keys by my door, your coat on the floor
    We'll go from there, drop everything
That's a lot of miles.... I've never really thought of people on here in terms of distance. LOL


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/9/2019 10:41 pm

thanks for sharing this post

I could meet you in 30 minutes if we were 1025 miles closer, and many "ifs" were satisfied, but, that's alot of "ifs" on both parts

just sayin'

I keep waiting for any of my "sliding top 30" or Profile options to cum forward

reminded me of this

Carlton Anderson - "Drop Everything"

You say you made some plans
Already with your friends
You're gonna hit the town
They'll be here any minute now
Oh and baby I don't know
Who keeps blowin' up your phone
But you've hit decline
At least a hundred times
You say that it's your boyfriend, but y'all ain't been doin' too good
Well that's good
And if you're wonderin' if you oughtta break up with him
Baby you should
Yeah you should
Drop everything, your plans, your man
I don't see a ring on your pretty little hand
Drop some plastic on the tab, my Chevy into gear
Drop your keys by my door, your coat on the floor
We'll go from there, drop everything

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secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/9/2019 9:04 pm

    Quoting  :

You know, I hadn't thought of that. He probably does.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 12:25 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    i get it...women and men are different, but i don't understand those men who send us, these kind of messages...another message i get often is "he is already in town, for business, and can meet me in his hotel" type of thing...ugh...i don't know you??? why don't you go buy a hooker, or escort if you are that desperate, but i don't need to be a number in the crime statistics, or found naked floating in the pond tomorrow morning...ya know...
I get it. 100% it makes you wonder why THEY aren't worried about some random woman showing up. What if it's not a woman... what if she's a psycho...


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
12/8/2019 12:13 pm

i get it...women and men are different, but i don't understand those men who send us, these kind of messages...another message i get often is "he is already in town, for business, and can meet me in his hotel" type of thing...ugh...i don't know you??? why don't you go buy a hooker, or escort if you are that desperate, but i don't need to be a number in the crime statistics, or found naked floating in the pond tomorrow morning...ya know...


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 11:35 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I got a very similar message from a lady on another site earlier today McLade.......needless to say I dropped everything and told her to come over, she'll be here in 10 mins......

    Funnily enough, within seconds of sending 'her' a polite rebuttal I got another email with a dodgy link in it. Bots and flakes, only too happy to fleece you of your hard earned dosh......

    Not sure about your guy though, he may just have been taking the scatter gun approach.....
Omg... 10 min.... I got a good chuckle out of that. This guy has tried a few times to contact me, I thought I would just politely respond a no thank you. Red flags everywhere.....


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
12/8/2019 11:23 am

I got a very similar message from a lady on another site earlier today McLade.......needless to say I dropped everything and told her to come over, she'll be here in 10 mins......

Funnily enough, within seconds of sending 'her' a polite rebuttal I got another email with a dodgy link in it. Bots and flakes, only too happy to fleece you of your hard earned dosh......

Not sure about your guy though, he may just have been taking the scatter gun approach.....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 11:13 am

    Quoting KX450F2016:
    LMAO.... some people are idiots! There is no way in hell that would work unless it's a woman saying that to a guy! On that note, I have declined more than one woman who wanted to do me within hours. That just threw up a red flag for me. I am somewhat picky as well. Better to be selective!! Besides, I know my hand is safe! LOL
That does send up red flags! I like to check someone out first, see them in person, then decide. What if the last person 30 Minute Harvey was with was 2 hours ago and she had cold sores???

Um, yah. I'll pass.


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
12/8/2019 11:04 am

LMAO.... some people are idiots! There is no way in hell that would work unless it's a woman saying that to a guy! On that note, I have declined more than one woman who wanted to do me within hours. That just threw up a red flag for me. I am somewhat picky as well. Better to be selective!! Besides, I know my hand is safe! LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 11:02 am

    Quoting benard69:
    Just another request from another Bat Shit Crazy on here....
Absolutely!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 11:02 am

    Quoting  :

I have 1 person I had to block for similar reasons.... He felt I was on the wrong site and became verbally threatening to "My kind". I'm not sure what was behind it, or what led to his anger, but I certainly didn't deserve to be treated poorly for not wanting to play with married men.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 10:53 am

    Quoting guylooking4u57:
    nothing wrong with being selective as well as cautious.
You really should be in today's day and age.


benard69 66M/66F  

12/8/2019 10:52 am

Just another request from another Bat Shit Crazy on here....


guylooking4u57 55M
31 posts
12/8/2019 10:26 am

nothing wrong with being selective as well as cautious.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 10:16 am

    Quoting  :

Ha ha ha ha... Sure, let me get that credit card out and wire you that cab fare!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 10:15 am

    Quoting SeparatednReady1:
    Selective seems like a better approach. Maybe less thrilling but better. And selections can / should still be exciting.
It's better for everyone involved, trust me. When you meet someone, it's not all just sex. There are moments of awkwardness and conversation as well.... With a complete stranger, how do you fill that time?


SeparatednReady1 51M

12/8/2019 10:07 am

Selective seems like a better approach. Maybe less thrilling but better. And selections can / should still be exciting.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 10:06 am

    Quoting CamFriendz:
    LMAO... No, I doubt it works out for them sweetie. I think we have all heard that one. Temptind to play along with a fake location at times!
Fake location... Now, that's interesting. I don't think I could be that mean, but it would be interesting to watch from a distance and see who shows up.


CamFriendz 55M
13 posts
12/8/2019 10:00 am

LMAO... No, I doubt it works out for them sweetie. I think we have all heard that one. Temptind to play along with a fake location at times!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 9:58 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    ... I'll be the guy in the panel van with tinted windows on the side of the road.
Even better! Be there in 5....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/8/2019 9:55 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Half hour ⏳? 🤔 Hmmm...
    Sounds enticing... 😊 😀😮
    You're popular... 🚩🔥👍
Popular with the crazies... LOL

I like to blame it on my freak magnet. They're drawn to me like flies to honey.


mc_justmc 63M

12/8/2019 9:53 am

... I'll be the guy in the panel van with tinted windows on the side of the road.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/8/2019 9:51 am

Half hour ⏳? 🤔 Hmmm...
Sounds enticing... 😊 😀😮
You're popular... 🚩🔥👍


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