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i am fully agree with the whole reflexion
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I haven't tried it for some months (before they introduced the cost to use it), but my experience was that it was very hit and miss. I don't think I ever sent an IM, but any I received, I tended to reply but that was as far as the conversation went. Whether that was down to the site stopping the exchange after one message or the "person" at the other end deciding I wasn't for them, I'll never know.
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If someone tries to IM me, I will respond. But overall, i stay away from it, because of the way it is, and it's past history on this site.
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I have my IM defaulted to 'busy'. I only turn it on if I'm in a mood to chat. But a lot depends on who contacts me first. If the first 2 men to page are young or married (and they're usually both) then I turn the IM off again. Like you, I need an opening gambit to be unique-ish. One exception … I have trouble ignoring a direct question. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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12/12/2019 2:39 pm |
Love the sentiment. On a site like this, I'm yet to work out what that captivating open line is though 
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I think this is where the gender divide comes in. For a guy (especially an average joe like me) it is rare, to get approaches from a lady. So if I do, I just jump in 
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My IM is definitely working I get so many IM's and I always respond. I am not fond of those that say Hi Mommy that shit just isn't happening. And for the most part the men are nice but some want to jump right into a sexual conversation. Not for me as I like to get to know someone, have a nice conversation. I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening hun, this was a great blog, and I hope all the members read it.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I turned my IM off as I do not type well and I could not figure out how to respond( not that anyone sent me one). That is why I have a private mail box on my blog to contact me with. So nice to be insane; no one asks you to explain.
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I do cam and get people who want to chat on IM. I have to say that an opening of Hi on IM or on cam rates more than a hi or hello back. I do not figure it is my job to start the conversation and a response of Hello from me is just an invite for them to start it. If you drop the coin you should be ready to say something other than what you, who are a 1000 miles away want to do to my body. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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My IM is set to busy. I rarely turn it on any more. Its just not worth it. I'm not looking to engage in sex chat with someone I don't know. I can't read profiles so I have no clue what the person is looking for or interested in (besides sex, lol) As for the "pay to chat" part...I have the points, but I'm not willing to use them for pointless conversations. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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Interesting. . .
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I use IM often even though it is now 15 points to chat. I use IM to get to know someone instead of giving out my contact information. More times than not when I do IM I find out who these men really are and I dont have to waste my time meeting them. They also dont have my contact information so one and done.
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It always flakes out just when you've asked or been asked a serious question,, seriously annoying... never flakes when you need it too!
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