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I wouldn't fool with anyone if I knew they were attached and that there significant other didn't know about it. Like you I prefer not to get involved if there is a home problem, but if there partner tells me personally it's ok, that's a different story
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7/28/2019 6:59 am |
When they leave Their “status” blank, or mention..must be discreet, it’s a dead giveaway they’re attached..
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I agree but don’t have to worry that often! Better late then never
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Nope, it's not for me either. I don't want to be that third person in the relationship which has to be kept secret, I don't wish to cause deception or lies in the relationship, don't want to have excuses told to me all the time. Like you said, I don't want the drama of all that.
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If the woman is cheating it’s a flat out no go, finding out after the fact is a deal breaker, I have no interest in having to deal with an angry significant other. Given that in today’s society open relationships and permission to play is within the range of normal, there is a slim chance I might consider getting involved with an attached/married woman if I can ask questions and be more than reasonably certain that she is doing so by mutual arrangement with her significant other.
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7/28/2019 7:38 am |
Yeah you are right somewhere deep down inside you know their partner isn’t like 100% with it even though they can act like it. Only was given an opportunity like this once and I did feel bad but still hooked up sadly lol
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I prefer women who are attached but only if there partner gives them their blessing. I find single women become clingy even though I am up front about my desire to only be casual. I will not be with someone I know is cheating. Interestingly enough, I've been talking to a woman for a few months and we obviously share a mutual attraction. I've made it perfectly clear to her that not only will I not be with her physically while she is attached but that I also don't want to be the reason she becomes unattached. Quite simply I'm only interested in being with her if she breaks up with her boyfriend for her own reasons, not because of my interest in her. ✌
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Men are rabid dogs when it comes to sex... You're wise not to believe them without hard (excuse the pun) evidence... Personally, I don't lie, because I don;t have to, but if a woman doesn't want a married guy, regardless, I respect that, and don't press... there's plenty of other women... A few years ago, my wife would have been 100% with you, but lately her "standards" have slipped, and she isn't as strict about relationship standard... Her current attitude is that she's getting older, and her sexual drive and ability won't last much longer, so she's "stocking up" now... Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years... You could be next...
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7/28/2019 7:55 am |
Just be real with your partner, if you not happy in the situation just leave and move on. Better and safer for both parties.
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It Depends, I see a married woman in an open relationship. I know her and her husband very well and all know and consent. Our relationship is not for everyone but as long as everyone communicates and knows, there may not be a problem.
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1 post 7/28/2019 9:01 am |
My wife and I have an open marriage. We both like to fuck a lot and I travel quite extensively. Sometimes I may be gone for several months. Because of this we both allow each other to play separately as long as we communicate to the other what we are doing. Sometimes it is just a simple text saying :Hey I'm getting laid".
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It certainly lends credence as to why people don't want to be seen here. To many people these days really never give a second thought even care about the disservice they do to others emotional health! Using more than all the road!
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7/28/2019 2:10 pm |
Qu\'en pensez-vous ?? C'est plus un site pour s'amuser et se passer le temps que pour faire des rencontre, mais en deux ans j'ai quand même rencontré deux personnes du sites avec qui j'ai eu quelques rapports, et vous ,
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I don't know what is right or wrong?
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mmmmmm
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This maybe a sex site but I do have my standards. If a couple are swingers that's one thing, and I'm ok with that because all parties involved know. But when one person is married and says oh my husband isn't interested in sex any more, or can't get it up, and the man says that his wife has lost all of her sexual desires. Then do something about it there is help out there for you. But I refuse to go out, meet, or sleep with someone that is married when the other person doesn't know what's going on. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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Well we are attached and have very open communications about meeting others. We dont hide anything from each other at all. She has no desire to meet others without me at this time. I meet others but she is always aware of it BEFORE hand unless its a last minute thing and that happens very rarely at all. Some ladies have said they want to talk to her first to confirm however she refuses to do that because she feels she is forced to give approval to somebody to meet me, and i agree that we are adults and her nor I own each other. We have full trust and openness between us so no need to receive permission from her, if they require approval then I wont meet them.
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I know it's going to lead to some trouble for me, but I will fuck them even if I do feel bad for their spouse - but I won't abide being cheated on myself.
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I agree, prefer singles for less drama. Also, if an individual is less than truthful regarding one topic, how much of a stretch will it be for them to be less than truthful in regard to other topics? Last, in regard to profiles mentioning "discreet". I know it signals a red flag BUT the concern is not always in regard to relationship status. Professional and community image are concerns for some people.
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Mr Oxy is allowed to fuck other women, but we are always together. We never separate. For us, we enjoy the experience together. If the other woman is straight, then we play all 3 that way too. Mrs Oxy has a few guys in her pocket for mfm fun, notice that was mfm, because we always play yogether. One of the guys is upfront and already told us that if he meets a lady, we'd have to take a break or stop with him. We completely agree. Honesty and openess eliminates the Drama! Cheaters are so so sad! We won't have anything to do with cheaters and agree with you completely.
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I've been really tempted a few times. But I've only gone there when the guy knows what is going on. How do I know he knows? Well, when he wants to watch, is one sign ...
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I Phon (F) will fuck and suck any man whether married or attached, I do not care if his partner knows or not. He need that dirty free sex same as me, but my husband is always there, takes pics and joins in. This is a fucking sex site lets do it. I also do it with girls too in front of my husband but do not do sex without him there. I just love 3 hole sex anytime anywhere we can get it
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7/31/2019 4:38 am |
Good for you
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7/31/2019 4:39 am |
I do agree with you
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its a matter for each person to make
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Really, who cares. Not here to care about another's problems. Got my own. Here for some adult fun, to enjoy each other for the short time we managed to arrange. That's all.
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Open marriages are probably the way to go
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whoa, lets all remember, this is a site for Adults and Sex, what the other persons situation is doesn't matter, it's not our concern unless they involve you in it. Attached, married, whatever it is, it's between the two of them and has nothing to do with you. I do agree some people are serious fuckups and occasionally someone else will hurt thier partner and i've been involved, i feel bad for them but it's still not my concern. we are grown ups here, it's sex, feelings are going to get hurt, but no one forced them to sign up here, no one forced them to meet for sex, it was a personal choice based on thier relationship and not my concern.
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1 post 7/31/2019 5:29 pm |
Don't care just fuck
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do unto others as they have done to you----im fucking
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Creo que todas las opiniones son validas me gusto leer los comentarios gracias
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I love fuck n what my partner wish as per her wish
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8/1/2019 2:21 am |
their problem
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No thank you, yes amazing how good some people are at deception. I believe in honesty and karma.
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I agree, I don't need the drama and don't need to be the one causing the drama. It's not for me.
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8/1/2019 7:06 am |
its their deal just dont add drama.. best to leave that out of the convo and have fun!
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Been down that road once with a married woman. Won't do it again. To much drama.
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8/1/2019 8:06 am |
I am respectful of both parties
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Generally I say that's their business but I've learned that married guys are usually more trouble than they're worth. Unless they're traveling from out of town, then they can be fun.
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I am married, but my wife lost all interest in sex many years ago. I love my wife and certainly have no intention of leaving her. News flash - there is a hell of a lot more to marriage than sex, especially after over 20 years together. But, to protect my marital status, I prefer a woman who is also married and has as much to lose as I do. That way there's no misunderstandings and discretion is maintained.
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It's great with her husband/partner watching or participating! I've been with a few attached/married women alone too and it was fun.
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you will be surprised on how many married women fuck around behind their husbands back. I prefer married ladies, they don't get clingy.
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I am married and do have permission to see others just as my wife has permission to do the same. I have been with another married woman and my wife and I have swapped. If the person is cheating without their other knowing, then I end it because don’t need that. If they say that they have permission, then we ask if we can check with their partner if that is true.
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What might have been really interesting is to split the questions up between the sexes. I have a suspicion that the majority of the "I'll fuck them anyway" answers come from the men, but I wonder how many come from the ladies...
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8/2/2019 5:33 am |
So, its tough being committed and no sex at home due to medical issues, my long term partner has no desire for sex and it painful. Told me to seek it elsewhere.. Whats a man to do.. Ive been seeking a woman who's other half has ED or something and just needs some good hard sex on a regular basis... Shit happens in life, everyone has a story.. Sometimes you stick with someone for other reasons... Don't wish to hurt or embarrass anyone, I am attached and very careful.. Life happens...
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Fun is fun...unless you're looking for a spouse.
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Well, I didn't answer the married question until I was chatting up a woman and mentioned I was married, she got real pissed. I kind of got a charge out of it, but changed my status. However, it's cliché, but truthful that my wife's interest in sex is minimal. Consequently, I'll fuck any man, woman or couple that is comfortable with fucking me.
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8/2/2019 10:50 am |
I truly believe humans are not wired to monogamous.
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i cheated on both my wives. all i can say is i would not ruin anybody elses marriage. because in a divorce nobody, i mean NOBODY wins...so no i would not be with any one married again
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8/2/2019 1:09 pm |
Never ask and I won’t know. It’s on them.
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swinging is a lifestyle and if they both agree I am in....especially if he wants to join in and make her even happier!
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8/2/2019 3:30 pm |
I feel because I am bi Male happy they are marry or not But with a females must be single. Most wife's know if there male partner is bi and seeing and looking sex with a other male
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Depends on the situation. Poly and open relationships are becoming more of a thing. Cheating is not cool, but sometimes it's kinda hard to tell
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I don't care to get involved in anyone that is married/has a girlfriend/ live in FWb or multiple fwb. If they are not truly single they are NOT worth my time. If they will cheat on someone they are already having a relationship with. They would definitely cheat on me. Don't need the drama or heart ache. If they are not happy with their own sex life. Get divorced, change their relationship before hurting someone else emotionally. Communication is the key....
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Cheaters suck
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8/2/2019 11:05 pm |
I am married, but my wife lost all interest in sex many years ago. I love my wife and certainly have no intention of leaving her. News flash - there is a hell of a lot more to marriage than sex, especially after over 20 years together. But, to protect my marital status, I prefer a woman who is also married and has as much to lose as I do. That way there's no misunderstandings and discretion is maintained.
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Every situation is different, so it would depend on that person and situation. campgdp6969
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en lo personal soy divorciado lo he hecho con chicas casadas que tienen ganas x mal atendidas o su pareja viaja mucho x acuerdo entre ambas partes se ha consumado sin problemas
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8/3/2019 11:33 am |
Personally even when I was single I always had sex with married women. Though I told them ahead of time that I would only do them bareback. Simply because they were married, granted I got a few pregnant, but they seemed ok with that.
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I agree No bullshit drama free. Less problems more fun.
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8/3/2019 5:07 pm |
👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
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Wow - it seems like most people "don't care". I am not sure that is how I would phrase it but I do believe that people are going to fuck who they want to fuck and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. So, any "arrangement" that dose not recognize that is hiding from the reality of life.
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This looks like a good way to get some free points
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8/4/2019 12:13 pm |
Best to just steer clear of married, imo. To each their own, I don't judge.
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8/5/2019 6:47 pm |
its their concern if they are cute for me
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8/5/2019 7:21 pm |
i dont like being with attached
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cheating is cheating its not right especially a freinds wife
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I started fucking a married man cause his wife was a bitch and i kind of like it.
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why should I worry about married or attached. It's a fake constraint the religions have designed to manipulate people into feeling guilt. Guilt that the religion can then twist to their own measures. So if someone is horny there is a reason and I believe that they deserve at least a momentary respite. Who am I to turn away a horny woman.
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8/7/2019 4:11 pm |
wouldnt like it happening to me so its a nono
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8/7/2019 5:24 pm |
only if hes cute,,lol
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8/7/2019 9:07 pm |
only if hes hot
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i dont care if its mutual
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8/8/2019 3:15 am |
if the guys cute enough then sure
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my best way of doing things.... is meet them for coffee talk with them for a while ..then after a couple of coffee if we both want to do something... we will... but I also ask if they are married or attached... And I tell them that I do not want to hurt them so either I just come friends with them or not … I do not want to hurt them or brake up there family.... I would feel really bad about it ….
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when it is as difficult as it is to finally meet someone I'm not going to rule out and potential partner based on a piece of information that Is only their business.
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Now that is a great question, would be interesting
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8/10/2019 1:11 pm |
Discreet means discreet...
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8/10/2019 6:16 pm |
I don't ask and I don't have to give it a second thought!
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I'm in an open marriage and she encourages me to find others to be with. But yes, nobody believes me.
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8/11/2019 4:18 pm |
if i liked them, why not
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8/11/2019 5:50 pm |
to each their own
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8/11/2019 7:02 pm |
i wouldnt care
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it is mutual desire to have sexual satifaction .
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8/12/2019 4:18 am |
It is sad if you feel the need to cheat or go outside of marriage for sex. But as humans, we have needs.
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8/12/2019 7:34 am |
ill take them on
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8/13/2019 4:56 pm |
dont mind if they are cute
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like married women
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8/13/2019 7:12 pm |
no way
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8/14/2019 3:03 am |
not for me
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8/15/2019 7:12 am |
Only if the other partner is there, as in threesome.
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8/15/2019 7:25 am |
I'm one of those guys. Everyone lives in a different world and their are circumstances that drive a person here. I hope u understand that and that we are not evil. Everyone needs to be honest and live by the rules they set for themselves.
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8/16/2019 6:18 pm |
i wont be with a cheater
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8/18/2019 8:00 am |
Stay clear of the situation.
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8/20/2019 2:30 am |
Most men are cheaters and they will say anything to be with another one..I know this cause I was married to one once
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8/26/2019 10:59 am |
Here’s another “poll” for all of you: If my spouse has no interest in sex (due to physical issues and/or other reasons), we’ve tried multiple rounds of counseling and that didn’t help, but we love each other and have a great relationship otherwise, then my spouse gives his/her blessing for me to get sex elsewhere as long as I’m safe and discreet and don’t fall in love, what do I do? A. Try a site like this, but not find anyone because they don’t want “drama.” B. Seek “professional help.” C. Suck it up and do without physical intimacy the rest of my life. A
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Quiero un cojin namas
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9/4/2019 9:29 am |
Best to keep that stuff discreet..
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I'm married. Wife lost all interest years ago. So I specifically look for a married woman who wants some extra-marital excitement. My take on it is that it is better to be with somebody who has as much to lose as I do - it's insurance of discretion (hopefully). And I do have a lot to lose. I love my wife, and the lack of sex has only made me realize how much more there is to our relationship than what goes on in bed.
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have you been meeting yourself?
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bigbeautibarb, have you ever met a guy in person??
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9/10/2019 3:56 am |
People need to get their freak on and go home.
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I have had more than 3 women tell me they were separated. One of the women's husband kicked in the door and I had to fight him naked. Another one claimed she had her own apartment and when we walked in I had a gun put to my head. I am lucky because it was in Texas and legally he could have shot me. But, I was bigger and faster and was able to knock the gun away. If a woman wants to fuck you and she's not happy but is married and living with someone they will say anything to get you to sleep with them.
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If they are far from home and married I'm ok with it. That means they have to be discrete. Most guys like to brag to their friends "hey I fucked so and so's wife" If your out of town it don't matter.
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