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"where you’re not quite sure if they could be a brilliant tech guy or just a lazy dresser" Your way with words is admirable
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helllooooo
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It brings up the When Harry met Sally question: Can a man and a woman be friends if they are attracted to each other? The movie says yes, but only if they end up in a romantic relationship. But what about if they don't establish a romantic relationship? I believe the answer is yes, a friendship is possible, but there will always be an awkward aspect to it. I certainly understand if someone does not want to deal with that awkwardness. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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8 have no interest in cheaters and will not even meet them for coffee. We all have choices to make, best of luck
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8/21/2019 1:36 pm |
good post. i agree with you.
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8/21/2019 1:37 pm |
hey
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You don't think an unrequited love (unrequited for whatever reason) would be awkward? “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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8/21/2019 2:43 pm |
nicely written and brilliant insight, will start looking for more of your posts
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It's an interest thought, but I think I'm stuck on the "well, usually" part. Compartmentizing is a useful short-term coping strategy; however, all those emotions need to be reconciled to maintain emotional health. Compartmentalization can easily turn into denial. Accordingly, the reconciliation process, if postponed too long, may hamper, if not end, the friendship. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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I like when we agree. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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When one or both of you , feel a heat for the other.... "Being just friends" [Friendzone - look but don't touch] is pretty pathetic. P.S. : Strip club rules vary from club to club. A man [or woman] can touch the stripper, in most clubs.
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Well written piece my lady, and the partial stories interesting as well On the subject though , this kind of interaction can be seen as teasing with a live wire, ( always refreshing and invigorating of course ) But there's only so much you can play before the sensors are overloaded,and the whole condiiton goes in a body entwining mess ( equally refreshing as well, ) As for the gentleman friend, I sense some kind of spiel on his part. My 2 cents really Cheers , and keep us posted - P
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Enjoyed the post as always, Angel. "Emotional chicken" is a great way of looking at what can happen with this sort of "will they or won't they" dance and sums up why it can probably never work. Can men and women be friends with someone they are attracted to? For myself it is absurd to think otherwise since much of what I find attractive in a potential partner are also attributes of what I seek out in friends. I also have/have had plenty of female friends who I would be interested in romantically under different circumstances. How I've always thought about what can make a friendship impossible in this circumstance is the idea of "breaking the seal." If you haven't heard it before, this is the urban myth that if you've been drinking a lot as soon as you break the seal and go to the bathroom for the first time that you've doomed yourself to going constantly for the rest of the night. Where it applies here, is that as soon as you've "broken the seal" and let the attraction explicitly surface in the relationship that now you've doomed things between the two of you. Is this a universal truth? I'm sure there are plenty of times when it has been proven wrong, but I'm guessing there are far more times when it has been proven right.
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Yes. Friend zone after anything getting surfaced likely more than most mere mortals can handle...especially simple-minded boys
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dam rules
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