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“What Do You Want to Chat About?”  

EntertainMe2Nght 37F
20 posts
7/7/2020 3:10 pm
“What Do You Want to Chat About?”

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YummyNDelish79 45F  
17 posts
7/7/2020 4:19 pm

I totally agree. I enjoy natural, organic conversations. So many guys on here just don't know how to approach a lady. Or they lead with a dick pic...Uggghhh...lol


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
7/7/2020 4:31 pm

Honest completed profile helps with that. When I get message like that 8 ask what in my profile made then reach out to me? Would help if the read the profiles.


jay_peek2000 60M
29 posts
7/7/2020 4:36 pm

Honestly, it sounds like you are not good at conversation. If you are not good at asking questions of someone, it becomes one- sided. They try to salvage the conversation by asking you what you want to talk about because you are offering nothing.


AnewWoman 65F
273 posts
7/7/2020 5:20 pm

I understand what you are saying. Why do they page you to chat if they expect you to lead the conversation. If they say ask them anything, I ask why did you page me to chat? What makes you think I would be interested in you? Have you read my profile? What's wrong with you that you have to seek others so far away? They are the ones who are not good at conversation, not you.


60satisfaction 66M

7/7/2020 5:37 pm

That is so typical of young people these days...
No ideas bouncing around in those thick skulls,
When schools stopped teaching grammar, composition and debate,
people have not learned to express the simplest of ideas, beyond
their most basic desires for food and shelter..


60satisfaction 66M

7/7/2020 5:40 pm

Not to mention the folks that communicate with mono-syllabic grunts and groans.
Men and women alike, it is pathetic.


javierito_4235 32M
22 posts
7/7/2020 10:17 pm

maybe you are boring jjaja


dogslife2live01 71M

7/8/2020 2:39 am

interesting battle of the sexes here... but the answer is simple. when two people finally meet and one asks “What Do You Want to Chat About?” it is code for they really have nothing to chat about
they are not compatible
there is no chemistry, but the coffee is not finished
now the question would be why would people look for blame... is it really easier than to admit no connection ?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
7/8/2020 7:12 am

So.... what’s on your mind right now? Lol
I get what you mean. It’s fine to start a conversation with “how are you?” because you either genuinely want to know, or you’re trying to start a conversation with someone new without asking the usual boring question. I will freely admit that I normally don’t start conversations but will jump in to add my voice to ones going on in a room. I’m terribly shy and lack certain social skills that most people are equipped with.
But hearing from you helps let us shy ones to try a different tack. Hugs

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
7/8/2020 8:15 am

You bring up a very valid point. Conversation should flow freely.
I don't understand why a couple of a_holes needed to reply at all.
I wonder if it makes them feel better now.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
7/8/2020 8:15 am

The men said she was at fault and the women said the men were at fault
interesting perspectives!
I can chat about most things and enjoy chatting with different people,,, but if i ask questions and get one word answers I call it a day.
I appreciate some ppl find it hard to engage in conversation, but they should use the emails instead of instant chat.


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