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Is AFF a secret from everyone who knows you?
Is AFF a secret from everyone who knows you? |
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I don't shout it from the rooftops, but then again I don't attempt to hide it either. But then again, I'm on a site much much more sexually explicit than this one.
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I haven't told anybody. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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Some people know and I am fairly picky who I let know. Then again, if someone finds out I wouldn't get upset. Besides, I have noted in my blog that if you recognize me from on here it is okay to say Hi justskin. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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It's my little dirty secret.
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7/19/2021 3:08 pm |
Totally my secret, lol. No one who knows me knows this side of me
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I haven't told anybody. Only by boyfriends and special girl friends know I love pussies and adore nice dicks
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We don't talk about it to our friends and family but we have been approached a few times by people who asked us "Excuse me, Are you nekkedcouple? from DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples?"
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It absolutely blows my mind how people try to hide. They claim it's due to work or privacy? If you're freaky and you want to get laid own up to it there's no reason for anybody be acting like a little BITCH about it. And seriously if someone you know sees your profile how would they explain that to anybody? Without looking like a dirty pervert themselves. Man up everybody 🤪
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7/20/2021 12:11 am |
I want to tell people but they wouldn't get it maybe I get more dick who knows but it being my secret is such a turn on
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7/20/2021 12:49 am |
Only one friend knows and he’s on here also. Most would claim I’m too sweet. My sexuality has floored more than one person. I hide it well I guess
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lol....so true....the way they treat us ~
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I have strict boundaries between personal and professional....very strict. Once i retire, i may consider being more open here. Then i think about anything we post here is property of the site to do as they may and considering they have been hacked more times than once. Its still a slippery slope....and makes no sense in having pics out there randomly. We shall see ~~ I voted...." no one would ever imagine "
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7/20/2021 6:19 am |
i dont hide it at all. I love the fact that it is out there and everyone around me knows about it. It usually leads to a really good time with many more friends i find. Of course there are always exceptions but i say have fun while you can.
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I have been here for many years. I have always had a face photo. I do not hide that I am here at all! Why should I? I am not ashamed of myself nor what I am doing. I have said repeatedly I wish people did not have such a vision or view of this site that they need to hide they are here. I have seen men mostly say they would never marry anyone from here. WHY?? They are here too! Why is it that if you are on here you somehow are not worthy of being married? Why would you be ashamed of wanting to find someone that you can connect with enough to have sex with them? I wish with all my heart that people did not see this as a place that is dirty or you think the people on it are dirty and have a lack of respect for them be they male or female. It is an adult social network. Stop viewing it as an online whorehouse. I don't know anyone that truly wants to marry someone that won't have sex so why view looking for a partner, boy/girl friend, husband/wife, or just an encounter with someone you sexually are compatible with. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I agree wholeheartedly to the ones that have posted that if someone sees you here THEY are here! You can't throw stones at someone that is doing what you yourself are doing. If you think someone will look down on you then maybe not have a dick pic or a vagina pic as your main pic??? Just a suggestion, but there is no reason to be ashamed to be on here. Wanting a healthy sex life with another person is good. If you put the view of this is an online whorehouse then that is on you, but you will find quickly that it is not.
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A couple of (non-DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples) friends know I am on here.
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7/20/2021 9:30 am |
My love of bwc's is a secret to everyone in the real world lol
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7/21/2021 12:26 am |
i like to keep my sexlife private if youre in it youre in it, if not the fuck you until you fuck me
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7/21/2021 6:55 am |
What other site are you on?
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This site let's you be someone who can speak without someone judging me.
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I have confided with several of my friends that I am on this site. I am very discrete about it but not ashamed of being here.
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7/21/2021 12:39 pm |
Some things can be a secret...
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Well people who I know on here know I am on it but for work purposes I try to maintain some discretion
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7/21/2021 7:03 pm |
It’s funny to me that some view being as “pushing the envelope” or taking a risk in some way. There’s an immaturity to so many of the users here and their way of presenting themselves and communicating. I don’t think it was intended to be a place for men to post their dick pics and feel as though that’s their dirty little secret. If used correctly, mature adults should be able to see each other’s faces, read thoughtful profiles, and connect accordingly.
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I really don't care who knows
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A lot of friends know and a lot don't know. I've even had a co worker come up to me and tell me he and his girlfriend came across my profile. I beleive it's all about good clean, safe, sexual fun.
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My friends would never understand so why share my little secret. I think its more fun like this.
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The only reason I don’t show my face. I can send it privately but not out to everyone.
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My job is fairly public, so discretion is a must for me.
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I don't shout it from the rooftops, but then again I don't attempt to hide it either. But then again, I'm on a site much much more sexually explicit than this one.
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Of course, my family does not know, but there is no one in my friend group who does not know. 😅
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Nobody I know would have a clue I am here or enjoy bisex every once in a while
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Agreed!
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I am on here because I like fine lookin women. Everybody knows that anyways.
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Some people post comments to stir the pot a bit. Or her tone could have been heavy sarcasm. Almost everyone else gets it.
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looking for a more sexually explicit site...
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7/25/2021 4:22 am |
Secret.....shhhh be berry berry quiet.......hahaha hunting beaver
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It's not something that comes up in everyday conversation, so it's nothing to just talk about in a vanilla setting. If and when I find people that are truly interested in the lifestyle and all it has to offer, I let them know.
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never tell anyone its my HAPPY SPACE
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I like to stay discreet
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I don't keep it from EVERYONE I know, but most don't have any idea. I've shared my bisexuality with a more than a couple of women I've had sexual relations with, mostly because they wanted to be involved.
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7/27/2021 11:10 am |
no one knows im on here lmao
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7/27/2021 3:43 pm |
i like to be discreet about it
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no one knows im on here lmao
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never tell anyone its my HAPPY SPACE
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7/27/2021 8:39 pm |
Definitely a secret lol
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Why does everyone need too know all parts of my life? I agree with the blog creator's comment when one poster said people should man up and stop acting like a Bitch. Who is this person to tell others what they should and should not do. Like Discreet Slow Ride said. most people have Government jobs and are Business owners teacher and so forth. So you mean to tell me a teacher should post their face on a site like this? Even if it is a face pic seeing it on a site like this people minds already goes too that place! What if your kids friends or a family member sees you here or your parents. That would be awkward .Most people just blurt of comments and do not think. That is why if I always ask for a face pic. The woman could be a relative or something! I am not hiding nor is it a secret. It is my own personal private time where I chose to indulge in my kinks and freaks and mild fetishes and look for other woman with the same likes. Anyway Why would I broadcast I am A Kinky Freaky Pervert??
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Why does everyone need too know all parts of my life? I agree with the blog creator's comment when one poster said people should man up and stop acting like a Bitch. Who is this person to tell others what they should and should not do. Like Discreet Slow Ride said. most people have Government jobs and are Business owners teacher and so forth. So you mean to tell me a teacher should post their face on a site like this? Even if it is a face pic seeing it on a site like this people minds already goes too that place! What if your kids friends or a family member sees you here or your parents. That would be awkward .Most people just blurt of comments and do not think. That is why if I always ask for a face pic. The woman could be a relative or something! I am not hiding nor is it a secret. It is my own personal private time where I chose to indulge in my kinks and freaks and mild fetishes and look for other woman with the same likes. Anyway Why would I broadcast I am A Kinky Freaky Pervert?? I personally don't care who knows I am here. I am here doing something that is healty and makes a person happy.
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Before anyone says it, I know I don't have a photo up!!! I didn't put one up because I am not so much actively looking to meet people as I am not here that often. I just peruse the blogs every now and then nowadays. I took the photo down as it wasn't necessary when I am not looking for that. lol My profile reflects it too.
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Before anyone says it, I know I don't have a photo up!!! I didn't put one up because I am not so much actively looking to meet people as I am not here that often. I just peruse the blogs every now and then nowadays. I took the photo down as it wasn't necessary when I am not looking for that. lol My profile reflects it too.
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It's only the most natural thing humans can do with each other.Hiding would imply that it's something dirty.Not to mention what does hiding say about the very people here that you're looking for? Most probably don't want to hear,"You're looking for sex on the internet?That's seems a bit dicey,what are you that desperate.You need to get out more often!" Using more than all the road!
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I kinda don't care that people know but a big lesson in life is this : "don't give people ammunition that they can and will use against you". Believe me when I say this "a hard lesson to learn when your assets are at risk or lost". You can leave me a message here
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I kinda don't care that people know but a big lesson in life is this : "don't give people ammunition that they can and will use against you". Believe me when I say this "a hard lesson to learn when your assets are at risk or lost". It sounds like you learned some lessons the hard way, in which case I hope you recovered and that you are in a better place.
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8/6/2021 3:29 pm |
I keep it secret.
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Oh hell no. I would never tell anyone I am on here!
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I'm fairly open about my lifestyle to the majority of my friends. But I am discrete about encounters.
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Although I agree that no one has the right to tell anyone what to do, the rest of your post is totally ignorant. This line of "a site like this" is the problem. So what is this site? Why do you see it as dirty or wrong to be here? I don't and many others don't. There is nothing dirty or wrong in wanting a healthy sex life. Now, if you are doing something you consider wrong or dirty that you have to hide it fine, but don't condemn everyone on the site including myself as we are doing something we should hide from people by being on here. Would it be awkward to find a friend or family member here? Probably a family member, but I have found friends I knew as well as friends I knew found me here. None of them said "omfg shame on you for doing this." Why? Because they are here too!!!! DUH!!!! Maybe you didn't think when you blurted this out, but if they are here they are doing the same thing you are doing unless you are again doing something really that should be hidden. I have yet to go to a restaurant and have someone at that same restaurant condemn me for going there when they are there too. Same for here. Scenario, you ask for a face pic and find out they ARE a friend/family member now what???? Someone asks you for a face pic and finds out you are friend/family member now what???? They are going to ask for a face pic just like you. It happens!! Maybe this place is there personal private time where they choose to indulge in their kinds and freaks and mild fetishes just like you. You don't own the site so you can't tell friends and family members they can't be here just because you are here either. ROFLMAO I am sure they are not broadcasting it any more than you are, but seriously, if you are not doing something illegal or against the law there is no reason to act like being here is or insinuate that others here are doing something shameful either. I personally don't care who knows I am here. I am here doing something that is healty and makes a person happy. #1. I Know I do not own the site and NEVER acting as if I did so you sentence that reads'( You don't own the site so you can't tell friends and family members they can't be here just because you are here either.' Where did you get the idea of me telling people period they can come here or not? That is no where in my post and to insinuate is IGNORANT. #2. To try and compare being on this site to being in a restaurant and being seen by family or friends is TOTALLY non-comparable and made no sense to do so and is completely IGNORANT! 3# How is the line "a site like this"totally the problem? This site is a sex site!! A site for many things. Some people use it as a regular dating site some for fantasies and others fetishes and others allot more than may be a bit to allot embarrassing. Some people maybe into piss some scat. And you Really thing they want ANYONE to know that! And I can see you are confused. A healthy sex like is not the main reason people are on here as you can see there are many like categories nor does one have to come on a site like this too have a healthy sex life so those two do not connect and is IGNORANT! #3. How would you know if friends or family are on here doing the same as me. And whats makes you think I want to know?? DUH!! Did you think of that?? And WHERE is it you figure that I am condemning Everyone on this site for being on here when I AM ON HERE MYSELF. Are you SERIOUS!! You are making NO SENSE in your reply! And if I see a pic of a family member I decline that is what stop the chat!! What do you think what?? That was a dumb question! #4. I said and you quoted "Maybe this place is there personal private time where they choose to indulge in their kinds and freaks and mild fetishes just like you' The key word is PRIVATE!! Why would I want people know what I do in my PRIVATE LIFE!! No me personally I am not doing anything illegal or gross or anything in that category but I did do not need ANYONE to know what site I am on.THIS SITE or any other cause that is my PRIVATE LIFE. Now as for friends I could have left that out as I have referred friends to this site so a few do know I am here but it is just gross and disgusting too let your family into your sex life. So a man wants his sister's or brothers or parents to know he is bi if they do not know. He wants a all male gangbang! A woman wants her family to know she is into gang bangs or bi or is into BDSM! What about co-workers I guess its okay for them to know to right? I guess the whole office should know about a persons sex life and fetishes right? Never mind that might be embarrassing or even cost them their job. Your whole reply made NOS SENSE and before you start to throw around the word ignorant you REALLY should make sure you are that smart to do so!
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I like to keep this a completely private and separate part of my life.
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8/27/2021 3:22 pm |
Very much a secret
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9/16/2021 12:32 am |
If I am asked I wouldn't hide the fact in am a member, but I prefer a little discretion
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My business
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I dont want others to know. However, I wouldnt want them to know I am on Facebook dating either
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Ever had a security clearance? You will lose it if you are identified here. Is that right? No. Is it a fact? Yes
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