How far would you travel to go spend a weekend with someone for the first time?  

LetsChillax 52F  
8328 posts
2/3/2019 9:47 am
How far would you travel to go spend a weekend with someone for the first time?

Someone you are into, not just a random fuck...
I don’t leave my city
An hour
Two-three hours
Half a day’s drive
All day drive
I’d fly
Other, described below

hunting4real 61M/52F
25 posts
5/2/2019 12:01 pm

I have a special lady friend who lives about an hour and a half away, we sometimes meet half way between us but I have gone to her place and she to we get together it is amazing. We chat on kik probably 500 times a day to stay in touch.

LetsChillax replies on 5/2/2019 1:33 pm:

fillbothenz 61M
66 posts
5/1/2019 12:57 pm

Technically we had met and spent the night together once before. Totally worth the flight...could drive, but it was six hours.

raylixit 57M
10 posts
4/30/2019 10:19 am

Back in the early days of the Internet I met a woman online and flew from Chicago to San Diego to meet her. She picked me up at the airport and was all over me while we were at the beach, but after dinner when I suggested a little private time, she bailed.

snowey8 63F  
96 posts
4/26/2019 1:48 am

i think an hours long enough get there and things might turn out, so wouldnt want to waste my time driving longer

LadyTeddieBear 61F  
1125 posts
4/25/2019 6:55 pm

I drove 4 hours to meet a guy. And it turned out well worth it. Had a wonderful time and we are still very close friends


Thebigntall 29M
30 posts
4/19/2019 10:30 pm

Depends on the woman

newcuriousbivirg 52M  
96 posts
4/19/2019 9:32 pm

707 miles

titnazzman1000 46M
71 posts
4/12/2019 8:14 pm

I met one online and fucked her a lot

Isimplysuck 65M
14 posts
3/15/2019 7:09 am

I had a LTR that was 2 hours away. 102 miles door-to-door. I would easily do 3 in a heartbeat to have that much pleasure again.

topgunfirefox 65M
20 posts
3/9/2019 10:38 pm

I am meet her in a chat room on AOL back in 1998 and she flew up from LA on Southwest on a Friday night to spend the weekend with me! She is 15 year's younger and a Foxy Perky Busty Redhead with double mound pointy nipples that could put your eye's out! She flew up 2 weeks later to go camping with me n the 4th of July Weekend and meet my sister and her family.

izwatitis 99M

2/11/2019 8:14 am

thanks for the question.

10timz10 101M
17 posts
2/8/2019 1:39 pm

well im looking at 300 miles 5 6 hrs

Chapter22018 52M
11 posts
2/7/2019 12:11 pm

Calgary to Edmonton is only 3 hours, but would have driven longer for a certain someone back in the day.

coffeeaddiction7 37M
13 posts
2/6/2019 8:10 pm

All day drive if the vibe and connection were there. Wouldn't have an issue with that.

snowey8 63F  
96 posts
2/6/2019 2:43 am

if their well worth it

BigHeart269U 54M  
5 posts
2/5/2019 9:13 am

Voted other... cuz if there's a Real connection established then ur both gonna want to make the effort to move forward. You just 'Never Know'.... and if ur not willin' to take the risk/chance to find that Truly Special Deep Soul, that touches your heart/mind/spirit/passion/core, and stirs every fiber of ur being... then perhaps you're willin to settle for something less
... for me.... I'll go the distance

Mann4u2nite 48M
22 posts
2/4/2019 11:00 pm

If we hit it off it doesn't matter how many miles to meet up

Superman4695 34M
106 posts
2/4/2019 9:51 pm

All day drive if I knew them and was into them. If they were a complete stranger I had an attraction to 2-4 hours.

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FresnoWoman 48F
358 posts
2/4/2019 6:23 pm

Tresennui, I interpreted the question to mean it wasn't the first time meeting someone, it was the first time spending a weekend with someone you'd met previously and were sufficiently into.

2-3 hours to spend a weekend with someone who lives in San Francisco or Sacramento wouldn't be too bad...but it wouldn't be as an initial meet.

LetsChillax replies on 2/4/2019 8:20 pm:

powercaps716 62M
9593 posts
2/4/2019 7:08 am

it depends on the person

fashionablegma 75F  
5863 posts
2/3/2019 11:53 pm

Depends where I am in country as do still travel a lot,he would have to be everything on my bucket list desires to travel far

tresennui 64F  
2341 posts
2/3/2019 3:38 pm

A first meet? Plan a weekend when you do not even know if you can tolerate 15 minutes with someone? Crazy!! Even if you’ve been chatting online or phone, camming, sexting, etc. you never know if there is actual physical chemistry until you actually meet. Unless money and your time is absolutely no object (airfare, hotel, time off work?) maybe better to plan coffee, an adult beverage...or a meal with someone who is a little more local.

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LetsChillax 52F  
988 posts
2/3/2019 3:14 pm

Diverse responses this time

lonlyforlove2 76M  
1704 posts
2/3/2019 2:37 pm

I have flown internationally for this and even went back.. Just do what feels good,

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CleavageFan4U 62M  
56824 posts
2/3/2019 1:27 pm

Twice I've driven most of a day, and stayed with the lady for several days.

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busxdriverx 69M

2/3/2019 12:48 pm

For a weekend of sex, wine, and a gorgeous woman? I'd drive all day to get to her.

zeke53028 60M
836 posts
2/3/2019 12:02 pm

I voted "other." If it's someone that I feel is a potential real relationship I'd go where ever. If it's just a weekend hookup probably 2 or 3 hours.

bigdog092018 53M  
32 posts
2/3/2019 11:46 am

I’m an other far?

As far as it takes. For me, I say why limit yourself, never know until you know, so with that, I’d travel anywhere if I had that connection. How far would you travel?

Wonder167 52F  
2717 posts
2/3/2019 11:24 am

It would have to be someone freakin’ awesome!

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easy_going2014 52M
10105 posts
2/3/2019 10:46 am

Hi LetsChillax.

spending a weekend with someone for the first time, for me, means that I know them already...

I have flown 900 miles to meet my lovers for a weekend...

such fun...

reminded me of this...

"She may be the beauty or the beast..."

Elvis Costello - "She"

She may be the face I can't forget
The trace of pleasure or regret
May be my treasure or the price I have to pay
She may be the song that summer sings
Maybe the chill that autumn brings
Maybe a hundred different things
Within the measure of a day
She may be the beauty or the beast
May be the famine or the feast
May turn each day into a Heaven or a Hell
She may be the mirror of my dreams
A smile reflected in a stream
She may not be what she may seem
Inside her shell...

rjtaylo1 60M
109 posts
2/3/2019 10:44 am

I have traveled 2 hrs before after getting to know someone first. It was worth it!

2Saltie2 62F  
1193 posts
2/3/2019 10:40 am

Voted other. No car and no bus service here. Will take a taxi but not more then a few towns away. I would try to make it near somewhere I could go to before or after meeting to talk. Or at least stop by on the way home since am out.

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superbjversion2 64F  
15429 posts
2/3/2019 10:03 am

I've driven up to 750 miles to spend the weekend with someone that I really wanted to meet. More than once. It was always a fellow blogger though...someone I had been interacting with for months or years.

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porterpiper1 52F
3739 posts
2/3/2019 9:54 am

with people on here playing so many games, I would not travel to meet anyone, it is too much danger out there, people getting robbed or killed or use for sex trade, no it isn't worth my safety, yes I know it could happen in the city you live in but you can meet in a place you know, and have people around you who know you

LetsChillax 52F  
988 posts
2/3/2019 9:47 am


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