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PSA Where reality and fantasy collide - staying anonymous on the site
Posted:Jan 9, 2020 2:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2020 4:35 am

If you are worried about the real world finding out you are on here , here are a few hints.

1. Dont post a picture of your face
2. Dont provide your - first or last
3. Dont talk about where you live
4. Be careful you do trust with your personal information

I know it shouldnt have to be said but apparently some people arent aware of these simple basic rules. Perhaps if I had shared this earlier they wouldnt have been blackmailed hereby a friend of their 's last summer saw their pictures and perhaps their activity would not show up on facey place.

Providing those few details can allow someone find you on facey place and find a whole slew of information about you. I wont even get into what happens on facey when you have not secured your profile.
Leaving on a jet plane
Posted:Dec 30, 2019 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2020 5:24 pm

There is often the discussion of how far will you go to meet someone from the site. I have travelled within my fair province, and generally I can make it work with my work easily.

Now I am leaving on a jet plane to meet someone in the next province over. This trip is under my own finances (thank you points) and with other considerations someone would make when meeting someone off line.

My preference has been to find someone for ongoing and local however the invitation and opportunity presented itself, along with the fact that further opportunities are easily achieved in this instance.

How far will you go?
Twelve Days of Sexmas Reboot
Posted:Dec 4, 2019 5:02 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2020 2:48 pm

Remember that Christmas isn’t just about shopping and stuffing your face, it’s also about cheesy seasonal treatments

On the first day of Christmas, my true love gave : A spanking over his knee.
Who doesn’t like a nice little spanking every now and then?

On the second day of Christmas, my true love gave : love gloves.
Wrap up those presents

On the third day of Christmas, my true love gave : French men.
Oooh lala - bien sur.

On the fourth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Four dirty words

On the fifth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Five sex swings.
Sing loud like this, “se-eeee-x swings.” ( the crescendo)

On the sixth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Six porns a-playing.
Watching porn at Christmas? tsk tsk

On the seventh day of Christmas, my true love gave : Seven sperm a-swimming. So one sperm says the other “When do we get the ovaries?” The other replies, “Ovaries! We’re not even past the throat yet!” ( an oldie but goodie)

On the eighth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Eight toys a vibing.

On the ninth day of Christmas, my true love gave to : guys stripping..
You pick the guys

On the tenth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Ten peepers peeping.
For all you Cam voyeurs

On the eleventh day of Christmas, my true love gave : Eleven perverts kiiiking.
Cybersex anyone?

On the twelfth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Twelve Sexy Bloggers
You know who you are

Twelve Sexy Bloggers
Eleven Perverts Kiiking
Ten Peepers Peeping
guys Undressing
Eight toys a vibing
Seven sperm a swimming
Six Porns a playing
Five sexxxeeee swings
Four Dirty words
French Men
Love Gloves
First a spanking over Santa's knee
Threesomes and Moresomes
Posted:Oct 28, 2019 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2019 7:25 am
Feminist pornographer Erika Lust and a slew of surveys say threesomes are the most popular sexual fantasies for both men and women.

A famed feminist porn director claims she knows the most common kink that men and women share.

Erika Lust says both sexes want threesomes and sex which are their most common fantasies.

Lust said moresomes are increasingly popular in the fantasy roster.
“(It’s) Threesomes or sex in general,” Lust told News.. “Not everybody wants to do it, but everybody is thinking about it or almost everybody would like to experience least a video situation.”

The sultry Swede, who has been making sexxx-rated cinema since 2007, said her claims are backed up by solid research — not just anecdotal evidence.

A 2018 study from Ball State University tried to get to the bottom of people’s sex fantasies. The study found that multiple-partner sex was top of the bawdy bucket list.

Study leader, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, said his team interviewed 4,5 people to determine what made men and women tick in the sack.
An eye-popping 89% admitted they’d fantasized about having threesomes. Interestingly, for women, it often includes their partner and not merely a of faceless strangers.

Straight males were more likely to lust over two women, while gender didn’t matter as much for female participants.

Recent findings in the American Sex Survey echoed that sentiment/
The poll showed that % of adults have had a threesome before while another 21% fantasized about hormone-charged hijinks with more than one person the same time.

Threesomes and sex were followed by BDSM and infidelity as other popular fantasies.

Lust, 42, now lives in Barcelona and says she’s on a mission to give women a voice in the multi-billion dollar porn industry.
She wants to create a generation of “informed masturbators” and Lust is hoping these women will change the frequently misogynistic porn industry. The result will be “saved sex lives” and relationships.
“We are all so afraid that other people will not accept our kinks,” Lust said. “That we are strange. That we are perverse, that we are different from everyone else and the funny thing is that we are not.


I myself have had mfm which were fantastic experiences. I have met couples but there was always something off in my meets, probably not enough experience and screening on my part to find the right couple.

What about you had a threesome or more, still on the bucket list?
Phone sex voice assistant.
Posted:Oct 15, 2019 5:04 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2020 7:00 am
dated a man in the air force here for quite a while. He was regularly posted in far off locations for a month or two. Thats a long time to go without sex, but we made the most of it and had some great phone sex. Phone sex can be great if you and your partner have a connection and you understand each other likes and wants. I can't imagine it would be a turn on to be having phone sex with a stranger and they come out with something in left field and send your mood crashing to the ground. I have to admit I was pretty selfish in that he would be doing most of the talking, telling me all the thing he would do to me when he got back, or telling me some fantasy story while I had my toy in hand.

He had a sexy voice and he would get down to a whisper when he was close to climax. A voice can be very appealing to me, think Sam Elliot.

I have been frustrated in the availability of voice assistants on my phones and in my vehicles. They are always women and I find the voices to be a little annoying, especially when I am using a GPS system.

My current personal vehicle and work vehicle have no option to change the voice of the assistant. However I have recently found out that I can change the voice on my apple products. My one phone is currently a British male and the other phone is an Aussie male. Its funny the pleasure I get from hearing their voice as opposed to the standard one. I can understand though how it may be way too distracting to have Sam Elliot giving me driving directions but if he could be my assistant and I could train him to give me phone sex... ooolala, a girl can dream.

I did look into why the standard voices are they way there are and I found the reasoning a little annoying. I will just have to stick with my British male Siri telling me the weather.

What about you, had good phone sex?

It's Sex O'Clock somewhere
Posted:Sep 20, 2019 4:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2019 5:43 pm
In love and sex, it’s all about timing — and it could make a difference to your health.
Having sex at different times of day could affect everything from your fertility to your intelligence, according to a report in the U.K. Sun.

— Seven thirty am,. is the top time for fertility with testosterone levels highest before 8 a.m. Men also have more stamina first thing in the morning.

— Eight thirty a.m. is the best for sex when you want to give your immune system a boost. Masturbation has the effect. Morning sex also helps fight infections.

— Noon. stress reliever. Want to calm your nerves at work? Go for a nooner. It reduces your blood pressure and chills you . But it has to be intercourse, experts say.

— Three pm. About this time men’s and women’s hormone levels are in sync. According to the UK. Sun, both participants in hormone-charged hijinks release the post-coital hormone oxytocin. It helps increase affection and is wonderful for your health. It also lowers the level of heart killer cortisol.

— Eight p.m. After 40, don’t get too sleepy. Abstaining from sex could impact your brain. A University of Maryland study found that regular sex generates more cells in some parts of the brain — including where we retain information.

— Ten p.m. Goodnight. But before you embrace the Sandman, have an orgasm. It raises hormone levels and brings sleepiness and calm. Endorphins are a natural sleeping pill.

According the article just about any time is great for sex, although no mention about the benefits of that middle of the night romp.

Right now in my life I do prefer the 3:00pm orgasm as well as an OOOOOO before bed does help me sleep so much better. When is your favourite time of day for sex and why?

Provocative Bare Shoulders
Posted:Jun 27, 2019 5:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2019 7:22 am
I read an article where a former US Navy Chaplain was requesting women cover their shoulders in church to prevent mens minds from straying.

I never have considered bare shoulders to be enticing. I never considered it to be an erotic zone on my body. Personally I have big shoulders and I tend to do what I can to camouflage them.

Remember when shoulder pads were in fashion. Should we all go back to wearing them for the sake of maintaining chaste minds.

When I attend church I always figured the guy behind me had a good view of my butt, I never though he would be considering my shoulders as part of his sexual fantasy. I have heard of many types of fetishes but a shoulder fetish is new to me.

What say you do bare shoulders float your boat?

Only in Canada eh!
Posted:Jun 26, 2019 5:12 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2020 6:03 am
Our birthday is fast approaching and I thought I would share why I am proud to live here.

1) We’re Very Polite
It’s a pretty well-known fact that Canadians are famous for being polite. If we’re not holding a door open for someone or sharing a friendly smile, we’re probably apologizing several times for something that wasn’t even our fault. Better polite than rude, eh?

2) We Have Beautiful Landscapes
Canada is an expansive piece of land, and it therefore has a wide range of diverse landscapes. The scenery across the country is pretty impressive, and it’s well-known for housing a lot of beauty. From the awe-inspiring majesty of the Rocky Mountains to the wide open skies of the Prairies to the lush greenery of the coast, there’s a lot to love about our country’s terrain. My favourite place is smack in the middle - Algonquin Park.

3) We Are Diverse
Canada is home to people from all over the world of different ethnicities and heritages, and that’s something to be proud of!

4) We Have Cool Wildlife
We have grizzly bears, polar bears, caribou, moose, beavers, wolves, bison, whales and cougars. Chances are good you will see this wildlife in action!

5) We Are Really Good at Hockey - need I say more

6) We Gave the World Ryan Gosling, Ryan Reynolds, Keanu Reaves and Jim Carrey
Canada is home to some very talented people, the above mentioned being just a few of many. But let’s be honest: what would the world do without The Notebook or Dumb and Dumber? Not to mention Joni Mitchell, Neil Young and Lenoard Cohen.

Honourable mentions to BACON, Poutine and Maple Syrup.

Canada continually ranks at the top of the scale for quality of life, humanitarian outreach and overall the best ranked countries in the world.

Did I mention we are sexy as hell tooooo,,,,

Manic Masturbator
Posted:Jun 16, 2019 5:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2019 7:23 am

Wow another blog about masturbation - do you sense a theme here?

So I read this article about a recent arbitration hearing in Canada about someone being fired for masturbating at work.

Mr. AB decided to relieve himself in the washroom stall at work.
And he got fired for it.

A Nova Scotia company was justified in firing a unionized worker for masturbating in a washroom at his workplace, a labour arbitrator has ruled.

According to the arbitrator, the frisky employee’s hormone-charged hijinks could be heard by his fellow employees who claimed it caused them “embarrassment and distress.”

The employee’s union, Unifor, claimed the man suffered from sex addiction and couldn’t help himself.

And while the man — whose name was not released — had been warned about similar antics two years previous, the union claimed he hadn’t been warned.
Unifor said instead company officials spoke to him about “unusual noises” emanating from the toilet stall.

The ruling was released last week and posted on a legal database. This is not something labour boards typically deal with.

“Neither (the company) nor the union’s representative had been able to find any case dealing with masturbation in the workplace,” the ruling states.
The crux was whether masturbating in a stall warranted termination.

“On this point I accept that there is nothing illegal about masturbation,” the adjudicator wrote but added his fellow workers were violated.

“He instead conducted an activity that he knew (and certainly ought to have known) would and did cause embarrassment and distress to his co-workers once they became aware that he was doing it in close proximity to them.”

The employee testified when the urge to masturbate overwhelmed him he made sure there was no one in the stall next to him.

He also denied moaning and groaning and added he kept his phone on mute if he was watching X-rated videos.

“Obviously if that were true no one would have known that he was doing it,” the arbitrator said. “But people did know. They could only have known about it because they could hear it.”

At first, two of the man’s co-workers went to the union. But when the union allegedly blew the matter off they confronted management.

After being warned, complaints began again two years later with one worker saying the masturbation sessions were “more frequent and brazen.”
At that point, the manic masturbator was fired.

I will admit I myself have done this but in the privacy of my vehicle. I have taken naughty photo's in the office lavatory and done some teasing but full out masturbation and orgasm at work - not I. I know I cant control my reactions. How about you, Have you ever?

Would you complain to management saying it caused you distress and embarrassment?

Its such a harmless pursuit of pleasure, I would not be put off. I get more offended by they food people bring in then I would be by someone masturbating.
Go Forth and Masturbate
Posted:May 23, 2019 5:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2019 3:29 pm
HAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH. (where's Hallmark when you need them)

National Masturbation Day, also known as International Masturbation Day and in Britain and Australia as "Wankers Day", is an annual event celebrated on May 28, to protect and celebrate the right to masturbate. The first National Masturbation Day was observed May 7, 1995, after sex-positive retailer Good Vibrations declared the day in honor of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders, who was fired in 1994 by President Bill Clinton for suggesting masturbation be part of the sex education curriculum for students.

International Masturbation Day has since been expanded to include the entire month of May as International Masturbation Month.

Masturbation can:
reduce stress
release tension
enhance sleep quality
boost concentration
elevate mood
relieve menstrual cramps
alleviate pain
improve sex

Masturbation has also been identified as a strategy to improve sexual health by promoting intimacy, exploring self-pleasure, desires, and needs.
Masturbation also has sexual health benefits specifically for older women, such as less vaginal dryness and decreased pain during sex.

Apparently some people view it as inappropriate to masturbate while in a relationship. I know that certainly wouldn't apply to anyone on here.

So what do you say shall we set a world record on May 28th for masturbation?
Rock Candy Blow Job AKA Pop Rock Hummer
Posted:Apr 29, 2019 5:02 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2019 3:13 pm
My favourite place to buy sex toys online is having a big sale. I went on the site to see if there was anything new and low and behold they had an article on the art of giving a great blow job.

It was an interesting read, there was nothing too earth shattering there. One thing I have learned is every man is a bit different in how they like to receive one.

the end of the article was some hints on how to change the every day boring blow job. Haha I know most blow jobs arent boring nor are they every day....

The one idea was to use pop rocks while giving a blow job. I googled it and it appears to be quite common. Interestingly enough my sex toy place doesnt sell pop rocks though. Looking forward to trying this out.

Never to to learn new things. Sometimes I feel so naïve.

Have you tried it...did you enjoy it?

Anything new you've learned and care to share?

Spring Fever
Posted:Apr 15, 2019 7:07 am
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2019 1:51 pm
Woke up to a wintery blast today.

What's a person to do but create flower art.....

I've shown you mine, now you show me yours?

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