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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2019 8:51 am

And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

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My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

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another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
Rainy day
Posted:May 25, 2019 8:14 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2019 3:55 pm
And how I want to spend my Saturday,

The search goes on n on even though I'm running out of fucks'to give.

I have been actively searching for a male rope bottom to practice bondage on, but lets just say there's no line up of men looking for kink without sex.
If I had a larger population of queer men in my area then finding a non-sexual partner would be easier,... which I should ask my friend if he would let me practice on his partner as he may adventurous enough to try.

There is a kink party coming up again, and I am hoping to get a couple of meet n greets tossed in, and the dinner night out with other kinksters. Other than that, just yard work and some hikin n fishin. Plus work a trip to grande prairie in July'ish.

Anyway, I better get on the hwy.
Enjoy your day
Wknd plans
Posted:May 24, 2019 10:00 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2019 7:51 am

Its going to be a busy one this wknd,
Lots n lots of driving, and my to-do list is just getting longer. Lol

Still chuckling over my ad for a handyman some how equaled looking for nsa sex. But it leaves me trying to fit in all the projects / maintenance into what time I have available, plus try and get some relax time in.

Times like this I sure miss having a reliable partner for sex, yanno to work off some stress and to relax the body n mind.
Or a massage.
Or just have someone to have a fun, relaxed conversation with, without having to spend the whole time deflecting his attempts at sex chat. Lol

Whoever keeps saying to "look on standard dating sites" need to die in fire and suffer the whole time.

Have a fun weekend with your lineup of hot dates!
Thirsty Thursday
Posted:May 23, 2019 10:39 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 11:37 am

Enjoy your weekend search!
Yanno your old when...
Posted:May 17, 2019 12:56 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 9:36 am
A nude pic gets no love, comments (pos or neg), messages, nada nothing zilch.

People ask why I rarely post on the kink site, well its like a giant blackhole of nothingness ever since i turned 39.
Just a few really old, really young, fetishists, or hookup guys messaged over the years.
And on the vanilla blogland obviously I can not chat about sex, kink, bdsm, alternative lifestyles... or I'm branded as just good for a hookup.

Long wknd here, busy with yard work and house stuff.

Just thought I would share that #NotAll women have it easy.
Just because you are tossed random nsa/anonymous sex doesn't mean thats a good thing, as I'm sure you have less desirable women in your inbox on occasion.
Thursday thoughts
Posted:May 16, 2019 10:28 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2019 9:33 pm

Uncaring sex vs fulltime relationship sex, why is there such a great divide between them or its one vs the other.
Are we so far removed from the human connection that we view others as a thing to do rather than a person to meet.

I know I have had to change the way I meet from making plans to meet a specific person, I now make plans to shop or eat in that area and if he shows up then good if not whatever because I'm already doing something. My time was not treated well because I was willing to meet and travel, being treated as a lesser person because of that meant a hard lesson learned to not make plans.
I just don't understand the race to who can stay the most detached, disinterested, and cold...yet desire passionate, fun, trusting sex.

Pondering again because #SexuallyFrustrated ...and lonely, tired of masturbating, mentally bored with dating sites. Lol

Enjoy your day and don't forget to line up your hot dates for the wknd
Wat u doin?
Posted:May 15, 2019 10:55 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2019 9:38 am
Almost broke my phone typing that headline out, but I do shorten up a few words like 'probs', 'bec' and of course 'lol'.

When it comes to connection, hru is not going to catch my attention but I also tire of reading big words full of fluff n stuff.
In case you haven't guessed I tend to be straight to the point, but I have learned tact and the take the other person's feelings into account. Which means I rarely tell it like it is and I've learned to gloss it over.

And then it comes to searching for people that can connect with me, I will let you know when I figure that out. That book I mentioned before by G. Ogden is helping me get back that hopeful feeling that there are men out there who support female sexuality beyond his dic-centric thoughts.
There are fleeting glimmers of maybe I will find him, so thats good because I have been working hard at lowering and controlling my libido, my thoughts, desires, and everything in between. My interests in bdsm and sex are more on the backburner...

But for now I wade thru the shallow waters of 'hru' and 'wat u doin' types.

Enjoy the day
And no I did not ask any questions today, I'm just pulling thoughts out of my head and mulling them over.
Posted:May 13, 2019 4:09 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2019 6:52 pm

I know I not very good flirting, though it helps to have practice but I just not into games or seeing the scared look in his eyes. Lol

I would rather just be forward with my intentions but apparently it's too manly of an approach.

So how subtle do you have to be?

Asking for a friend. 🙄

I know its all about how attractive she is but I am crushingly bored right now and looking for something interesting to read. Lol
And yes aware men only respond to attractive women, so wondering what attractive women do when and if they actually flirt with men.
For science yanno.
Sinday in the badlands
Posted:May 12, 2019 8:34 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2019 11:44 am
Sunny day and no rain in sight.

But still looking for that majic button to great sex.
Not just any ol'sex, but that soul freeing, body melting, ... yanno that kind that just a thought of it brings a flush of heat.

Enjoy the rest of the day
No emotional attachment
Posted:May 11, 2019 2:05 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2019 10:42 am

And having the perfect body.

So that is the two main points for the sex doll sales in Canada.
I find it fascinating, the dolls that is, the amount of detail and work that goes it them. They are even being sold with some computer add ons like moaning, and even easy 'conversation'.
So why don't more men use them
No emotional needs, no conversation, you don't have to even think about thier pleasure, no need for pillow talk, no dinner, no effort, and you dont have to worry whether she will be fat or 'not attractive' or 'old.

I have checked them out a few times for various reasons, even the male dolls ate interesting but I'm waiting for more the AI plus moving ones as I would require it to move his hips. Lol
But I have been looking for a mannequin for shibari rope practice and started looking at those real dolls, but a bit expensive just to practice rope stuffs on.

Then I started reading the sales pitch on a few of those sites and found that they mentioned the "no emotional attachment" a few times.
I get it, I really do, the not wanting to have romantic relationships, but is it that bad to see the living self cleaning fleshlight as a real person?

Anyway, sidetracked, now I better get back to my search for a mannequin with moveable arms. Lol

Enjoy the day
Question for humpday
Posted:May 8, 2019 10:06 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2019 1:28 pm
Guys, what are your thoughts around women that enjoy sex?

Not just the women doing sex to make you happy, but the ones that actually enjoy sex because they just, well, enjoy it. I know lots of people use sex just to dump a load or fill an empty spot inside them (no pun intended), like the hookup people that flood dating sites. I'm not questioning that.

Relationship material? Hookup only? What have you?

Enjoy the mid week day its all downhill from here!
Question of the day
Posted:May 7, 2019 3:58 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2019 3:52 pm
if you prefer thin attractive blond women, would you still meet with a brunette? Or any other type of woman? Or as long as shes blonde its all good?

And saying "it depends" is a lazy copout, of course it depends on how attractive and easy the brunette is yada yada yada.
Banana comparison pretty much the same idea. Lol

Yeppers, I really do wonder about these kinda things.

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