Well, Joy Has Me Thinking Again, Yes Or No?  

cinnamon0133 54F  
2234 posts
7/9/2019 1:50 pm
Well, Joy Has Me Thinking Again, Yes Or No?


Joy Has a blog up about long or short hair. I used to have long, straight hair. When I became pregnant with my oldest daughter I cut my hair and it came back curly and frizzy. If I style it it takes 90 minutes to blow dry and straighten. It dosent matter what products I use, the second there is the slightest bit of humidity or a 2 minute sun shower and I'm right back to the curls and frizz.
I've wanted to shave my head for 20 years now. I don't want to stay shaved, I just want to see if it grows back better then it is right now.
I haven't done it because I was raising my girls and I didn't want them judged because of me.
I asked strummingfingers what he would think if I shaved my head his response was "I think they make beautiful wigs " 不不 Clearly he is not on board不不
Then again he isn't my bf, he isn't my SO, we are 0% no strings ( for almost 5 years now不不).
So, I've wanted to do this for soooooooooooo many years!!
Yes Or No?

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/11/2019 5:50 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I get my sister to cut my hair with electric clippers. I like to keep it short but I've not been tempted to use a #1 blade yet
I have used it不不 it's awesome!! I'm still letting it grow back

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citizen4722 61M  
62337 posts
7/10/2019 3:59 pm

I get my sister to cut my hair with electric clippers. I like to keep it short but I've not been tempted to use a #1 blade yet


author51 56F  
77042 posts
7/9/2019 10:42 pm

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    absolutely!
    I hear it's very liberating to do.

    Unfortunately, there is way too much stock placed on a long head of hair... women buy into this man ideal that short hair/ no hair is 'mannish' or not sexy.

    I have seen makeover shows were women actually cry when getting their hair cut... so stupid

    Bullocks I say...

    Do it girl!
Great answer and so bloody true..If the woman loves her long hair then so be it but never keep it long just because a man likes it...

Shave your head my friend if you so choose.. I love my short hair... Just much easier to manage it is..

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papis_baby_girl 41F
5076 posts
7/9/2019 10:06 pm

absolutely!
I hear it's very liberating to do.

Unfortunately, there is way too much stock placed on a long head of hair... women buy into this man ideal that short hair/ no hair is 'mannish' or not sexy.

I have seen makeover shows were women actually cry when getting their hair cut... so stupid

Bullocks I say...

Do it girl!

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:50 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Chances are it will grow back the same as it is now. It changed originally because of the change in your hormones. Shaving won't affect your hormones....just your temper. lol But it could still be fun to shave it...just cause you can! If you want it super short or shaved, you should just do it!
I know it's hormones lol. I can dream不不

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:48 pm

    Quoting redmustang91:
    Some people will assume you have cancer and are bald from chemo drug treatment.
    It is your head and your hair do what you like, but expect some dumb feedback.
I have never been one to care about what others think of me

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:38 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I think you have to do what is best for you hun, and strumming does have a point if you did shave your head they do have beautiful wigs.. I hope you have a great day and just do what feels right for you..
I will be blogging soon, you will see if I chickened out不不

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:34 pm

    Quoting PAWAPh:
    ...I've Wanted To Dye My Hair Blue For Soooooooooooo Many Years!!!
Do It!! It's just colour, get a blue that shampoos in and out, it only lasts for a few weeks. My natural hair colour is brown with a lot of dark red mixed in lol. I've been blue, pink, red, purple, blonde and black. I was even green once but that was a mixing mistake不不不

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:31 pm

    Quoting PAWAPh:
    Hey, Cinnamon.

    Yes Or No?
    Yes!

    Jack
I will be posting a blog in a few minutes, you will see if I went through with it or not!

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:28 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    You should do what makes you happy. Sinead rocked the bald look. Some women can, but expect people who aren't privy to your reasons, to give you the look, as if you're sick. People assume too much based on appearance....Perhaps it's not our fault we are dumb. Worse, do it in the winter, this way if you don't like it, you can wear a hat, until it grows out.
I have never been a person who gives a flying fuck about what others think, I'm lucky that way. It's just hair, it grows back, if I do this不不

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:25 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Go ahead.
    . shave your head.. soooo sexy

    . and brave!
    If you keep it long... make sure you get it outta my fucking face... when you sit on me babe! 歹
There you are, I'm glad you're back

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:23 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I have really short hair and its fairly thin due to both mom and dad when i had my accident they shaved the back because of a bruise and since it grows fast but still very thin..i started taking vitamin B-12 and its getting thicker also i was told to use biotin infused with peppermint stimulates hair growth ..two good tip will see if either works..lol
I'm a all in type of woman!

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:22 pm

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    It is your hair. Do what you want. You might hate it but you never have to do it again.
    If you like it you like it.
    Why not wait until you are getting it done in public for cancer donations?
My best friend died of cancer 5 years ago, my daughter (she was 14 at the time) shaved her head to support my friend before she died, my daughter had waist long hair

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:19 pm

    Quoting shadowtoo69:
    It's your hair do what you like. The only time you should listen to someone else is if doing what they like makes you happy.
Thank you

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:17 pm

    Quoting gtrider28:
    Don't shave it just cut it short short in a spike doooo Those look nice
I'm a all in type of woman lol

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cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 3:16 pm

    Quoting Apollorising58:
    Do it if it's lower maintenance and if you look good in a wig!
I HATE wigs lol

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pagancountrygirl 61F
4192 posts
7/9/2019 3:09 pm

Chances are it will grow back the same as it is now. It changed originally because of the change in your hormones. Shaving won't affect your hormones....just your temper. lol But it could still be fun to shave it...just cause you can! If you want it super short or shaved, you should just do it!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


redmustang91 59M  
9362 posts
7/9/2019 2:46 pm

Some people will assume you have cancer and are bald from chemo drug treatment.
It is your head and your hair do what you like, but expect some dumb feedback.


Tmptrzz 56F  
60685 posts
7/9/2019 2:40 pm

I think you have to do what is best for you hun, and strumming does have a point if you did shave your head they do have beautiful wigs.. I hope you have a great day and just do what feels right for you..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


PAWAPh 43M
6836 posts
7/9/2019 2:35 pm

...I've Wanted To Dye My Hair Blue For Soooooooooooo Many Years!!!


PAWAPh 43M
6836 posts
7/9/2019 2:34 pm

Hey, Cinnamon.

Yes Or No?
Yes!

Jack


Wonder167 52F  
3214 posts
7/9/2019 2:32 pm

You should do what makes you happy. Sinead rocked the bald look. Some women can, but expect people who aren't privy to your reasons, to give you the look, as if you're sick. People assume too much based on appearance....Perhaps it's not our fault we are dumb. Worse, do it in the winter, this way if you don't like it, you can wear a hat, until it grows out.

Life is like a camera. Focus on what's important.
Capture the good times.
Develop from the negatives and if things don't work out,
Take another shot!


Paulxx001 62M
9307 posts
7/9/2019 2:31 pm

Go ahead.
. shave your head.. soooo sexy

. and brave!
If you keep it long... make sure you get it outta my fucking face... when you sit on me babe! 歹

Words are like meatloaf- they can be sculpted into any shape you choose.
I wrote, a one word blog.How Short Can It Be And Still


bitchkitty2017 66F  
4187 posts
7/9/2019 2:21 pm

I have really short hair and its fairly thin due to both mom and dad when i had my accident they shaved the back because of a bruise and since it grows fast but still very thin..i started taking vitamin B-12 and its getting thicker also i was told to use biotin infused with peppermint stimulates hair growth ..two good tip will see if either works..lol


looking4u69ca 58M  
647 posts
7/9/2019 2:16 pm

It is your hair. Do what you want. You might hate it but you never have to do it again.
If you like it you like it.
Why not wait until you are getting it done in public for cancer donations?


shadowtoo69 64M  
565 posts
7/9/2019 2:09 pm

It's your hair do what you like. The only time you should listen to someone else is if doing what they like makes you happy.


gtrider28 62M  
944 posts
7/9/2019 2:01 pm

Don't shave it just cut it short short in a spike doooo Those look nice


Apollorising58 58M  
1705 posts
7/9/2019 1:58 pm

Do it if it's lower maintenance and if you look good in a wig!


cinnamon0133 54F  
17864 posts
7/9/2019 1:52 pm

If I do this I'm doing it FAST, I will grab a bunch of hair in the front and cut!!! There will be NO TURNING BACK!!!

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