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rm_Mike4you15 51M
72 posts
11/3/2020 5:58 pm
Ladies—what pics do you prefer men have on their profile?

Ladies—what pics do you prefer men have on their profile?
Totally naked
Partially naked
Completely clothed


BiggLala 48F  
29070 posts
11/3/2020 6:16 pm

It depends on the man and how he sets up the shot. Nude pics can be tastefully done...and done well.

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rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/6/2020 2:27 pm:
Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts!

idblueswoman 62F  
784 posts
11/3/2020 8:16 pm

i would say clothed followed by partilly naked. It's alway interesting the photos that people choose to use here. I won't show my face and I keep my lady parts covered.


idblueswoman 62F  
784 posts
11/3/2020 8:20 pm

i didn't check out the results before I voted, but they sure are telling don't you think?


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:39 pm:
Absolutely...I am pretty surprised. Thank you for answering.

Miner1980Brown1 58F
97 posts
11/3/2020 8:37 pm

I have to agree with BiggLala. If the picture is not tastefully done then it does nothing for me. I will admit that I am so tired of dick pictures especially of the ones that are just hanging there. I realize some are so large that they are weighted down. Hold them with your hand to give it some depth and meaning. I do not mind the pussy ones for some odd reason.

I enjoy those pictures with clothing done in a seductive manner. It allows my imagination to run wild.


TokenBlackChik 34F
131 posts
11/3/2020 10:11 pm

Posting a dick pic on A.FF is like shouting "I'm hungry" in everyone's face while grocery shopping... Like, it's fkn obvious why you're here but you don't need to be obnoxious about it...


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/6/2020 2:28 pm:
Thank you for responding!

author51 57F
104846 posts
11/3/2020 11:21 pm

I voted partially naked as I love a tease shot.If he is totally nude,I do not mind either...

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rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/5/2020 8:07 pm:
Thank you very much for responding. The survey results are certainly surprising.

jajo696 65F
2764 posts
11/3/2020 11:47 pm

Couldnt vote....my choice wasnt there. Some skin , but not THAT skin....too many of that here...ya seen one ya seen em all.

Tasteful and alluring is the key. If someone wants to see body parts , they will ask. Just enough skin showing to draw someone in...to want to see more. ~~


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:41 pm:
Thank you for your comment! So far, I have been pretty surprised with the poll.

pocogato12 68F  
35657 posts
11/4/2020 3:38 am

Hope you publish the results- maybe all those dick pics would get dressed

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rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:46 pm:
You can see the poll results, and they definitely support what you are saying.!

bitchkitty2017 68F  
5304 posts
11/4/2020 4:04 am

There is no mystery if the guy has a crapload of dick pics ..I rather be bit by a rabid dog than see a profile with men screwing a multitude of women...We all know how to so why waste time with show and tell pics...


Eddie13021 73M  
5 posts
11/4/2020 4:39 am

I had to go back and see what pictures I have on my profile. Yes you can see my dick in 2 of them quite clearly and only one of an erection. I chose the others so you can see I'm not one dimensional.

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Pepper_Pott 36F
237 posts
11/4/2020 4:45 am

Pictures of men eating KFC skin naked always gets me hot! 🍗


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:47 pm:
That was very funny!

1seeking1 55F
3323 posts
11/4/2020 5:48 am

Main pic, partially dressed,, dick pics in private album with measuring tape on top 😉


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:42 pm:
Very interesting. Thank you for responding!

Massass1963 57M
577 posts
11/4/2020 5:55 am

    Quoting TokenBlackChik:
    Posting a dick pic on A.FF is like shouting "I'm hungry" in everyone's face while grocery shopping... Like, it's fkn obvious why you're here but you don't need to be obnoxious about it...
Don't you think a boob pic is pretty much the same thing, though? (I didn't vote...just this comment so as not to mess up the poll)


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/4/2020 5:58 am

This question is asked all the time and usually has the same results; however, most don't listen to it. There are those that will insist that women really do want to see a dick first even when they say no. There are women that want that, but honestly, it is like when you are flooded with nothing but the 'wall of cock' every morning for a woman it gets lame. We are not the same as men in this sense, but yes there are those that will want it. Most women know you have a dick, even ugly guys not just good looking guys have a dick. Quasimodo had a dick!!! No one is choosing Quasimodo based on his dick. It may play a part in it, but if that is what you set forward first it says more about the guy than he thinks. If you went to a job interview you want to put your best qualification for that job forward. If the best qualification you have is your dick that is like saying the best qualification you have for being in that job position is you are breathing....... go back to the Quasimodo comment. ALL MEN have a dick, not BEING a dick is the trick!!!

Laughing at this seriously - men can see 1 billion boobs and want to see 1 more set. Women (on a whole) could care less to see 1 billion dick shots. Most of the dick shots are close ups so close you can see down to his scrotum through the hole. As also stated most women don't want to see you screwing other women. That is a turn off and we don't normally want to be the next one you post photos of either.


WyoCowboy7751 67M
959 posts
11/4/2020 6:55 am

My response too a previous BLOG & FITS here also !!!!
OOHH !! Lord !! Here we go again I really do wonder ; as many times as this Subject & a Few Others have been brought up in the BLOGS if their is a Category in The Guinness Book of World Records for them !!!


seems6666 50F
4156 posts
11/4/2020 11:10 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    This question is asked all the time and usually has the same results; however, most don't listen to it. There are those that will insist that women really do want to see a dick first even when they say no. There are women that want that, but honestly, it is like when you are flooded with nothing but the 'wall of cock' every morning for a woman it gets lame. We are not the same as men in this sense, but yes there are those that will want it. Most women know you have a dick, even ugly guys not just good looking guys have a dick. Quasimodo had a dick!!! No one is choosing Quasimodo based on his dick. It may play a part in it, but if that is what you set forward first it says more about the guy than he thinks. If you went to a job interview you want to put your best qualification for that job forward. If the best qualification you have is your dick that is like saying the best qualification you have for being in that job position is you are breathing....... go back to the Quasimodo comment. ALL MEN have a dick, not BEING a dick is the trick!!!

    Laughing at this seriously - men can see 1 billion boobs and want to see 1 more set. Women (on a whole) could care less to see 1 billion dick shots. Most of the dick shots are close ups so close you can see down to his scrotum through the hole. As also stated most women don't want to see you screwing other women. That is a turn off and we don't normally want to be the next one you post photos of either.
THAT is the BEST response to this question I've ever seen! Brilliant!


sussi1028 60F
854 posts
11/4/2020 12:22 pm

    Quoting Miner1980Brown1:
    I have to agree with BiggLala. If the picture is not tastefully done then it does nothing for me. I will admit that I am so tired of dick pictures especially of the ones that are just hanging there. I realize some are so large that they are weighted down. Hold them with your hand to give it some depth and meaning. I do not mind the pussy ones for some odd reason.

    I enjoy those pictures with clothing done in a seductive manner. It allows my imagination to run wild.
Oh yes, I feel similar when it comes to \8 pics
I for sure would like to see a penis when it is erected
What woman does not want to know what is waiting for her
Never was with an XXXL man who was just hanging there, was always upright if the man functioned also while making love.
In my case, it is not the size, just desire a steel hard \8 and one with a very nice head

When it comes to pussy pics, oh yes, I want to see the shape of the pussy, the lips, it can be a major turn on or off

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rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/4/2020 1:17 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    Don't you think a boob pic is pretty much the same thing, though? (I didn't vote...just this comment so as not to mess up the poll)
I know this wasn't for me, but I want to answer. Many a man has said it is the same thing, but it isn't. Why? Because women are not men. There are some that do want to see dick pics, but most do not regardless of how many times it is answered. Men like to see boob photos, maybe not all, but most do! Women on the other hand are the opposite. There are women that do like to see a dick pic, but most don't care to. Why you ask again? Because women are not going to meet Quasimodo no matter how his dick looks. There is another saying outside of "ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick" and that is "Men need a location, women need a reason." Again, there is no solid 'all men/women' statement outside of we all breathe, eat, drink, pee/crap, and die. There will always be a woman that wants to see a dick the same as there are men that don't want to see boob photos, BUT on a whole more men want to see those photos than women want to see those photos. You are comparing apples and oranges. Because you want to see something doesn't mean others want to see it. It may be totally obvious as the original comment you quoted and commented on yourself, but most women on here know that we get far more men looking at us if we have a boob photo out there as opposed to not having one. If men just realized that having a dick photo out is not as fascinating to women as you think it is you may do better. Again, there will be women that want to see it, but most won't care about your dick until we find out you yourself are not a dick. Then we ask for it.

Let me also let you know that there is a good deal of guys on here that are using women's profiles so they can see dick photos as well as couples that are actually just a gun. I will end it with do you want a bunch of views or do you want an actual meet??? Because 'someone' viewed your dick doesn't mean you will get a quality meet out of it. I know it is far more difficult for men to get views on here, but this is why. When faced with 100 profiles and 85% of them are dick photos and "I want to f*ck" we just go by them as they are just a blur to us.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:43 pm:
That was a great reply, thank you! The poll results are definitely surprising

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/4/2020 1:18 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    THAT is the BEST response to this question I've ever seen! Brilliant!
Thank you! I try to be honest and not hurtful in my replies. I try to post in a way that is easy to understand as well.


papis_baby_girl 41F
5388 posts
11/4/2020 2:27 pm

does it even matter? men won't listen and they will continue to post gratuitous cock pics because this is a 'sex site'.

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rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/4/2020 7:44 pm:
I am a writer, so thank you for the intriguing quotes. Thank you also for participating.

TokenBlackChik 34F
131 posts
11/4/2020 4:19 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    Don't you think a boob pic is pretty much the same thing, though? (I didn't vote...just this comment so as not to mess up the poll)
Please see rdy2try4's response. She nailed it for me. 👍🏾


TokenBlackChik 34F
131 posts
11/4/2020 4:21 pm

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    I know this wasn't for me, but I want to answer. Many a man has said it is the same thing, but it isn't. Why? Because women are not men. There are some that do want to see dick pics, but most do not regardless of how many times it is answered. Men like to see boob photos, maybe not all, but most do! Women on the other hand are the opposite. There are women that do like to see a dick pic, but most don't care to. Why you ask again? Because women are not going to meet Quasimodo no matter how his dick looks. There is another saying outside of "ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick" and that is "Men need a location, women need a reason." Again, there is no solid 'all men/women' statement outside of we all breathe, eat, drink, pee/crap, and die. There will always be a woman that wants to see a dick the same as there are men that don't want to see boob photos, BUT on a whole more men want to see those photos than women want to see those photos. You are comparing apples and oranges. Because you want to see something doesn't mean others want to see it. It may be totally obvious as the original comment you quoted and commented on yourself, but most women on here know that we get far more men looking at us if we have a boob photo out there as opposed to not having one. If men just realized that having a dick photo out is not as fascinating to women as you think it is you may do better. Again, there will be women that want to see it, but most won't care about your dick until we find out you yourself are not a dick. Then we ask for it.

    Let me also let you know that there is a good deal of guys on here that are using women's profiles so they can see dick photos as well as couples that are actually just a gun. I will end it with do you want a bunch of views or do you want an actual meet??? Because 'someone' viewed your dick doesn't mean you will get a quality meet out of it. I know it is far more difficult for men to get views on here, but this is why. When faced with 100 profiles and 85% of them are dick photos and "I want to f*ck" we just go by them as they are just a blur to us.
You are such a breath of fresh air! Thank you!


Didi2968 52F  
1 post
11/4/2020 6:34 pm

Any pic that does NOT include you having sex with, giving or getting oral from another woman. Total turn off and I will skip right past your profile because of it.


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/4/2020 7:18 pm

Thank you! I have been gone for a bit, but I do answer every now and then. lol


oldman1973 72M/35F  
568 posts
11/5/2020 2:17 am

I Phon love seeing pics and vids of me naked with cum dripping from their cocks ready to feed me, but must me also full face with naked body and hard erect cocks


jajo696 65F
2764 posts
11/5/2020 2:26 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    Don't you think a boob pic is pretty much the same thing, though? (I didn't vote...just this comment so as not to mess up the poll)
Men ( most) are much more visual creatures....wouldnt you agree? Nuff said~~


Massass1963 57M
577 posts
11/5/2020 5:03 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    I know this wasn't for me, but I want to answer. Many a man has said it is the same thing, but it isn't. Why? Because women are not men. There are some that do want to see dick pics, but most do not regardless of how many times it is answered. Men like to see boob photos, maybe not all, but most do! Women on the other hand are the opposite. There are women that do like to see a dick pic, but most don't care to. Why you ask again? Because women are not going to meet Quasimodo no matter how his dick looks. There is another saying outside of "ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick" and that is "Men need a location, women need a reason." Again, there is no solid 'all men/women' statement outside of we all breathe, eat, drink, pee/crap, and die. There will always be a woman that wants to see a dick the same as there are men that don't want to see boob photos, BUT on a whole more men want to see those photos than women want to see those photos. You are comparing apples and oranges. Because you want to see something doesn't mean others want to see it. It may be totally obvious as the original comment you quoted and commented on yourself, but most women on here know that we get far more men looking at us if we have a boob photo out there as opposed to not having one. If men just realized that having a dick photo out is not as fascinating to women as you think it is you may do better. Again, there will be women that want to see it, but most won't care about your dick until we find out you yourself are not a dick. Then we ask for it.

    Let me also let you know that there is a good deal of guys on here that are using women's profiles so they can see dick photos as well as couples that are actually just a gun. I will end it with do you want a bunch of views or do you want an actual meet??? Because 'someone' viewed your dick doesn't mean you will get a quality meet out of it. I know it is far more difficult for men to get views on here, but this is why. When faced with 100 profiles and 85% of them are dick photos and "I want to f*ck" we just go by them as they are just a blur to us.
That is a well thought out reply, I'll agree to that. I don't entirely agree with all points though. I think too often women try to speak for all women when they really can't just as I can't speak for all men.
I have perused thousands of female profiles and the number that are interested in size and circumcised v uncircumcised is much higher than polls such as this may indicate. Keep in mind there are limitations to such polls since only a fraction of members typically reply.
The other area I'd take a little issue with is that men and women are opposites. Different yes....but not entirely opposite. I too would not fuck any women just because she has a nice pussy. I evaluate personality far more than you might think. I can be totally turned off from the most beautiful woman if she reveals she is an "cunt". (I use that word because many woman have no qualms about using "dick" in reference to men. LOL
Seriously, though, I'd love to see pics of the whole women rather than just a pussy. I love pussy pics, less impressed by nice boobs, but in the end I prefer to see enough of the body to determine whether I'm attracted. I'll add that an overweight woman can still be very attractive.


umaykissmesoftly 64F
299 posts
11/5/2020 7:58 am

I like to see smiling faces with no hats or sunglasses. The way I feel, If I don't like the face the rest don't matter and if I do like the face the rest still don't matter.


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/5/2020 8:08 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    That is a well thought out reply, I'll agree to that. I don't entirely agree with all points though. I think too often women try to speak for all women when they really can't just as I can't speak for all men.
    I have perused thousands of female profiles and the number that are interested in size and circumcised v uncircumcised is much higher than polls such as this may indicate. Keep in mind there are limitations to such polls since only a fraction of members typically reply.
    The other area I'd take a little issue with is that men and women are opposites. Different yes....but not entirely opposite. I too would not fuck any women just because she has a nice pussy. I evaluate personality far more than you might think. I can be totally turned off from the most beautiful woman if she reveals she is an "cunt". (I use that word because many woman have no qualms about using "dick" in reference to men. LOL
    Seriously, though, I'd love to see pics of the whole women rather than just a pussy. I love pussy pics, less impressed by nice boobs, but in the end I prefer to see enough of the body to determine whether I'm attracted. I'll add that an overweight woman can still be very attractive.
If you look closely you will see I specified that the only things we ALL do are eating, drinking, breathing, pee/crapping, and dying. I always make sure to say most or many never all when I answer a question. So your comments on too often you 'think' women try to speak for 'all' women was not necessary as I did not even attempt to speak for 'all' of either gender unless in the cases I noted. I do agree that polls have limitations, but you missed what I was saying to you.

You take issue that men and women are opposites. Had you read the next line closely rather than be defensive about it you would see that I say, and I will quote myself here, "There are women that do like to see a dick pic, but most don't care to." Most men like to see boobs pics far more than the number of women that want to see dick pics. I didn't give an absolutely opposite of men want to look and women don't. I specified that there ARE ones that want to so again to say 'not entirely opposite' wasn't necessary.
It is unquestionable no matter how many profiles 'on here' you read that more men want to see those photos than women. The number of profiles from supposed women you have read that are interested in size or cut/uncut, ask yourself, how many of them are REAL???? How many of them are scammers or men using a woman's profile to get those photos of dicks?? That happens on here constantly because they know this is a fertile ground for success in scamming. The number of men that truly want to believe, and many do believe, that the woman that is a 15 on a scale of 1-10 wants their dick or they want to believe the fantasy of a woman that f*cks/sucks any way a man wants to and does it 24/7 is seriously off the charts on here. I am again not saying all men do that, but I have seen it happen so many times over the 16 years I have been on this site. An old sage that used to be on here named Dakranz used to tell the men in the advice lines to look in the mirror and seriously ask yourself if you were that woman would you want to do yourself?? Take your ego out of the equation. Most men in reality realize that it is a fantasy that a woman like that exists that is ready to screw any guy that asks her. It is that lure and the tag line advertisement of 'log in today and get laid tonight' or 'get laid in 24 hours' that sells the memberships and gets men to join this site. Women on a whole don't need to 'hunt' for sex so you notice that there are probably 500 men for 1 woman as well.

LOL @ you would rather see a p*ssy pic than boobs. You actually stated you "love" p*ssy pics. Same thing though!! YOU like to see that rather than boobs. That still doesn't equate to because you like to see a p*ssy photo a woman will like to see a dick shot. Men are far more visual in that sense. Look at it this way, I hate lamb and liver. You may like those things. Because you like lamb/liver doesn't mean I should automatically like it too. 50 men may like lamb/liver, again that doesn't mean I will start to eat lamb or liver because 50 men like it. No matter how you cook either of those things I will never like them. Now that is something simple and I can't say how many women like lamb/liver as I know my mother does like liver, but it is just an example of the apples vs oranges of men want to see p*ssy shots or boobs shots doesn't not equate to women like or want them based on how many men do. Men are more visual and that is a well known fact.

I am thrilled to no end that you personally would like to see more of the woman's body and all and like her personality too, but again, unless you are a woman and go through what we get on here you can't understand how many men are not like you. The majority of the messages we get on here have no content other than 'wanna f*cki?' to them. I suggest you do this to find out what I am talking about. Make a woman's profile as a standard member. Put up a photo of nothing, seriously nothing, but maybe a foot or a set of legs and nothing sexual, not a boob or a p*ssy. Watch how the messages start to roll in and in the double digits and sometimes 100's. The men that have been here for a time constantly go over the 'new members' list and like a spider waiting for prey they jump onto those newbies as if thinking if they get there first they will get sex. Another long time member wrote that this place reminded them of some caves up in Manitoba that had snakes in them. Every year when the females hatch there is a scrambling mess of males in the 1000's outside the caves all just waiting for that female to come out and try to pounce on her all at the same time. It is true!! I don't even change my photo because it puts me into the new members list and I don't want to be swamped again by people that don't read profiles.

Reading profiles - is a lost art on most on here. Women are far more likely to read a profile than a man, but there are women that don't and again I defer to they may not be women, but there are some I am sure; however, the majority of men on here view this place as a 'sex site' and ASSUME all women are here for sex and seriously b*tch at us if we don't want just sex. I have four blogs in my main blog of Rdy;s Info Blog. One is on lame/boring/stupid messages, one is on how a polite no thank you can turn ugly quickly, and one is even on unsolicited hate emails we get. Yes, we get men that contact us, and I am sure there are women that do this too, but I don't get messages like that from women so I go with that I have and that is men that write unsolicited to tell me and other women to get off the site if we are not here to f8ck. YES, that happens!!

This is all part of why I never say ALL unless the things I list. Everyone is different and that is a good thing. Although you may be the good guy that doesn't just look for an easy piece of a** there are 1000's in front of you that are jerks and a**hats that DO and act terrible to us. Good men ruin it for good men on here. You can't blame the women when you realize the volume of entitled, chauvinistic men that feel self entitled to a woman's body and sex are on here. NOT ALL MEN are like that, but this place is rife with them.

Sorry for the long answer, but I wanted to make a complete answer.


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/5/2020 8:23 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    That is a well thought out reply, I'll agree to that. I don't entirely agree with all points though. I think too often women try to speak for all women when they really can't just as I can't speak for all men.
    I have perused thousands of female profiles and the number that are interested in size and circumcised v uncircumcised is much higher than polls such as this may indicate. Keep in mind there are limitations to such polls since only a fraction of members typically reply.
    The other area I'd take a little issue with is that men and women are opposites. Different yes....but not entirely opposite. I too would not fuck any women just because she has a nice pussy. I evaluate personality far more than you might think. I can be totally turned off from the most beautiful woman if she reveals she is an "cunt". (I use that word because many woman have no qualms about using "dick" in reference to men. LOL
    Seriously, though, I'd love to see pics of the whole women rather than just a pussy. I love pussy pics, less impressed by nice boobs, but in the end I prefer to see enough of the body to determine whether I'm attracted. I'll add that an overweight woman can still be very attractive.
Sorry sorry, but I want to add this. Your profile says this....

*MEN: I am 100% straight and will not interact on any level. If you IM I won't spend points to say "Not interested". I will NOT accept Friend requests.*

Imaging being a woman and having less than 5% of guys actually read it. We get bombarded by men that are out of state/country, older/younger than we are interested in, marital status' that are not what we are interested in, and guys looking for what we are not be it quick sex or long term. We get totally bombarded by guys that ASSUME this is a sex site and equate that to an online whorehouse warehouse. I am sure there are some whores here, but MOST women on here that are real are not!!! MOST women are picky and want to LIKE who we are with. Again, make yourself a fake female profile and see what messages you get. Make it say you want something longer term and see how many guys contact you and b*tch you are in the wrong place. Even stating you are not interested gets us flamed 75% of the time. You will get a better handle on what women go through on here for sure.


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/5/2020 8:47 am

IF a woman asks for a dick pic then send one. Do NOT send one unsolicited! As the poster asked what women want to see more than not it is better to err on the safe side and put the dick photo in the second photo slot not the first. It is there IF someone wants to see it, but it is not shoved in the face of someone that is sick of looking at them. Quality over quantity - do you want lots of views or do you want meetings?? Most women won't meet a faceless dick and again.. Quasimodo....he isn't getting lots of meetings based on his penis. lol


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/5/2020 9:19 am

OHHH TYPO!! That line should read **BAD men ruin it for good men on here. You can't blame the women when you realize the volume of entitled, chauvinistic men that feel self entitled to a woman's body and sex are on here. NOT ALL MEN are like that, but this place is rife with them.**


fandangochick 43F  
53 posts
11/5/2020 7:03 pm

Adult site so adult photos only


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/6/2020 4:00 pm:
Thank you—a few women have said this

itsallfantasy 54F  
940 posts
11/5/2020 10:27 pm

I will say this, I may have a preference to what penis I want inside me, but that doesn't mean I want every guy shoving his dick in my face first before we talk.
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I also don't think that being on this site means one has to show genital photos to the world. I don't think that is a measure of one's age or maturity either. This is an adult social network not the sluts - r - us drive through. For the record this is on the site and in the help section:
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What is the purpose of Passion?

The purpose of the Passion site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At Passion, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Passion a successful and fun experience.

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Please note it doesn't say this is a fuck site and you are here to fuck so show genitals and be rude to everyone you talk to. One can want sex and like sex and not be a whore/slut/pig/disrespectful to others. We are all different and there are many forms of sex. I am here to be on cam for exhibitionism, but I am NOT I repeat NOT a voyeur. I don't want to see dicks!!! I show not look. Showing on cam is a sex thing so I am not here to meet anyone for sex and that should be respected the same as I respect those here looking for sex. There are people here blogging like this is as well as those here to chat and write stories too. Everyone is here for their own reasons and expecting everyone else to modify their wants, likes, and dislikes to fit yours (whoever that 'your' is), is simply ridiculous. As an adult you respect that not say show dick pics or pussy shots. Make those the back up photo not photo number 1.


Dylan_ZD 26M
7 posts
11/6/2020 3:01 am

There SO MANY dick pics on this website really, one more doesn't bring anything new. Ladies out there already receives thousands of X pics a day. It's better to show less, be creative, and keep a bit of mystery


Dryad83 51F
1 post
11/6/2020 5:26 am

I like to see a guy's whole body, rather than just a close-up of his private bits! Tastefully naked or in underwear is good, smartly dressed does it for me too.

But please - not just the cock shot!


antgirl69 26F
54 posts
11/6/2020 1:31 pm

Personally I would prefer a face and clothed body shot , If I want to see more I will ask .


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/7/2020 3:56 pm:
Thank you for sharing that. I am a bit surprised with the survey results though.

Tmptrzz 58F
89480 posts
11/7/2020 3:20 pm

Personally for me I like some mystery as there is always time to unwrap the whole entire package of a person, starting with their mind..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/7/2020 3:55 pm:
Thank you for your comment. The survey results seem to be a bit surprising.

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/7/2020 4:52 pm

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : Thank you for sharing that. I am a bit surprised with the survey results though.

LOL most men are surprised by this. They want to believe women are as interested in seeing their penis as they are in seeing our bodies. I am not saying this to be mean, just on a whole men are far more visual than women are when it comes to this. As I said apples and oranges. I am not saying women are not sexually driven, just we are not as visually driven as men are. It is how people are wired.


redduracell 49M
766 posts
11/8/2020 5:51 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    It depends on the man and how he sets up the shot. Nude pics can be tastefully done...and done well.
Check mine then BiggLala xx


aniceride 50M
111 posts
11/8/2020 1:13 pm

if you're talking about the main profile pic then for sure totally clothed.you can have some in your profile if they want to look but other than that i like to be tasteful.if she wants to see your junk then she'll ask or look at your profile pics.for me this also goes the other way around.


EatOutYYC 27M
6 posts
11/8/2020 10:53 pm

As a dude that doesn't want to show his face on here I never know what to submit as a photo lol


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/9/2020 6:13 am

    Quoting EatOutYYC:
    As a dude that doesn't want to show his face on here I never know what to submit as a photo lol
You have many options other than just the small section between your legs. LOL You can take a full body photo and put a box or an emoji over your penis and face, you can take a face photo and cut it at the eyes so only your nose and below show. You can do many tastefully done pics with your pants on and shirt off and just black out the face. There is a full body you have to work with outside of just that area between your legs. lol


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/9/2020 6:22 am

    Quoting EatOutYYC:
    As a dude that doesn't want to show his face on here I never know what to submit as a photo lol
Okay, I went and looked. Your profile in full says...

**Introduction: Not really much to say here. Not looking for anything in particular, hookups and fuck buddies are both welcome. Love to eat pussy and please women. Also interested in experimenting with BDSM and other kinky things.

My Ideal Person Not really looking for anyone in particular, just women around my age.**

You have 11 photos and they are all your penis. You need to give women something more than this. I will try to send you a message with some helpful links to get you started. Women know you have a dick, ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick. So telling us the constant repetition we hear on here of you are horny and want to have sex and all sex is welcome does nothing for us. We need to like YOU!! Most men need a location and women need a reason. Think of it as a job interview. You can't just show up and say hire me because I showed up. You have to give us reasons outside of you showed up meaning more than saying you are here and horny with a dick. lol So many people make this mistake. It may be a sex based site, but even people looking for sex USUALLY have preferences and don't just have sex with anyone that asks. You are a guy. Are you going to have sex with the men too? Some say yes, many say no - it is a preference. See my point??


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/9/2020 8:36 am:
It’s really nice of you to be so helpful. I would love to get feedback from you about my profile as well… Feel free to be as honest as you want. Thank you again for all your helpful comments!

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/9/2020 11:52 am

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : It’s really nice of you to be so helpful. I would love to get feedback from you about my profile as well… Feel free to be as honest as you want. Thank you again for all your helpful comments!

Being helpful is one of the reasons I stick around. lol Most of the mistakes are common sense mistakes. I try to not be hurtful, but keep it honest so here goes. Your profile says....

**Introduction:
I am an easygoing guy that is fun and sensual. I have a lot of interests. I am interested in women only - no men please.

I am looking for one special friend.**

Okay, very simple, but says not much. You have 6 photos and they are all the same photo. I DO like the strategically places sign, but they are still all the same photo just in black and white or color. You need to do more than that or delete the repeats. As for the profile itself, you are easy going and fun, let's start there. What makes you fun? Don't say you like sex and doggie style or some variation of. What makes YOU fun??? Again, think of this as a job interview. You are fun, what makes you more fun than another guy? What do you do that makes yo different than the other guy? I can say I am fun because I love hockey. Maybe someone finds hockey a dull sport or too rough. What one finds fun another may not so you need to be more specific. It will help you find someone with similar likes. Again, even meeting for sex a woman has to LIKE YOU not just your dick, remember Quasimodo there. lol If you had a daughter would you tell her to make sure a guy is 'fun' and leave it at that? That is a very wide answer. You say you have lots of interests. Women are not going to write to every guy to find out what his interests are. There are men that list them and they will go to the front of the line, what are those interests??

You say you are sensual. That is okay to say as you are not so specific as to narrow down too much or leave it too open.

That though is just about all of your profile. Having you want one specific friend is okay too and I totally get that as most people don't read profiles and sadly more men than women do that, so having that you don't want men is okay too. Do you want someone though for a long term thing? You can mention that if you wish. I usually suggest that you don't want to put things like age, weight, color no issue as it makes one look like they will do anyone. Remember you can always say no thank you to a lady that doesn't fit what you want physically so there isn't much of a reason to list it. I hope this helps.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/9/2020 1:18 pm:
Thank you SO MUCH. You are amazing! I defintely have some work to do

BiggLala 48F  
29070 posts
11/9/2020 10:30 pm

I've been watching this post to keep up with the discussion. Rdy always has great feedback, and she's given you some good pointers about your profile.

I don't want to harp on you, but I wanted to chime in on the "I am an easygoing guy..." portion of your profile. I'd suggest you take that out. I say that because that descriptor is far too common on male profiles, and it doesn't tell anyone anything about you. (Sidebar: in MY experience, people who *think* they're easygoing are anything but. They're actually very high-strung, and hypersensitive people. I'm not saying this is you, just saying.)

As rdy said, add a bit more detail to your profile about some of your general likes (or hobbies); just a few, not a big long list. Also, I think it's a good idea to state the type of woman you seek, list her physical attributes. I imagine you don't want to sound superficial (or even rude), but we all have our physical ideal of what we find attractive in others. Mostly, don't be this guy: No Fat Chicks.

Hope this helps, too!

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rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/10/2020 7:28 am:
Thank you so much—your comments are really helpful! Any thoughts on my pictures would be appreciated as well. Thank you again!!!

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/10/2020 6:41 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I've been watching this post to keep up with the discussion. Rdy always has great feedback, and she's given you some good pointers about your profile.

    I don't want to harp on you, but I wanted to chime in on the "I am an easygoing guy..." portion of your profile. I'd suggest you take that out. I say that because that descriptor is far too common on male profiles, and it doesn't tell anyone anything about you. (Sidebar: in MY experience, people who *think* they're easygoing are anything but. They're actually very high-strung, and hypersensitive people. I'm not saying this is you, just saying.)

    As rdy said, add a bit more detail to your profile about some of your general likes (or hobbies); just a few, not a big long list. Also, I think it's a good idea to state the type of woman you seek, list her physical attributes. I imagine you don't want to sound superficial (or even rude), but we all have our physical ideal of what we find attractive in others. Mostly, don't be this guy: No Fat Chicks.

    Hope this helps, too!
Thank you BiggLala!!! I am humbled. You have good additions to what I wrote as well. You always have very terrific answers yourself! Definitely one can add some types of people we want to meet listing some physical attributes without being rude. I have seen that guy you posted the link to and yes, that is not how to do it!! My only complaint outside of that is what I wrote. When I see guys put "age, weight, color no issue" on a profile, not just me, but many think this guy is just looking for anything he can get. I don't think at all people are superficial to say what they find attractive, but yes, there are those that are terribly rude about it too.

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rm_Mike4you15 replies: Thank you SO MUCH. You are amazing! I defintely have some work to do


More than welcome and I thank you for the compliment. I am just me, not sure about amazing, lol but thank you. I do try to help when I can.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/10/2020 7:31 am:
In my case, I didn’t specify a specific type so as not to sound superficial. Plus, so much of sexual attraction is feeling a connection...not just looks.

Thank you again—I do think you are amazing

BiggLala 48F  
29070 posts
11/10/2020 9:11 am

Any thoughts on my pictures would be appreciated as well.
-I agree with what rdy said about your pics; they're all variations of the same pose. As I said in my original comment, naked pics can be tastefully and creatively done.

Think about aspects you want to show other than just your face and cock. For example the gentleman above who mentioned he doesn't want to show his face, so seemingly his only other option was to show his cock. We are all more than just faces and genitals.

I think you have a great physique, so you have a plethora of options. Just get creative.

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rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/10/2020 12:15 pm:
Thank you very much, I really appreciate it!

eagrtofuck2020 47M
15 posts
11/13/2020 2:32 pm

Seeing all these comments maybe i should change my profile pic and puit something more tasteful up instead


Fatpussygirl1 54F  
4 posts
11/13/2020 5:22 pm

A head shot, fully clothed and a dick shot is always a good place to start.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/14/2020 9:41 am:
Thank you for responding! Your comments are totally in line with the survey results....these results still surprise me.

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/14/2020 8:30 pm

    Quoting eagrtofuck2020:
    Seeing all these comments maybe i should change my profile pic and puit something more tasteful up instead
Not trying to be mean here, but your handle and profile...well... the profile...

***Introduction: I work out about an hour a day or more , changed as i got older. I'm a very straight forward and i know what i want when i see it. Looking for discreet connections.

My Ideal Person Looking for someone that is not afraid of what they want, and shares the same interests as me, women only please.***

First off.. you are MARRIED!! I am not judging you, but where you put all this stuff in your profile one would have to ask just who did you marry?? If you knew what you wanted when you saw it, what you don't want her now? If so, then get a divorce and you don't have to sneak around. You want someone that shares the same interests..does she not share those? Then why are you with her?? See my point? Again, I am not judging, but women that are single and know what they want 'usually'.. emphasize that.. USUALLY don't want to have to work around your wife. Married men are not a catch to single women as we may get an urge and you can't just tell your wife you have to go so you can get laid. LYING is not a way to start anything, but it can definitely END your married and whatever chance you had with a number of women. We don't care for liars. You will spend Thanksgiving with your wife and family while the woman is alone??? How about Xmas.. you are with the family and she gets maybe a few minutes for you to run over, do your thing, then leave??? That isn't very satisfying to most women. You may find a few, but most women don't like that and don't want to be cheated on.

As for profile names, most women laugh at the names on here. YES there are women with funny names as well, but although your handle says what you are looking for, again MOST women will laugh at a name like Eagrtof*ck as well as suckmydickb*tch (real name), 10inchesforyou (as if he knows us personally aside from it isn't a big deal to us... all men have dicks and if he is dick it doesn't matter), or any version of how large they are or how horny they are.

Guys, yes this is a sex based site, but it isn't an online whorehouse. Women are NOT turned on by names like that just like they don't see pictures of men getting sex or a blow job and think they want to do it with you too. In fact we usually run from them because we don't want OUR photos online so you can brag to men you got some. Truly THINK before you post!!!


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/14/2020 8:34 pm

    Quoting eagrtofuck2020:
    Seeing all these comments maybe i should change my profile pic and puit something more tasteful up instead
May I also comment on your status??? You have that you are looking for women who need a 'release.' I am sorry to say this but you are 47. Would you tell your daughter or sister if you have one of either to just need a guy, any guy, for a release? Is that all you would tell them they need to be able to know or do with a guy is that he can get 'them' a release? Would you tell them to find that release with some married guy too? What if they are married and their husband cheated on them... would that be okay with you too? Would you tell them they should do something different to ensure they are not cheated on??

Just questions for you.... these are things that you don't think about when you write this stuff. Women do not look at men and their dick as you do. We can get a toy that does that too and your dick sorry to say is just not something so special that no other man has one. It is who it is attached to that makes it special..not just that you have one.


rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/15/2020 10:01 am

I am sorry to report this, but Eagr has blocked me for my evaluation. I was NOT, I repeat NOT trying to be mean. I was being honest and giving the view from what women see and go through on here just like I did the others. I am sorry he didn't like it, but I did post it here so you can all see what I said.

Unfortunately this is also something women go through on here. Too many people don't like not getting told what they 'want to hear' and if you are looking to improve something you have to be able to see it from all sides not just your own. This is a huge reason why women don't respond to messages AT ALL!! The number of guys that sign up and think all they need to do is show their dick and claim they are horny and expect women to just rush to their dick is off the charts. It is ridiculous at best fellas! ALL MEN have a dick, not being a dick is the trick. Maybe those men, or a good number of them would have sex with anything with a hole in it, but women do not on a whole function that way. We don't just take any dick that happens to be close and jump on it because sex for a woman IS different for the most part than men. We don't orgasm in 5 minutes or less. We do NOT get off on just a dick if the guy is a huge a**hole or childish or any other of a myriad of reasons.

Just getting angry and expecting everyone to say you are hot and the best thing I ever had is absolutely stupid, childish, and shows that our original thoughts of turning you down were correct. Sorry folks, but you can't be on an ADULT site and act like a child and expect everyone to want your dick above and beyond all other dicks.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/15/2020 12:25 pm:
You are absolutely right to be honest--I would much rather someone tell me what they really think, otherwise how can you make positive changes? Sometimes the truth hurts.

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/15/2020 2:09 pm

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : You are absolutely right to be honest--I would much rather someone tell me what they really think, otherwise how can you make positive changes? Sometimes the truth hurts.

Thank you. I was honestly not trying to be mean, but men and women DO think differently 'for the most part.' I won't say all men/women as I am sure there will be women that will see his photo and contact him, but for the most part he will get men contacting him. Stating "men only" on a profile means he has already been contacted by many men or he wouldn't feel the need to post it. Yes, there are women that will want to see the dick, but most women do not want to see a dick first and from total strangers. Quality contacts over quantity - but you can even reduce the quantity if you are using the wrong bait to catch something.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/16/2020 10:07 am:
Very good points. I have men contact me evn though I say I am only interested in women. Hope it’s not because of the pics.

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/16/2020 3:26 pm

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : Very good points. I have men contact me evn though I say I am only interested in women. Hope it’s not because of the pics.

Actually, it is usually because of the pics. Men seriously like dick pics way more than the women do!! If you go on cam you will see the same thing - men looking at you not women. I am not sure why, but I can say that men used to come into our chatroom and constantly complain that women are not watching them only men.


rm_Mike4you15 replies on 11/19/2020 6:55 am:
Wow. I might need to delete/replace all my pictures...I’ll have to make changes as soon as I get a chance. Thank you!

rdy2try4 55F  
3237 posts
11/19/2020 8:21 am

Quoting rm_Mike4you15 : Wow. I might need to delete/replace all my pictures...I’ll have to make changes as soon as I get a chance. Thank you!

I wouldn't say change all of them, but make the first photo, your main photo, something other than just a penis shot. That is what attracts the unwanted attention most. Scammers and the men see that 'first' as it is your main photo and they zero in on that. if a woman wants to see your penis she can click on the other photos or ask you for one.


misskissin 57F
85594 posts
11/22/2020 3:40 pm

I don't really think your "partially naked" as actually partially naked. Partially would be in underwear or a pair of jeans and shirtless, etc.


missthee 54F  
4304 posts
11/27/2020 11:30 pm

    Quoting TokenBlackChik:
    Posting a dick pic on A.FF is like shouting "I'm hungry" in everyone's face while grocery shopping... Like, it's fkn obvious why you're here but you don't need to be obnoxious about it...
This is exactly why dick pics are a turnoff, even on this site.

I expect to see partially naked here, but don't mind totally naked if it isn't saying "Look look I'm a horny dude."


D11377 48F
65 posts
11/28/2020 2:34 pm

partially naked not ex-rated that leaves a bit to the imagination.
(no toilets or dirty mirrors reflecting or in the pic)


localmotion50 70M
83 posts
11/30/2020 11:38 am

    Quoting Didi2968:
    Any pic that does NOT include you having sex with, giving or getting oral from another woman. Total turn off and I will skip right past your profile because of it.
I skip past yours because I want to see a face, not boobs


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