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"Friends with benefits"!  

scoupe42 57M  
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5/20/2020 11:48 am

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5/21/2020 12:43 am

"Friends with benefits"!

I got a friend, he's a -! If a woman say him, "Let's be friends with benefits"! This Motherfucker light up like a Christmas tree, you would think he won the lottery Years ago, he bragged about having sex with 8 different women, in just a 7 day wee This was 15 years ago, and at that time I envy him. He's obsessed with sex, if you drill a hole in your wall and invite him over, I won't be surprised if he'll put his dick in that hole. This is what he say all the time. "I'm a man that loves fuck"!

We all do, women he knew 15 year, or even 5 years don't want nothing do with him. They despises him! I talk one of them the other night, put it like this, she's not a member of his fan club. he only call when he want fuck! He several times told me, Drew, you need to get with program! Well, I'm in my late 50s, overweigh, and considered unattractive, and I'm 18 years older. Me and him are very different. For, "I love women"! Read my lips, "I love women"! I treat them nice.

Don't get me wrong, I like to Fuck too! But, I like when a woman wants to fuck me too. I love to have someone to go to concerts, movies, not often, but I love when a woman do an act of kindness and , maybe invite me over for dinner, and that I don't have to bring anything but my appetite. My buddy and I are very different. His interpretations are a whole lot different from mine, as you can see. His idea of "friends with benefits" is someone he call when he horny>

Mines is "Friends", with benefits. We can enjoy each other company, then later if she's in the mood, we can have sex. But, her being my friend first, that mean she also care for me. To all the viewers, who read this blogs, talk to me. When you meet someone you like, and they say, "Let be friends with benefits"? What you think they saying? Or if you say it to someone, what are you saying????? Inquiring minds want to know!

author51 57F  
92462 posts
5/20/2020 11:32 pm

I have a lot of male friends but without the benefit of sex because we are just friends.Would they want to have sex with me? Sure and I would some of them but for me the friendship with them is too important to ruin. You are a good friend to have Hun...xoxoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

scoupe42 replies on 5/21/2020 12:14 am:
Hi my friend, thx for feedback and kind words.

Paulxx001 63M  
16683 posts
5/20/2020 5:12 pm

Yep... I hear you. 👍😎

... is there another way to look at it.
A Man Will Never Forget How A Woman Smells

scoupe42 replies on 5/20/2020 6:54 pm:
Thx paul

AnewWoman 61F  
142 posts
5/20/2020 3:47 pm

You are absolutely right. Men like your friend just don't get it. We want a man who wants to be with us and understands we want to be with him. That this is a mutual thing. Not each of us out to take care of our own needs. Friends doesn't necessarily mean you have to be best friends, but interaction extends outside of the bedroom. Keep doing what you are doing. Best wishes

scoupe42 replies on 5/20/2020 6:54 pm:
Hi, I appreciate the awesome feedback, your right! Thx for viewing, I hope you stop by blogland and view more of my blogs!

12FK2 46F  
516 posts
5/20/2020 1:24 pm

I think a lot of people feel like your friend. They don't know what the "Friends" part of FBW mean. To many it just means what you said in your post. It's someone they call when they are horny and that's it. For me, I believe the friends part should be the focus and the benefits should be just that.....a benefit on top of an actual friendship. Just my thoughts on it.

scoupe42 replies on 5/20/2020 6:52 pm:
True, I appreciate your viewing a nd feedback. Let's be blogs friends.

Tmptrzz 57F  
78260 posts
5/20/2020 1:07 pm

You my friend are a wonderful man and a true gentleman and that's what i so adore about you. Your friend is a man whore lol. He will never get a woman to appreciate him like you will my friend.. I hope you have a great Hump Day..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!

scoupe42 replies on 5/20/2020 6:50 pm:
Hi Temp, thx for kinds words, glad you my friend

scoupe42 57M  
8495 posts
5/20/2020 11:52 am

Years ago, I got divorced, because my wife slept around. But after being divorced, he mention to me, we can still have sex! But she going still do her thing. If I'm OK with that, I can get it too! My question is would you?

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