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secret_lade 46F
5660 posts
7/13/2020 5:28 pm
It's just a mask, people.


I'm not asking you to strip naked and wear nipple clamps to shop, I'm asking you to wear a fucking mask.

The governors new edict has made it mandatory that businesses require customers to wear a mask. If we do not, we can find ourselves closed down.

For the most part, customers have been amazing. Many are saying, Finally! Some are saying, I don't really agree, but I'll wear it.

Then there are these guys....

I was manning the door when Joe Asshole came walking through amongst a crowd of about 10 other random people, he was not wearing a mask.

"Excuse me sir. It is now required by law that our customers wear proper face coverings to shop here."

"You ain't making me wear a mask! I have COPD and if you make me wear a mask to shop I'm going to be shooting people!"

He was yelling at the top of his lungs... Several of the customers had a concerned look on their face as they looked right at me, I looked right at Joe Asshole.

Phone in hand, I was already dialing for assistance and easing the customers as they walked past. Joe Asshole didn't miss a beat, with three trailing behind him, he breezed right past me and into the store.

All I could think of was, what in the fuck kind of example is this guy setting for these ??

Douche!!

It was decided by management that the cops needed to be involved because of the nature of the threat. While he may not have brandished a weapon, he was threatening physical violence within a crowd of people, included.

So, the cops came.

Two police vehicles parked in the front of the store and watched Joe Asshole leave with his . It turns out, both cops knew who this guy was and recognized his vehicle.

He'd apparently had run ins with them in the past...

The only thing that saved him today, at that moment, was the fact that he had his with him. We were instructed by the officers that they would be paying a visit to Joe Asshole later on tonight to take care of the situation.

Here's the thing....

I don't want to wear this mask any more than you do, yet, here I am. If you don't want to wear the mask, you don't need to shop wear I work.

Pure and simple.

secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
8/6/2020 12:18 am

    Quoting JoeJava13:
    (Although, I *would* strip naked and wear nipple clamps in *your* shop, just sayin'. )
Too bad you don't deliver in my area....


JoeJava13 54M
14 posts
8/5/2020 10:46 pm

(Although, I *would* strip naked and wear nipple clamps in *your* shop, just sayin'. )


JoeJava13 54M
14 posts
8/5/2020 10:44 pm

I work delivery, and I wear a mask for every stop. It's not that hard.

Anti-mask idjits are selfish bastards who literally don't give a rat turd about other people's health and safety.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
8/4/2020 11:42 pm

    Quoting Juan92s:
    individuals who have blown me off because I won't meet at this time. What ever. Next.
You have to do what feels safe to you... If that means postponing a meet, you postpone. Anyone worth it will be understanding.


Juan92s 28M
3 posts
8/4/2020 9:26 pm

individuals who have blown me off because I won't meet at this time. What ever. Next.


thikhead 63M
3126 posts
7/21/2020 2:17 pm

    Quoting  :

if you think someones an asshole, they could very well be.

if you think everyones an asshole, its you.

similarly, if "everyone" thinks YOURE an asshole,

guess what ?

"well only get through this if we work together. if we dont, none of us will"


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/19/2020 3:26 am

    Quoting SirlickalotNM:
    I work retail where we have to have a mask. In the store we are face to face with customers, maybe 1.5 to 2 feet away during a long transaction. Some people may have a ton of reasons why the mask does not work, I don't give a shit. I do know this, if a person on either side of the counter coughs without a mask on someone is getting a face full of crap. I don't need that in my life. Before all this happened I have seen customers sneeze and cough in their hands then handle the products which I have to grab to buy away when they are done. Customers only have to wear the mask while in the store in theory, I have to wear it all damn day. It sucks but I would rather wear it than not.

    I had one asshole that came in with the mask on his bald head, he gave me shit when I asked him to cover his mouth and nose. Others say they will cover their face with their shirt but once in the store they don't hold their shirt up. Most of these anti mask people I have seen are over 50.

    One guy called and told me that he was disappointed that we would require masks. Implying he thought we should be the resistance. Thanks for taking my time away from work jerkface.

    If you don't like it don't come in the store. We got all the business we can handle. I also love the fact that I don't have to shake anyone's hands, filthy bastards.
I wind up wearing a mask upwards of 9-10 hours a day as well. It really sucks, and I end up not wearing my glasses because of it, so I spend the majority of my days with headaches. I have no sympathy for the people complaining about the 20 minutes they have to wear it while shopping...


SirlickalotNM 58M  
120 posts
7/18/2020 6:41 pm

I work retail where we have to have a mask. In the store we are face to face with customers, maybe 1.5 to 2 feet away during a long transaction. Some people may have a ton of reasons why the mask does not work, I don't give a shit. I do know this, if a person on either side of the counter coughs without a mask on someone is getting a face full of crap. I don't need that in my life. Before all this happened I have seen customers sneeze and cough in their hands then handle the products which I have to grab to buy away when they are done. Customers only have to wear the mask while in the store in theory, I have to wear it all damn day. It sucks but I would rather wear it than not.

I had one asshole that came in with the mask on his bald head, he gave me shit when I asked him to cover his mouth and nose. Others say they will cover their face with their shirt but once in the store they don't hold their shirt up. Most of these anti mask people I have seen are over 50.

One guy called and told me that he was disappointed that we would require masks. Implying he thought we should be the resistance. Thanks for taking my time away from work jerkface.

If you don't like it don't come in the store. We got all the business we can handle. I also love the fact that I don't have to shake anyone's hands, filthy bastards.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/15/2020 2:46 pm

    Quoting  :

If the company I work for mandates that I must wear a mask and enforce a mask rule that has been set down by the governor, than a sheep I am. I am a single mom with bills to pay.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/15/2020 2:51 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    It's a similar situation over here in the UK. There are some who never seem to get the message.
Here's the thing, we're all entitled to our own opinion. Whether we agree or not, doesn't really matter. If the business says it's required, it's required. Don't like the rule? Don't frequent the business. It's probably safer for everyone if you don't anyway considering you don't want to wear the mask.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/15/2020 2:48 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    As I keep repeating, from a nurse rellie in the US, if someone doesn't like wearing a mask they'll like the ventilator even less!

    Apart from anything else, science or otherwise (though any reduction in risk no matter how small has to be seen as a benefit), surely it's a simple matter of respect to other people to wear one?

    Chuck them oot the shop, they can go elsewhere!
I told someone yesterday to be lucky they only have to wear it a few minutes while they shop... I have to wear it for 9 hours while running around the store, talking on the phone, and doing manual labor. Can't breathe, you say?? Try stacking boxes of copy paper when the supply order comes in and breathe at the same time.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/15/2020 2:42 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Makes sense... ! Yep...

    I saw a mosquito ... stuck in my car today. It's the same mosquito I saw yesterday and the day before. He's been there for three days now.Mosquitoes live for 7 days. That means he's spent the better part of 43% of his life stuck in my Honda. Who knows how much longer he'll be living. I kinda feel sorry for him when I stop, park and turn off the radio and the engine and close the lights and lock the doors.
    I wonder what he does when I'm not there?
    Probably buzzes around trying to find a way out.
    What a life...
    I wonder if he'll be there tomorrow morning?
    I wonder who's life is sadder...? His ... or mine...
What's the status of the mosquito today? I've been watching a spider that made a web on one of the flowers on my balcony, it's been a learning experience. Every day there are new bugs stuck in that web... Every day I wonder if it's still going to be there when I get home from work.


thikhead 63M
3126 posts
7/14/2020 11:24 pm

and people who DO have diminished lung capacity
for whatever reason,
god bless you in your struggles,
BUT youre the LAST people
who should risk catching this shit.

thats like physically disabled people
who dont want to wear seat belts because
"i need more time to get out" after an accident.
NO,
you need even more than others NOT to be thrown around
inside a vehicle during a crash so you CAN get out afterwards.

its so easy, apparently,
for so many of us to think things out backwards,
its like we have cultural dyslexia.
i worked in a retail store and every day was amazed
how many people couldnt pick something up
and put it back down
without turning it around or upside down. ?
thats not even math, its "whats wrong with this picture?"

oh, but we can play our video games, cant we?

BE SAFE OUT THERE EVERYONE.
and to everyone to whom everyone is "just someone else",
YOU are all "just someone else" to them.

lets all start treating each other better than that. peace and love

"well only get through this if we work together. if we dont, none of us will"


citizen4722 62M  
67447 posts
7/14/2020 8:30 am

It's a similar situation over here in the UK. There are some who never seem to get the message.


lindoboy100 57M
21573 posts
7/14/2020 8:26 am

As I keep repeating, from a nurse rellie in the US, if someone doesn't like wearing a mask they'll like the ventilator even less!

Apart from anything else, science or otherwise (though any reduction in risk no matter how small has to be seen as a benefit), surely it's a simple matter of respect to other people to wear one?

Chuck them oot the shop, they can go elsewhere!

Pull ma finger.........


Paulxx001 63M
16633 posts
7/14/2020 12:11 am

Makes sense... ! Yep...

I saw a mosquito ... stuck in my car today. It's the same mosquito I saw yesterday and the day before. He's been there for three days now.Mosquitoes live for 7 days. That means he's spent the better part of 43% of his life stuck in my Honda. Who knows how much longer he'll be living. I kinda feel sorry for him when I stop, park and turn off the radio and the engine and close the lights and lock the doors.
I wonder what he does when I'm not there?
Probably buzzes around trying to find a way out.
What a life...
I wonder if he'll be there tomorrow morning?
I wonder who's life is sadder...? His ... or mine...


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 11:13 pm

    Quoting CharlesD6996:
    Apparently, if he was yelling, his COPD wasn't that severe. I don't like the mask mandates anymore than the next guy, but I'm asked to wear one while indoors and I do it. I wonder if he wore a seat belt when he drove to the store? I don't like those either, but I wear one because:
    a) It's the law
    b) I've seen that not wearing one in a head on crash can turn you into a projectile.

    If he doesn't like wearing one, have him send his grievance to the Governor.
Or, better yet, if he doesn't want to wear it, he doesn't shop in my store. I'm stuck wearing my mask 9 hours a day. I dont feel sorry for the fact that it's a 20 minute inconvenience for him.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 11:08 pm

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    Amen. I don’t know the minutiae of the mask law in your state, but here in California there are exceptions to the rule. Most larger businesses have posted banners and signs explaining which groups of people are exempt from wearing a face mask.
    Putting aside whether a mask is actually going to help protect you from exposure to the virus, it comes down to one simple fact: why not wear it just on the off chance it does indeed help? Is it ego to not want to wear one? Or a firmly held conviction that it is wrong to wear one?
    If anyone knows, by all means please let me know
Some people don't understand that it is not your guaranteed right to be allowed in a business. All businesses have the right to refuse service.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 11:01 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I see those guys every day.
I wonder if he felt like a real bad ass.... You know, threatening violence on a woman half his size and a bunch of older folks who are just trying to pick up their groceries....


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:57 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    If you laid a government check on the ground most of these assholes would crawl thru porcupine shit with 2 masks on to grab it...
Absolutely spot on!


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:56 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    lose a lung and see how that feels when ppl squeal about wearing a mask ..then lose 12% of your lung capacity when you put one on..not so much fun i bet for those ppl..keep on squealing
You are correct. There are always other shopping options... Like, curbside pick up?? Home delivery??


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:54 pm

I'll bet this guy doesn't even vote...


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:52 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    There are always going to be people like this, One, they think that they are to good to obey, Two, they have the right to do what ever they want to do or They just don't care about any thing or any one even themselves. Most of the time they live a miserable life. any way, have a good day and be safe.
He looked like a miserable fuck. Probably in the midst of a divorce and looking for an outlet to rage.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:49 pm

    Quoting lighthousecollec:
    I have mild COPD and I don't like wearing the mask any more than any one else but if it's going to save my life, you bet I will wear it. I see every day at some big name stores here, some employees and customers do not wear the mask. If he had COPD he would be on oxygen like my cousin, so his can not be that bad yet. Some of these people out here do not care about there loved ones or there self and those are the ones who just might get this mess.
This guy wanted to be an asshole and make a scene. Like he was proving a point... Those that truly are ill, shop at the designated times for the immuno compromised and elderly.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:46 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Non mask wearers will be charged double. Have a nice day and thank you for shopping here.
I'm hoping the company tells us we can start refusing service. I don't think they will, though, as there are health limitations that do exist out there that prevent people from wearing one. As it stands, as long as someone tells me they are medically unable, i have to accept it and allow them in.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:42 pm

    Quoting thikhead:
    i agree with the most of the consensus here -

    1) copd IS all the MORE reason to wear it to protect already weak lungs.

    2) if he was yelling, he was probably lying about the copd,
    something akin to able-bodied parking in handicap-access spots.

    3) even SUGGESTING use of a firearm, if im not mistaken, actually qualifies as assault even if not accompanied by actual battery? can someone in law comment on that?

    4) and saddest of all, god help us all if our futures are in the hands of those children.

    you did the RIGHT THING not waiting a SECOND to dial for management as did they to dial the police.

    c'mon people, wear the fuckin mask.
    if were ever going to get to where we dont have to,
    itll ONLY happen if we all DO until then.

I did feel for the kids. They also were not wearing masks and they all were old enough to look embarrassed. This guy knew he was going to purposely be causing a scene before he even entered.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:38 pm

    Quoting jolielaide:
    really, shooting people??? these anti-maskers are really doing their part to fuck it up for everyone else. if people don't want to wear the mask, why come out in public and have your hissy fit?? find someone to shop for you and keep your crazy ass home. jesus h.
They do it on purpose to make a scene. What they don't understand is, my store really doesn't need his business to remain open. Whether he shops or not, trivial.


secret_lade 46F
3900 posts
7/13/2020 10:34 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    please be careful

    I've been very fortunate in being able to work from home

    but, as I go into public areas, I've always worn a mask, and I carry a spare, just in case someone needs one

    even working out today, I wore that mask, it nearly killed me

    but, every single life matters, every single life is a miracle

    take care

    hmm



    Justin Peter Kinkel-Schuster - "Take Heart, Take Care"

    Spend, spend your devotion
    on what you treasure
    what you hold close
    what you would keep from going asunder
    for distance grows in secret
    and it does not answer
    when you cry
    there is no name
    with which you may shame it

    But take heart, take care
    be true but beware
    and honey, you need not be scared

    Pay, pay close attention
    to what you’re given
    on the road
    what you take and how you receive it
    mind, mind you remember
    all the days that came before
    and all the nights you’ve tried
    to believe it

    Time, time is the mender
    whose strange mechanics
    yet untold
    bid us rise entwined together
Careful.... Not careful.... I don't think it really matters when you're dealing with a lunatic. It's not bad enough that I'm faced with the virus every single day I go to work? Now I get to deal with threats of violence? All because some asshole thinks I'm violating his rights? Yah.


easy_going2014 53M
13410 posts
7/13/2020 9:46 pm

Hi secret_lade

please be careful

I've been very fortunate in being able to work from home

but, as I go into public areas, I've always worn a mask, and I carry a spare, just in case someone needs one

even working out today, I wore that mask, it nearly killed me

but, every single life matters, every single life is a miracle

take care

hmm



Justin Peter Kinkel-Schuster - "Take Heart, Take Care"

Spend, spend your devotion
on what you treasure
what you hold close
what you would keep from going asunder
for distance grows in secret
and it does not answer
when you cry
there is no name
with which you may shame it

But take heart, take care
be true but beware
and honey, you need not be scared

Pay, pay close attention
to what you’re given
on the road
what you take and how you receive it
mind, mind you remember
all the days that came before
and all the nights you’ve tried
to believe it

Time, time is the mender
whose strange mechanics
yet untold
bid us rise entwined together

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jolielaide 48F  
1393 posts
7/13/2020 8:52 pm

really, shooting people??? these anti-maskers are really doing their part to fuck it up for everyone else. if people don't want to wear the mask, why come out in public and have your hissy fit?? find someone to shop for you and keep your crazy ass home. jesus h.


thikhead 63M
3126 posts
7/13/2020 8:27 pm

i agree with the most of the consensus here -

1) copd IS all the MORE reason to wear it to protect already weak lungs.

2) if he was yelling, he was probably lying about the copd,
something akin to able-bodied parking in handicap-access spots.

3) even SUGGESTING use of a firearm, if im not mistaken, actually qualifies as assault even if not accompanied by actual battery? can someone in law comment on that?

4) and saddest of all, god help us all if our futures are in the hands of those children.

you did the RIGHT THING not waiting a SECOND to dial for management as did they to dial the police.

c'mon people, wear the fuckin mask.
if were ever going to get to where we dont have to,
itll ONLY happen if we all DO until then.


"well only get through this if we work together. if we dont, none of us will"


positively4you 70F  
3949 posts
7/13/2020 8:07 pm

Non mask wearers will be charged double. Have a nice day and thank you for shopping here.


topherific 57M
4680 posts
7/13/2020 7:40 pm


lighthousecollec 57F  
524 posts
7/13/2020 7:30 pm

I have mild COPD and I don't like wearing the mask any more than any one else but if it's going to save my life, you bet I will wear it. I see every day at some big name stores here, some employees and customers do not wear the mask. If he had COPD he would be on oxygen like my cousin, so his can not be that bad yet. Some of these people out here do not care about there loved ones or there self and those are the ones who just might get this mess.

I have set up a private mailbox on my Blog for your convenience.


lonlyforlove2 77M
16452 posts
7/13/2020 7:12 pm

There are always going to be people like this, One, they think that they are to good to obey, Two, they have the right to do what ever they want to do or They just don't care about any thing or any one even themselves. Most of the time they live a miserable life. any way, have a good day and be safe.

Be sure to look in at lonlyforlove2 . It may make you smile


freetobeme9569 50F
171 posts
7/13/2020 6:51 pm

Gee, can you guess who he'll be voting for.?


bitchkitty2017 67F  
5289 posts
7/13/2020 6:46 pm

lose a lung and see how that feels when ppl squeal about wearing a mask ..then lose 12% of your lung capacity when you put one on..not so much fun i bet for those ppl..keep on squealing


benard69 63M/63F  
5179 posts
7/13/2020 6:35 pm

If you laid a government check on the ground most of these assholes would crawl thru porcupine shit with 2 masks on to grab it...


mc_justmc 60M
6291 posts
7/13/2020 6:35 pm

I see those guys every day.


MrWrong4RghtNow 54M  
336 posts
7/13/2020 6:17 pm

Amen. I don’t know the minutiae of the mask law in your state, but here in California there are exceptions to the rule. Most larger businesses have posted banners and signs explaining which groups of people are exempt from wearing a face mask.
Putting aside whether a mask is actually going to help protect you from exposure to the virus, it comes down to one simple fact: why not wear it just on the off chance it does indeed help? Is it ego to not want to wear one? Or a firmly held conviction that it is wrong to wear one?
If anyone knows, by all means please let me know


CharlesD6996 50M  
261 posts
7/13/2020 5:54 pm

Apparently, if he was yelling, his COPD wasn't that severe. I don't like the mask mandates anymore than the next guy, but I'm asked to wear one while indoors and I do it. I wonder if he wore a seat belt when he drove to the store? I don't like those either, but I wear one because:
a) It's the law
b) I've seen that not wearing one in a head on crash can turn you into a projectile.

If he doesn't like wearing one, have him send his grievance to the Governor.

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