so i have been on here about a week now doing my very best to run on a free account until payday. it is very difficult to strike up a dialogue unless someone has the IM open and is paying attention to it.
to make matters worse on a free account the most info about a person you may be able to get is a very very abbreviated declaration of intent, this in turn can cause friction because there are many members out there that will get upset if you dont read their profile and understandably so.
along with these things arises the fact that i am a sadist and many people dont really understand sadism as much as they think they do (this is nothing against them as this is a somewhat obscure topic unless you run in those circles)