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Ladies Couples Adult Dating

rm_fp2841 43 C
2  Articles
DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples starting to suck   4/6/2007

I've been only a standard member on this web site. for a long while but what is really starting to piss me off is that they slowly took away the simple things that made it worth while. you cant even wink or add to freinds list unless your a gold or silver member any more this is starting to suck. when i complained to the ceo i got a complimentary gold membership for a week. it only lasted three ...


9 Comments, 272 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
rockhardman21 34 M
0  Articles
Assume the worst because I'm young?   4/5/2007

This advice line is just starting to get to me. I've posted a question and while most try to answer the question, good natured and trying to help, and even the good natured jab(all of which I do appreciate), some just assume the worst. I hate being patronized, and I feel it's solely because of my age on this site. I ask a simple question, and based on nothing, except maybe my age, they assume ...


5 Comments, 157 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
SEXY "the Gecko" got "slammed" by "the DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples Big Brother buddies of Review" !!   4/2/2007

SEXY Gecko says :
If you can imagine the voice and the animation "as seen on TV" along with the "smart-ass" , "wise-cracking" replies, jabs and "hopefully" sometimes "Pearls of Wisdom"(sometimes "left-handed" ) that are handed out by SEXY the Gecko (after-all who couldn't "simply luv" a little lovable character like that?), is what I try to deliver ...


1 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Racial sexual stereotypes: why is Swinging the Problem, not the Solution? or is it?   4/1/2007

Latoya Peterson gives an interesting dissection of an 'outsiders' view of the swinging community, and specifically race fetishists within the swinging community, in her blog article Where Da White Women At? Details Magazine Plays Up on Racial Stereotypes for the blogazine 'Racialicious'. I found it will looking up information on Disney's upcoming clusterfuck-in-the-making, 'The ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
rm_soccerpro98 42 C
2  Articles
Emailing only her...   3/28/2007

I am trying to figure out why we get so many emails from single guys that are only talking to her. Our profile is a couples profile and if anyone reading this understands the lifestyle, you dont get to the girl by going around the husband. I dont need a bunch of comments about how I wouldnt do that or that it is only because we havent met you yet. The title of this was rants and raves ...


4 Comments, 132 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
Writing and the Lover   3/23/2007

Never Stop Writing
"Never stop writing, " he says.
I look at him as if he's from another planet. Cocking my head sideways, I'm wondering if another state makes the same difference. I smile as it is all a state of mind. I'm trapped in an uncomfortable place, squared away, in the complete confines of happiness with no way out. Somehow it always ends up that way, and it is always left to ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Relationships   3/23/2007

3/18/2007
Of all the internet dates I've been on, there is still one guy who calls me on occasion. He just likes to see how I'm doing. I hadn't written him in awhile, so I had to drop him a hello. He wrote me back, and the first paragraph went as follows: "A perfect example: I can readily recall the days of my youth when dating was much easier. Why is it that, as you become more mature, ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
PUBLICENITY 55 M
1  Article
Am I decent? THE NAKED TRUTH   3/20/2007

As a photographer I'm trained to capture beauty in all its grandness, weather it is a flower or a mountain or a male deer walking Thur the snow. Then why is it when I'm called upon to shoot one of the most powerfully beautiful forms, the human body there are silent whispers and mumbled words as if they feel guilty for the subject standing Iain front of me about to remove there clothes.For some ...


1 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Donks   3/20/2007

Hello, I have a new automotive complaint striaght from the streets of miami. I love my custom cars and street machines, I try extra hard to keep modifications subtle and practicle, yet noticble and cool. However there is a new trend out there that is over the top when it comes to being horrible and tacky! These custom rides are called Donks. These cars have three classifications. 1. Boxxed. Any ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
give it a break ;   3/6/2007

their just isnt much point in ranting n raving !


6 Comments, 100 Views, 7 Votes
Why?   3/3/2007

Why are people so insincer enough to wink at you, e-mail you and either not show up. Or exchange phone number and never call or answer the phone. I think some are in it for the chase and that's it!


3 Comments, 56 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Arent We All Hear for Sex?   3/2/2007

It cracks me up aren't we all here for the same basic reason, SEX. Either we are sexaholics, can't get enough at home, or don't get any at home, whatever your reason is you've come to this site looking for sex. And these other people that have profiles on here and they get offended when you email them and they say they are looking for a relationship, go somewhere else. What did you expect this ...


7 Comments, 190 Views, 14 Votes
rm_Rdy4U2Play2 56 C
1  Article
Photo rejections   3/2/2007

Does anyone else get annoyed when you've uploaded a photo and had it rejected.
Accordingly, the most common reasons are "inappropriate or pic of someone else".
What is inappropriate? Pic of someone else? Do they really check, or do they have some quota system for rejecting a certain number of photos every day?
As a couple, we like to put photos that are a bit varied and, hopefully, ...


8 Comments, 240 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Dickeymo69 47 M
4  Articles
Why does DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples screw over standard members?   3/1/2007

It seems as though DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples just keeps taking and taking and gives nothing back to standard members. Yes I know they want to make money and I have nothing against that but damn!
Standard members use to be able to add members to their hot list and then view web cams or if you were on IM you could view cams. Then they stripped that away to just being able to view cams in chatrooms. ...


8 Comments, 241 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
newworlddave 60 M
1  Article
i cant see webcams without paying?   3/1/2007

Well Ive been coming to this site off and on for 2 years or more and i am very disappointed that they now make you pay to see webcams.Are there any other sites that offer this service for free? I think if DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples needs more profit they should at least offer a very low fee for reduced service from silver..like a bronze package. Tell me and DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples what you think .ty Dave.


3 Comments, 197 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_johnbig7 59 M
11  Articles
people offering sex for money on this site   2/27/2007

i was under the impression that this site was for people who enjoy sex, to meet with others and have fun. i am sure in the rules that it says members must not solicit for money or commercial gain. Why then does it allow certain women from the phillipines on to this site who baltantly solicit for money evry time you start to talk to them. Some members also blatantly advetise other web sites ...


2 Comments, 194 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
Mystery Dinner?   2/18/2007

Without throwing rocks at those who fit into this category. I seem to be puzzled by those members that post on there profiles abrupt attacks at those that "aren’t real" or pose as waist of time. Understanding there are many that fit the shoe. Set out cap letters on Don’t bother us if your single male. Chemistry a must. Set rules of photo demands. Invite those only interested in ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
MyHeartLost4U 59 M
12  Articles
Damn(!!!) So damn funny how important privacy is here...   2/17/2007

You know I find it funny how there are always postings of members so concerned about their privacy with being a member of this site with how the search engines of Google, YaHoo, MSN and etc... picks up on members postings of their Blogs and etc... on this site.
Granted the webmaster can easily insert HTML tags and codings that would block search engine BOTs from indexing ...


3 Comments, 161 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_22591004 55 M
2  Articles
No Good Men or Women   2/13/2007

I hate when people say there are no good men or women out there. Maybe you have to check yourself and the people you fuck with are no good you may have to change your preference. But easier said than done I guess.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_22591004 55 M
2  Articles
Are Women Afraid?   2/13/2007

Are women afraid to make the first move? Do you have be a Brad Pitt or Tyson(the model)? We all should be polite just respond and say what you want or don't want.


2 Comments, 57 Views, 0 Votes
sweetnsassymeg 40 F
1  Article
Getting stood up is fun!?!?   2/10/2007

Yeah right! Getting stood up 2 days in a row is kind of pathetic! I knew this guy, that I met on a chat line. We hung out once... and talked on the phone/text messaged each other every single day! He told me 2 days ago that he really wanted to hang out... Yeah so... not really? First night he called and said "I have to go pick up my friend, he's in trouble!" Ok, ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
purpledragon73 46 M
1  Article
cost to much.   2/3/2007

you know this is really rough for someone who just started this and dont have the money to upgrade thier stat. i would rather spend the money on taking the person out than to upgrade. though to earn the points is good but it is limited to a max. now i dont hate people to make a buck, they could limit us differently and still make it some what easy on us. there is alot of women ...


4 Comments, 74 Views, 4 Votes
lnctlr 65 M
2  Articles
real people   2/2/2007

Is anybody else out there tired of responding to emails only to be suckered into another sex site/adult dating service?Has anyone actually met someone through one of these?Or is it just a ploy to siphon money?


7 Comments, 68 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_MSBHYVN 61 F
13  Articles
The reply to "What's Wrong'...................   2/2/2007

I think the answer "Nothing" to the question, "What's Wrong" Do you leave the person alone and say ok? or try to pry it out of them?


4 Comments, 84 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
RockThomas1982 41 M
1  Article
This Site Rocks   1/31/2007

I love this site I have only been here for aday or two but I am already meeting ppl.


2 Comments, 65 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
Was it something I said? (lol)   1/30/2007

[group_post 1262548]
Me (regarding gorzeyes): I understood it, too. She speaks the language of the scam artist. The only reason to learn their 'language' is to better avoid them. Apparently, you've bitten into the lure. Think, man. She holds a master's degree -- but she writes in 'u', 'ur' and 'wht'. Especially the 'wht'... the only people I've seen use that ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_erectforyou4 54 M
1  Article
Is courtesy too much to ask for?   1/30/2007

I have chatted and exhanged mails with a few people through DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples and other sites, only to find that people do not have the decency to tell you if they no longer intend to take things further. You're in the middle of a series of e-mails, in which the party on the other side has expressed definite interest, thus creating certain expectations, and suddenly they just stop corresponding ...


5 Comments, 128 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
14u2bnxtc 38 M
2  Articles
"Show an Tell....."   1/29/2007

..just a game i play...Ok, i just wanted to get this off my chest.Is it just me, but it seems like it's soo much easier for some to fantasize or talk about their sexual fantasies rather then actually goin thru with them. , example..."couple wanting to have fun" or "couple looking to spice things up".There is a "first" for everything, that i understand, what i dont understand is if you are ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Canice70 51 M
6  Articles
Attention: All TV/TS/CDs with pics   1/28/2007

Those of you men who dress up in women's clothing, please consider:
When you don't shave your excess body hair while wearing frilly panties and garter belts, it's about as sexy as a chimpanzee in a diaper and a bonnet.
Wearing makeup on top of that does not change the fact that your chest hair is popping out of your WonderBra.
Please cease ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
brooback1 46 M
1  Article
Is the membership price too expensive!   1/28/2007

The membership is too expensive, too many mails are blocked, too many mails get lost, responses take literally hours to reach your inbox.DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples needs to work on being a bit more service oriented, and less profit minded!!!


2 Comments, 76 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score