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Yes Welcome 3/25/2021
The Final Four, yes.A place to trace , a face, and pace, My
hope to no bracket, Gonzaga, a no lag a.Baylor, say there.Arkansas
an against the law.Ball' and no flaw.Doll it up, and
shoot, and rebound.Michigan, and U.C.L.A., HAHA.Alabama,
roll Biden.Syracuse, Loyola Chicago, go U.C.L.A., And
Oregon, beer, and me.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
0 Votes
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Yes, welcome. 3/17/2021
The Final Four, yes, .Where it is known, owned, and home.My
time to fly with the , 68 me's. Yes, Michigan State, o and W.V.U.And , o Wisconsin, and
Ohio State.Gonzaga, North Carolina, Syracuse, o U.S.C,
HAHA.L.S.U. , Alabama, Oregon State, Okla.State, U.
Conn., Rutgers, UNC, HAHA., Villanova.Iowa, Texas, Missouri, Purdue.Colgate, Baylor, Oregon, Drake.Florida
State, Univesity of ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
0 Votes
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Just say no 7/6/2020
I think its really easy. I guess some people think its not
polite or its an acceptable thing to leave others hanging.
I figure out of 100 interactions on line one meeting would
be good. The thing that is strange to me though is, why does
someone initiate a conversation, you have a good conversation
and then nothing. If you're not interested say so.
I will check in with people with a short ...
8 Comments, 60 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Being polite doesn't always work 6/14/2020
We try to keep our "thanks but no thanks" message
polite and straight forward. But there are some people
who persist, thinking if they change the language or tone
of an I.M or message from previously sent one's that
will suddenly make us change our mind. It's annoying
and irritating! We're not rude people in general and
don't wanna be, but when pushed you get the ...
3 Comments, 29 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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"No thanks" from a sub. 6/4/2020
Being a sub there are people that think that means they can
just start messaging with demands like " fuck your
ass with a wine bottle now show me pics now!!"
and then when I respectfully say no thanks, they try to back
track or worse double down the demands. Problem with back
tracking is that they've already shown that they don't
respect the relationship and will abuse it. ...
5 Comments, 40 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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adding a new article .. 5/30/2020
here i am, adding a new article ... a sad day 
3 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Just be honest 4/14/2020
I am not sure why it is so hard for people to just be honest
and say NO THANKS if they are not interested.
4 Comments, 45 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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No Thanks 2/17/2020
Telling someone no thanks is being nice. If said people
don't get the point, then it's on them what comes
next.
3 Comments, 46 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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is it hard 2/11/2020
is it hard to tell someone no thanks?
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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No thanks for sex 1/29/2020
There are many situation comes in which you can say no thanks
for sex As depend what is happens with your partner or you would
not like to meet with your partner or you had recently break
up with you partner and don't want to do sex and any o
e offer you for the saex but you refuse the same <br><br>
The reason is for that they you most like the that person
and that perosns real ...
2 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Blocking a person 1/24/2020
I know when you block a person you don't get their messages
and you don't see them online in chat/IMC but do they
still see you as being online or is it as if your not there
also?
1 Comments, 16 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Does that 1/24/2020
score you ?
1 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Nope 1/23/2020
No points ha
4 Comments, 22 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Sometimes its hard 1/17/2020
No its not, just say im not into it
1 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Points 1/16/2020
Yup, just one of those I need points posts
3 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Honestly 1/13/2020
Just be honest and truthful about everything and it will
go alot easier
1 Comments, 18 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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When to Say No 1/12/2020
How many of you couples out there keep getting messages
from the same lonely guy, day in and day out? You have told
this person that you are not interested in them and they
just insisting to message you. So how do you get them to stop?
9 Comments, 67 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Younger women 1/10/2020
Is it really that hard to respond to instant messages and
say sorry not interested in chatting or do women
just like the attention?
7 Comments, 78 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Why 1/8/2020
Why is it so hard for people say NO THANK OR NOT interested.
Why can't they just respond back with that simple reply.
6 Comments, 43 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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21 Ways to “Give Good No" 1/8/2020
We are coming to that time of the year that is both blessed
and cursed with zillions of invitations. Here are some
that are in my email right now: Can you meet me for coffee
to help me with my book proposal? Will you bring a snack to
the 8th grade party on December 19th? Are you coming to our
housewarming party? Can you help with my ’s college
applications? Do you want to take the to see ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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No thanks 1/6/2020
Another No Thanks for just getting some points.
2 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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No thanks situation 12/31/2019
Mostly no thanks situation is coming the perosns who
is self dependent and don't want take any help from
any one This can be a attitude and other thing as well so depend on
the person person that what exactly the thought. Same goes for sex is anyone saying no thanks of hot girl
yes it can be done if perosns are very controable. <br><br>
Send your thougts
0 Comments, 5 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Points 12/26/2019
No thanks. Just need points
3 Comments, 26 Views,
15 Votes
,3.59 Score
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Penis in your black mouth 12/24/2019
Niggersgddsfjgccjcxzzxxxxh643edgkogfb Bcccdsatiu85rsfhkoyde2
0 Comments, 20 Views,
12 Votes
,0.68 Score
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points 12/22/2019
points
0 Comments, 2 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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No thanks 12/19/2019
No thanks for for points
1 Comments, 25 Views,
20 Votes
,1.85 Score
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Worst "no" 12/18/2019
What would be the worst eay someone could say no?
1 Comments, 42 Views,
26 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Filtered pics 12/17/2019
I love flirting finding that little cute spark exchange
pics.your really turn on into person your chatting with
then final comes day your going to meet up then.. then you
meet up find person you was chatting with looks nothing
like person in pic.. Then you’re grossed out. Then you’re
feeling deceived and pissed pissed.. please people stop trying to pretend be ten win your really
2 That really ...
3 Comments, 42 Views,
19 Votes
,2.86 Score
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I find hard to say no as a man... 12/10/2019
I find that if we say no as a male sometimes girls can get very
mad like if it direspectful. But its that at all, sometimes
we are just over tired from a bad day at work and we are exhausted...
7 Comments, 60 Views,
23 Votes
,3.36 Score
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should be enough 12/10/2019
i would hope a woman saying no is always honored
1 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Not what you thought 12/10/2019
Have you met anyone that didnt look like there profile pic.
3 Comments, 33 Views,
20 Votes
,2.87 Score
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its not hard to do 12/10/2019
saying No thanks really takes very little time and can leave
the other person feeling good for just having made contact.
this site is all about feeling good , right? In this, the
season of giving, lets take that extra 2 seconds and me the
person your rejecting at least feel good about themselves
0 Comments, 21 Views,
18 Votes
,2.85 Score
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Never say "No Thanks" 12/8/2019
to points
0 Comments, 1 Views,
0 Votes
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Not what you expected 12/7/2019
Has anyone chatted with someone on here and when you met
they looked nothing like their picture.
4 Comments, 29 Views,
13 Votes
,3.98 Score
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So you think you can fuck me better? 12/6/2019
Just because you comment on my video that you can fuck me
better dont mean you ever will because I have a conection
with my man and thats something you will never have with
me so that kind of comment want get you anything but blocked
4 Comments, 44 Views,
22 Votes
,2.29 Score
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Boundries 12/6/2019
How important are broundries for you?
4 Comments, 43 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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Married Cheating Men And Woman 12/6/2019
Well mostly men in this case <br><br>
I dont care if you want to cheat on your spouse for what ever
reason <br><br>
Thats on you and the karma that comes with it <br><br>
But the 1st thing we do when talking with someone on here
is let them know thats a deal breaker and will not meet cheating
men and woman <br><br>
But you must really be a special ...
3 Comments, 48 Views,
20 Votes
,2.36 Score
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How many times do you have to say no thanks! 12/6/2019
Sorry I am not into BBC <br><br>
And I am not into 18 year old boys and dont care how big your
dick is <br><br>
But how many times must I say no thanks before I just get tired
and block you? <br><br>
Well it was about 10 this time
2 Comments, 34 Views,
14 Votes
,2.02 Score
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cutting it off 12/2/2019
what do some of you do when you meet someone in person and
find out you have no interest at all? stick it out or make
an excuse?
0 Comments, 1 Views,
0 Votes
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Co worker 11/29/2019
How do you turn down a co worker and not make things awkward
atvwork.
4 Comments, 15 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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POINTS POINTS POINTS POINTS. 11/27/2019
POINTS POINTS POINTS POINTS.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Gay guys flirting with Straights 11/25/2019
What is your go to response for letting a gay guy down?
4 Comments, 24 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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bad blow jobs 11/25/2019
Back when we were all young there were always a couple girls
who gave terrible blow jobs. You had just let them give
you a hand job and move straight sex. Might even have
so no the blow job if she was offering.
4 Comments, 27 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Silence is deafening 11/15/2019
I know it’s not always possible to respond to every message
if you’re not interested. I get it. And I will be respectful,
and never be abusive. But even a quick little , “no thank
you” really helps out sometimes. Does anyone agree?
8 Comments, 64 Views,
17 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Common courtesy? 11/15/2019
Is it me or have the younger generation aka 24 and younger
not been taught common courtesy? When you send a message
on IM here to the younger generation, it seems like half
of them never respond. Ladies... even if you're not
interested in chatting, it's called common courtesy
to at least respond back either way. Not interested? Totally
fine, but could you take 30 seconds to respond back ...
7 Comments, 57 Views,
15 Votes
,1.91 Score
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Is it better to be direct or slowly ghost someone? 11/15/2019
I prefer to be direct and told directly what someone is thinking.
5 Comments, 30 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Why? 11/14/2019
Why is so hard for single men on here to not read what people
post or say
2 Comments, 39 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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just say it 11/11/2019
Its ok to say no thanks when you are approached by members,
it will not only let them move on but it keeps you from getting
constant messages from a member you are not interested
in
1 Comments, 19 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Why 11/11/2019
Why when you get flirt and viewed do they then not respond
on massaging
4 Comments, 25 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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Try and be polite 11/7/2019
Rejection sucks, the worst rejection is when you get no
response after talking to someone. At least if you don't
want to get together, have the kindness to tell them.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Men, how would you prefer to hear I enjoyed meeting you but don't feel sparks? 11/6/2019
I'm twice widowed and had a great sex life with both
husbands. My first husband and I had a swinger lifestyle
for some years before the novelty wore off as we found that
many people are simply not very sensual. We did find some
couples and single FWBs that we had long sensual relationships
with. I've had enough varied experience know what
I need connect with a man. And there aren't ...
5 Comments, 74 Views,
18 Votes
,2.85 Score
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yep 11/5/2019
points points points points points points points points
points points
0 Comments, 5 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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How to... 11/5/2019
politely say no thanks after chatting for awhile and one
factor changes?
0 Comments, 10 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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How to keep thing decent? 11/3/2019
Looking for some advice here. How do you say ‘no thanks’
after exploring a relationship and deciding you aren’t
interested. I try be up front and honest but sometimes
it leads hurt feelings.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Is it really that difficult..... 11/3/2019
If you're not interested, just say it. <br><br>
Why flirt, messages or emails to then be ignored. <br><br>
I get its a competitive environment or is it the limitations
of the site now, ie is king?
0 Comments, 13 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Ghosting and liars 10/31/2019
It seems pretty weird to me that people just can’t be most
honest. The thing I hate the most it getting together or
getting to know each other is liars. The minute I catch someone
in a lie, I’m done, because they can’t be trusted. Just
say no if you are not interested, don’t string someone
along with lies and then ghost on them. I am busy with my career,
I don’t have time to waste with ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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I'm looking 10/31/2019
What is so hard to say I'm not interested. People checking
out people profile like they might b interested and yet
when u im them they don't respond. I understand women
get hammered on here but at least take the time to say not
interested
1 Comments, 5 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Never say "No Thanks" 10/31/2019
To getting points! would right? 
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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Just ignore this 10/31/2019
Test
0 Comments, 4 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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Difference 10/25/2019
A woman says no thanks to a guy and he can take it and move along.
But a guy meets a woman has sex on NS basis and she can’t
take no to anything more.
3 Comments, 26 Views,
13 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Asked about whether the best defender Marcelo the room 10/24/2019
I’ll host another bonfire tomorrow starting around
7 pm at the alsterwiese schwanenwik. Everyone is welcome
to come and to bring stuff to roast 🤙🏼 I have roasting sticks.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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No means no 10/23/2019
come on men, is it really that hard? <br><br>
I still have women almost shocked that I can take rejection
in stride. <br><br>
Women, what do you do with men who are too persistent?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
10 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Common manners from some on here 10/23/2019
Am I the only one or are others experiencing similar problems?
<br><br>
I'll come on, have loads of views, flirts, etc from
a single profile. I'll hotlist them back and begin
conversaion. They respond and we talk, suddenly they go
quiet. One asked for me to top fan them and then didn't
respond to my private messages. <br><br>
Then when I contact others on IM I ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
10 Votes
,1.00 Score
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to points 10/21/2019
points points points points points points points points.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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I never say No Thanks 10/16/2019
to points.. They are too valuable
1 Comments, 9 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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I never say "No Thanks" 10/15/2019
To points.. They are hard to come by on here!
1 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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I never say 10/14/2019
No Thanks.. Especially when points are involved..
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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It is time to bring back proper manners even to a sex siite. 10/13/2019
I have been surfing all levels of this site for 20 years now
and it has become clear over the years that manners have
declined and in some instances disappeared completely.
Gone are the days where people would in the rooms
and not have fight and bicker. Gone are the days where
people could an IM or message and people would politely
respond "No thanks" if they weren't ...
3 Comments, 23 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Why are people so rude? 10/13/2019
Seems like a lot of people haven’t mastered the
art of saying “hey, not interested.” They either say
something nasty or ignore you completely when they aren’t
interested. I don’t get it. Did I somehow offend them
by showing interest? I don’t get it at all. I’m 100%
straight and have had bi/gay guys message me. I simply say
“hey, not thing. Good luck.” They handle it just
fine. ...
2 Comments, 24 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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No one says it anymore 10/13/2019
You try talk others in messages and they dont reply
I would rather get a no thank you then just get ignored
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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points 10/13/2019
points points points points points points points points.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
0 Votes
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How do you say no nicely 10/11/2019
So you meet somebody in the bar and they arent how they looked
in their photos or there just isnt a connection. How do you
say no thanks without offending
1 Comments, 21 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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As a guy 10/11/2019
I know sometimes you feel like your lose some of your masculinity
if you cant get it up when she is horny. I'm just here
to say it's fine. You dont always have to be horny when
she is. It's a mutual relationship.
0 Comments, 24 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Being Mean 10/8/2019
How mean have you gotten with someone that won't just
leave you alone, on here or not on here?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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No Thanks? 10/8/2019
I never say no thanks.. Especially to points..
0 Comments, 6 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Not looking for sausage fest 10/3/2019
There must be 3to1 guys to girls on here guys posing as couple
that’s gay. Hoping to pose as couple really be looking
for guy on guy hook up..why don’t you change your profile
to layer looking for m4m hook up stop wasting peoples time
3 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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No Thanks 10/2/2019
So when you say no thanks in the most polite unrude way etc.
98% of the time they question it.. or they insist on how good
it wiil be and how good they are. Everyone has preferences . If you're not what they
want or prefer then let it be .
1 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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I never say 10/2/2019
"No Thanks" when points are involved
0 Comments, 3 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Being polite to single males? 9/24/2019
Which is better...telling a single male "No thanks"
or just ignoring him?
5 Comments, 37 Views,
11 Votes
,1.11 Score
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also happens to men 9/22/2019
i was with a married woman, gorgeous, great figure and smile.
she made me feel so comfortable i let her control and dom
me. <br><br>
we were probably 1 hour into it and she decides to tie me up
and blindfold me. <br><br>
i wasnt sure but she convinced me <br><br>
she was erotically touching and licking my body, especially
my nipples then she started rimming me. ...
4 Comments, 35 Views,
14 Votes
,1.22 Score
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Free bonus 9/18/2019
I remember DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples use to give u credits or 40 day gold or something
1 Comments, 19 Views,
12 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Screwed 9/18/2019
That's what DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples does to u
2 Comments, 18 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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Etiquette 9/17/2019
As a free member i wish i had a way to say thanks but no thanks
when someone messages me
2 Comments, 18 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Cut loose 9/15/2019
Usually its best to just let it go and accept the fact that
it's not working. Try not to continue down a path that
you know won't work
0 Comments, 10 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Ignored on messenger 9/14/2019
Great conversation. Things really seemed to click then
nothing. That ever happen to anyone else?
7 Comments, 41 Views,
18 Votes
,2.44 Score
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trust 9/14/2019
when someone close to u wants to get involved, a friends
wife, i think ts the ultimate betrayal, u lose ur friendship
and ur friend , so that time came for me , i said no thanks,
but i never saw his wife in the same way again ever i had to
turn down temptation , as hard as it was, and at times almost
impossible , due to the fact it was put on a plate for u , so
i turned it down flat. its much ...
2 Comments, 24 Views,
14 Votes
,1.86 Score
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Hey guys, chill please 9/12/2019
You log on to DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples and get all excited. All these pics with
flirty usernames. So many hot women and couples. You get
on IM and start browsing, messaging women, sending flirts,
requesting friends. Ready to have fun. And then... nothing.
<br><br>
Babe, I want to let you know that it has nothing to do with
you. I mean, don't take it personally. Women on DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples
are outnumbered 20:1. We ...
4 Comments, 88 Views,
29 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Say no 9/11/2019
Maybe hardest and loveliest part oh well or oh this is hell
whatever it is it is something
0 Comments, 3 Views,
1 Votes
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Thanks but not interested 9/10/2019
Such a simple response to a polite hello. Very refreshing when someone responds. Perhaps manners don’t apply here. Or, is it the points system or the poor programming that
causes folks to appear pushy or frigid? Either way. One lady actually replied as such to indicate
that she was not interested. That was refreshing.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Is it rude? 9/10/2019
I've meet a few people and turned all but 2 down in person.
They obviously weren't the type of person they said
they were in their profile. Many of them take offense, why?
If you want to a chicken and someone brought a duck you
wouldn't accept it either. Come on now, right?
1 Comments, 23 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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No Thanks 9/9/2019
Why is it so hard for some people to just say no thanks? It
would make things so much easier.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
8 Votes
,0.93 Score
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Reading Messages = Viewing Profile??? 9/5/2019
I'm running into so many problems with members I'm
not interested in, because they send me messages and I read
them, which gives them the notification that I "viewed
their profile" when I literally don't know who
the fuck they are.... Then some people call me on it saying
shit like "what, you shy?" "I see you're
looking at my profile, why won't you say ...
7 Comments, 73 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Good luck loll 9/3/2019
At all the men want do something on me
1 Comments, 13 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Side Piece’s Side Action on the Side 9/2/2019
So a few years ago I met a girl from this site. We hit it off,
and decided to meet. She wanted me to meet her at her apartment
that she was renting to be closer to her work. I agreed. <br><br>
When I got there, I was immediately creeped out. There was
no furniture, and the kitchen was empty. There were a few
boxes around and a bed. We talked a little bit, and then she
started smoking ...
4 Comments, 26 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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saying no 9/1/2019
Besides compliments, another thing the person you’re
saying no to might appreciate is knowing why. Sometimes
it’s best to be candid about your constraints. <br><br>
Example: I can’t handle the meeting for you this afternoon—I’m
busy onboarding a new hire and have a deadline I need to hit.
<br><br>
Example: This is a sweet pitch, but our doesn’t
have a budget ...
2 Comments, 19 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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Vegan Santa 8/29/2019
There is a guy on here that keeps creeping on me. He looks
like Vegan Santa Claus. He can't take a hint. I don't
want to message him because he is not worth the points.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Manners 8/21/2019
I have been told no thanks before and it’s no big deal.
I know I’m not everyone’s type. I’ve told others
no thanks before. We all have different tastes. Please
use manners and respect other’s preferences. It’s
not personal to you, and you may even win someone over
being polite. No name calling or rude comments, just excuse
yourself politely.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
19 Votes
,2.46 Score
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Points 8/18/2019
I think the point system needs fixing. If you're wanting
to chat with someone and they just left the line or don't
reply you're screwed out of points
7 Comments, 66 Views,
24 Votes
,5.86 Score
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Reply’s 8/16/2019
It really is not that hard to say no thanks to a reply I mean
as least it’s a response
4 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Older Guy Uh No 8/7/2019
I had a conversation with a guy online a few months back.
He showed me pictures of his perfect ripped body. Very sexy
needless to say. Told me he had glowing white teeth and woman
have complimented him on his neat overall appearance.
This conversation went on for at least 2 months before I
finally decided to meet him. He lived about 3 hours away
so I agreed to get a motel room and wait for him. I ...
6 Comments, 74 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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not trying to be rude 8/7/2019
I am getting a lot of message request from people who i'm
not interested in. I just say thank you but i'm not interested
and people get offended and message back rude things. Does
anyone else have this problem? If so, what do you do?
4 Comments, 40 Views,
18 Votes
,3.53 Score
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Such A Simple Reply... 8/6/2019
On here there tends to be a lot of profiles. Now when
one does Seem to be authentic and is sent a genuine, Polite
instant message they do not reply. Now I know what most say
about the guys to last ratio and how most ladies are just
so overwhelmed with IMs. However they are notified about
a New IM. Now the normal proper and polite thing to do is to
at least respond with a "No Thanks" or ...
6 Comments, 45 Views,
19 Votes
,2.99 Score
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help me please 8/3/2019
How does say no without sounding rude?
14 Comments, 85 Views,
26 Votes
,3.89 Score
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No 8/3/2019
<br><br>
No
0 Comments, 9 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Replies 7/31/2019
I wish women would just say no thanks instead of saying nothing
all. Do you agree?
4 Comments, 41 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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some folk 7/31/2019
got it down pat.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,0.75 Score
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How Many Men Have Aksed for a Simple Yes or No response 7/29/2019
So I have been asking if it is too much to just respond with
a simple yes or no. I can't seem to even get that much
of a response. Is it rudeness, inconsiderateness, or what
that causes these women to not extend just the simplest
of responses.
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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What is wrong With People 7/29/2019
Is is so hard to just say no thank you I am not interested.
I had invested some time and effort into communicating
with someone. My husband said he might be interested in
a couples sort of situation. So I shared that. After
multiple communications and trying to arrange a time to
meet. I extended multiple invitations including drinks with our spouses and then to a swing party.
I had assumed he ...
4 Comments, 83 Views,
29 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Being a young guy into older women 7/26/2019
Why is it so hard to find a good woman who loves men?
Is it something people are ashamed of in 2019 of all years?
Girls my age are not drawn to me the way older women are but
still it seems none of them want to commit to their feelings
and urges. I honestly dont see color or age or shape as long
as we respect each other but I do wish I could find an older
woman to treat the way she deserves. ...
1 Comments, 2 Views,
0 Votes
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An Off Meeting 7/26/2019
I once met a woman in an off chance place by accident. She
and I got to talking and she gave me her number and address
and told me to come over the next day. So I went over to her
house. What I noticed was a big facial mole on her upper cheek.
We were talking and she kissed me, which was kind of hot until
I opened my eyes. Oh my, staring me in the face was a mole mountain.
I got that imagine in ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
17 Votes
,1.85 Score
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how many times do you have to say no thanks to some one because you feel they are not sexy enough 7/25/2019
how many times do you say no to some one just because you think
they would be bad in bed? let me know
0 Comments, 18 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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Fake pictures 7/23/2019
Why are there sooooo many fake pictures on here? some even
use the photo for multiple accounts cant stand it!
less faking more fucking am i right
1 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Childish insults 7/22/2019
I am constantly amazed as what passes for mature behavior
on this site. Recently a man sent a message, I politely said no thank you
and (while not necessary )I explained why. His response
was write an insult. For the men complain that women don't respond
your emails or instant messages this is part of the reason.
Just because we are also using this site does not mean we don't want ...
10 Comments, 91 Views,
28 Votes
,4.88 Score
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Points 7/21/2019
Points points points points points
0 Comments, 2 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Just say no! 7/18/2019
I noticed that people will always try to push your boundaries
and if they are not respectful to your no they are not worth
taking in. There are so many respectful good people
there don’t waste your time on someone that isn’t.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
0 Votes
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points 7/16/2019
points points points points points points
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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You Deserve to be Picky 7/8/2019
Don't do what I did. <br><br>
As a young bi-curious guy on this site, my first experience
that came from here was... mediocre to say the least. I didn't
have prior experience sexually and I settled for the first
man willing to suck me off just out of convenience. I thought
I wouldn't get other offers. <br><br>
So now, the image of a toothy blowjob from an obese ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
12 Votes
,1.56 Score
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Nah 6/23/2019
Just be the bigger person and say no.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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emotional rollercoaster 6/21/2019
always feel bad when i have to turn someone down, less a guy
thats pretty fucking easy , God! Any advise how to let someone
down without hurting their feelings! It sucks to do it,
I hate it.
2 Comments, 17 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score
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No means no 6/19/2019
It's not easy say "No Thanks", especially
when the other person is interested and you aren't.
I think some subtle attempts work best, with a final heart
heart often the way.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
12 Votes
,0.86 Score
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no thank you 6/19/2019
Points points points points points
0 Comments, 3 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Response on IM 6/19/2019
Why is it that 80% of the people on IM don’t respond at all?
If you’re not interested say so, don’t just leave someone
to wonder if the P.O.S. Messenger app is actually sending
their messages
9 Comments, 48 Views,
21 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Wasting points 6/10/2019
Why do we even have points if thet never txt u bak its so stupid
i dnt even know why i keep wasting points for.
2 Comments, 24 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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for points please ignore 6/8/2019
for points please ignore
0 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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points 5/28/2019
doing for more points points points points
0 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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No response 5/23/2019
I have recieved numerous messages and IMs and have gotten
no replies back. What is the purpose of reaching out and
not saying a thing. Makes you wonder why. Post a response
and share your thoughts on one. I'm sure there's
plenty of people on here would like to know how you feel.
1 Comments, 15 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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Saying 'No Thanks' 5/21/2019
How do you say 'no thanks' politely?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Expectations vs No Expectations 5/19/2019
There is maybe a perception that all messages deserve a
response. However, as a woman who chooses to interact in
an adult forum online, I would suggest maybe less emphasis
is placed on the recipient responding and perhaps the senders
have less expectations. I would take the attitude, if a message of mine is not responded
to they are not interested or simply too busy. As I too have
messaged ...
12 Comments, 182 Views,
43 Votes
,3.46 Score
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I miss her 5/19/2019
Her husband dosnt let her anymore but weve become friends
do u think she will suck and fuck me again?
1 Comments, 31 Views,
20 Votes
,1.59 Score
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How to get men to stop messaging me 5/15/2019
I get messaged way more by men than women on here. I have my
profile set as straight(women only) but somehow men are
messaging me. Is there anyway I can put a spot to this.
don’t have a problem with gay or bi people but it’s just
not for . Any advice would be great because it’s getting
ridiculous. Thanks
3 Comments, 33 Views,
13 Votes
,2.30 Score
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why is it so hard for girls to just say no? 5/9/2019
I understand the possible stigma's or asshole-ish
responses might get from jerks who think they are owed sex
because (who knows why.) But Is it really hard, especially
in a virtual setting, or in a , to just say "sorry,
I changed my mind, " or flat out, "no."
asking because I feel as though some women who did
not tell me they had changed their minds and just decided
to ...
4 Comments, 46 Views,
25 Votes
,0.59 Score
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Should saying "No Thanks" or "Not interested" be a common courtesy!? 5/2/2019
I feel if someone takes the time to acknowledge you,
you should be taking the time to acknowledge them back even
if your not interested! Do others feel it is rude to not respond
to a message sent to you? Or am I alone on this one?
7 Comments, 49 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Pointers 5/1/2019
Just here for them points
2 Comments, 18 Views,
13 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Funny. "Saying no thanks" was gonna be my title. 4/29/2019
You know what I truly enjoy? Hitting on dudes I know are gonna
be uncomfortable when I do so. Not cause I expect a positive
response, but because the negative responses lead to my
favorite thing to tell a dude: 's how you make women
feel. I especially love to do this after witnessing them
making an ass out of themselves when hitting on one of my
friends. <br><br>
This applies to ...
2 Comments, 22 Views,
15 Votes
,0.99 Score
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points 4/27/2019
points points points points points
1 Comments, 16 Views,
13 Votes
,1.13 Score
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points 4/26/2019
doing this for more points
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Do you really accept a "no, thank you"? 4/15/2019
I see a few people asking why can't women just say "no,
thank you" instead of not replying? Well, here's
this, not all people take gracefully. Some decide
to berate you or to continually contact you after you've
declined. I've had to say no to the same individuals
multiple times until I've had to block them. Is
okay? If someone doesn't respond to me, I take ...
11 Comments, 112 Views,
39 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Messaging 4/15/2019
Someone tell me what doing wrong. I message people
politely and introduce myself. I ask how they are doing
day and offer to send a pic so they can see what i look
like or most times just send a face pic. Still only 1 out of
maybe 15 reply or even read my message. Any suggestions
6 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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if your uncomfortable with it 4/12/2019
just say no thanks
0 Comments, 5 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Not 'no thanks' but 'can't now' .... 4/10/2019
I normally have to plan my playtimes, for very specific
days and hours. Frequently I get into conversations with
guys who get very rude when I can't drop things and '
now' to take care of their wants. not turning
them down, just letting them know I have time constraints,
like most folks have. I get every response from the usual
'you're missing a good thing' to the ...
3 Comments, 35 Views,
19 Votes
,1.41 Score
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Wondering Mind 4/7/2019
My mind wonders. Could I be Bi-sexual.I like a like looking
dicks and sometimes get excited. I throb when I watch.
3 Comments, 50 Views,
18 Votes
,1.62 Score
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Saying no thanks, because , as imagined , couples are scarce.. Hurry up and get a gold account 4/7/2019
Nothing ever changes. Are there no real couples , anywhere?
1 Comments, 19 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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points 4/7/2019
just here for the points
3 Comments, 17 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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2019 Greetings 4/2/2019
ARE YOU RUDE NICE OR JUST GHOST A PERSON WHEN YOU TELL THEM
NO THANKS?
1 Comments, 15 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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Why 3/29/2019
Why don't more women just say "no thanks"?
It can be frustrating to figure if a woman wants to meetup
or not. Not replying in I get for standard users, but
gold members don't bother. Makes me want to delete
this
3 Comments, 28 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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points 3/25/2019
points points points points points
1 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Why i came here 3/16/2019
I came to this site after i lost my wife to cancer. I was a lost
man who was spoiled and loved at same time. I am here to learn
what women of today want and what i can bring from the past
to today and still enjoy . But to my shock after 4 years of
great marrage that some women not all women on here are only
after Itune cards or other things to have me buy for them.
But im not here to buy ...
4 Comments, 32 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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please be polite 3/9/2019
what is it girls can;t reply and just say not interested
thanks
6 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Scammer, fakes and frauds 3/8/2019
What is going here shaking my head? So many boys, scammer
profiles and they're so aggressive like wtf!
3 Comments, 24 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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Not wanting to meet 2/19/2019
I have always said honesty is the best policy unless you
are cheating. If you make a date after meeting a person and
then decide it is not for you, do you ghost them or be honest
and say no thanks after more thought i am not looking for
what you offer? It sounds so lame via text.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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Basic Manners 2/10/2019
It's always better to just say something as simple
as, not interested or not our type; instead of just ignoring
the person(s) who decided to contact you.
5 Comments, 56 Views,
20 Votes
,3.38 Score
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rejection 2/7/2019
how do you take rejection?
3 Comments, 40 Views,
16 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Why is it so hard? 2/5/2019
I know not everyone is going to want to meet up, or even chat.
But why can't people at least be civil and say they're
not interested? sure this topic has been discussed
ad nauseum, but it's really been burr in my saddle lately.
4 Comments, 28 Views,
14 Votes
,1.70 Score
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Someone Else's F Shack 2/2/2019
This is something that happened several years ago. I started
talking to a woman on here and hit it off very well. After
some erotic chat and phone conversation, we decided to
meet in person. It was very exciting, because we had some
great conversation. <br><br>
Since I had roommates, I couldn't host easily. She
provided me with the option to meet her at her apartment.
I agreed. I ...
1 Comments, 62 Views,
16 Votes
,2.10 Score
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A lot of guys on here 2/1/2019
What i dont get is how or why guys hit me up with stuff like--
let me suck your dick and I try to be nice and say not my style
and then get pissed. Its making me respond like more of dick
that I want, but only way to get left alone.
6 Comments, 42 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score
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Does it hurt ot have proper manners? 1/27/2019
So, I was sitting here thinking, 'How hard is it really
to just reply and say "No Thank You, I'm (We're)
not interested." <br><br>
I know there are people who will be ultimately be idiots
and not take the simple straight forward hint, but those
should be the exception and not the norm. <br><br>
If we all were to make a concerted effort to be more ...
8 Comments, 42 Views,
21 Votes
,3.99 Score
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Saying No Half-Way 1/23/2019
It really needs to be understood that just because you said
"yes" to sex, doesn't mean you're
obligated to continue. <br><br>
People get uncomfortable. They have second-thoughts,
lose interest, or just decide they aren't ready. <br><br>
And that's totally okay. <br><br>
This especially applies to women, but for everyone out
there - you ...
2 Comments, 36 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score
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a simple "no thank you" 1/21/2019
A simple "not interested" would be better as
opposed to being ignore, but whatevs. <br><br>
p.s. this is for points
5 Comments, 38 Views,
18 Votes
,3.67 Score
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saying not interested 1/20/2019
Why do people give asshole responses when you say hi?
2 Comments, 26 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Why is it so hard? 1/12/2019
Why is it so hard for people to just say it?
3 Comments, 23 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Be polite? 1/10/2019
Why is it so difficult to say "no thanks" if the
person is not interested? It's frustrating enough
being rejected, but there's no to completely
ignore a request (unless they are harassing you). <br><br>
Thoughts?
3 Comments, 22 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Don't be rude! 1/8/2019
I prefer responding to say "no thanks" rather
than ignore someone. No one likes to be ignored.!
7 Comments, 57 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;) 12/31/2018
a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect
all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding
my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some
local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all.
Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure
to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match.
I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...
3 Comments, 38 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;) 12/31/2018
a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect
all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding
my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some
local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all.
Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure
to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match.
I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Working Girls 12/30/2018
Is it just me or are there a lot of women on here lately trying
to "sell their wares"? I'm assuming it
has a lot to do with the Craigslist getting rid of their adult
oriented classifieds section. I could be narrow minded
but, I didn't join this site to find a . Hell,
if I wanted to pay for sex I would of stayed married. Okay,
that may have been a little low. Any way, am I alone ...
1 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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are the girls really just looking for sex 12/26/2018
are the girls on this site really just looking for sex and
why are their guys on here pretending to be girls
2 Comments, 23 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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Watching 12/12/2018
I have to, on a weekly basis, have to turn down fucking a girl
with her husband watching. This must be way more common
than I thought.
3 Comments, 31 Views,
13 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Hello out there 12/2/2018
I get it that free members have limited chats, but once in
a while just saying "no thanks" to someone is
helpful if you are being messaged first. Does help with
the process of not hitting them up again....
3 Comments, 26 Views,
17 Votes
,2.56 Score
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points 12/1/2018
doing it for the points points points
1 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Greetings 11/28/2018
Hello Everyone, My name is Alicia and my husband is Chris. We are new to both
the group and the site. Looking to meet people. We also are
new to the Wichita Falls area we moved here a few months ago.
No family no friends just us and the . So we are also open
to friends only. Anyways just wanted to introduce us and
say hi.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Taking no for an answer 11/8/2018
Why can’t men jus take no for answer? I myself respect
it when a woman says no and I leave her alone. I have heard
men and talked to men that say they will not take no for an
answer and they will continue to push to get what they want.
Men should just respect it when a woman tells them no. How
many of you out there agree with this?
3 Comments, 34 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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how to say not interested 10/27/2018
i have come across a few that i wasnt interested or they werent
interested i dont have a problem saying it but you have some
that juust end up disappearing instead of saying there
not interested is it that hard for some to actually say it
and be truthful
2 Comments, 28 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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being polite when rejecting an advance 10/18/2018
i would like to think that i polite when taking to women
on here about possible meets. so in return i would hope that
a women can be polite if they want to decline your offer.
i would also be polite and kind if i was to turn a women down.
<br><br>
what i don't like is people who are damn rude and even
abusive in response. we could all be like that but its just
not nice! ...
1 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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How to say 'no' after you meet up 10/18/2018
Hi, Sometimes you chat with someone and really hit it off.
Unfortunately, when you meet up you just dont click. What
is the nicest way to say no thank you without hurting anyone?
thank you.
2 Comments, 44 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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Be nice 10/14/2018
It seems people contact people but say nothing... of they
just start with nasty openings.. Seem even though this
site is to meet people ... I think being nice should be standard..
<br><br>
fee members or paid members should get the same respect
<br><br>
be smart be nice be safe
1 Comments, 20 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Saying No 10/14/2018
How is the best way to say no. Just say no and walk off or give
a reason?
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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Being pushy 10/10/2018
Why are the single men in here so damn pushy not all but definitely
came across a few of them
7 Comments, 68 Views,
28 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Dcsmd 10/6/2018
So seems slot of these girls esnt you to dend them money and
other hslf wsntbu to join dome dight!
0 Comments, 4 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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yes or f off? 9/24/2018
cant you just say no thank you? instead of telling someone
to piss the fuck off and being a rude person. up your game
and be respectfull
3 Comments, 22 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Bots! What’s up with the Bots? 9/19/2018
Okay so I can’t stand bots on sites. They drive me crazy!
When your using a sit and you have to pay for sending messages,
it really sucks when you start chatting with a bot, and don’t
realize it at first. Why? Why do they do this? In all honesty
I know why, but come on? Really?
2 Comments, 23 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Woman looking for money 9/4/2018
Lot of woman on the site who are looking just for money. Not
as a result of a friendship here but as the criteria to have
friendship.
9 Comments, 57 Views,
21 Votes
,4.24 Score
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If they are not your type. 9/4/2018
How do you say no without hurting anyone's feelings?
5 Comments, 50 Views,
19 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Would be Nice To Just Say No Thanks 9/3/2018
Don't Like Sending Messages Thinking They're
Not Going Through At Times Also
0 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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why can't the women on hear juat say not interested 9/2/2018
what's up with the girls on hear they start talking
ask for pics and then just stop if they are not interested
why not just say that it is not a big deal just called manners
and being polite
5 Comments, 39 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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prositioned 9/1/2018
say no somebody might be in a sting
1 Comments, 12 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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No thanks 8/31/2018
It's hard to get to know someone without chatting with
them to see if you click. But once they say no thanks, I do
my best to stop bugging them. <br><br>
Sometimes I say no thanks but that's normally just
to the perv guys, lol... <br><br>
Hope you all respect others.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Too many pushy people! 8/31/2018
We haven't been here long but have already figured
out there are way too many extremely pushy people!
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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What do women think 8/29/2018
Are there women that are online only for looking a single
guys. I always try to chat and some women are married. Sometimes
I'm not sure I want to be safe and not have any drama.
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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just be polite thats all 8/29/2018
why do people have to be rude when you message them and show
an interest? mainly people politely decline but i have
had people who are damn right rude and abusive. <br><br>
all you have to do is be polite and say no thanks! what do people think?
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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What 8/24/2018
What
0 Comments, 0 Views,
0 Votes
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Life is how you make it 8/16/2018
Life is how you make it if you want something to happen make
it happen only you can do it no one else
1 Comments, 7 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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it doesnt take much to politely decline 8/15/2018
i find it incredible that there are people on this site who
choose to abuse you in some way or are not very polite when
they answer a message. <br><br>
it doesnt take much to be polite and say no thanks even being
ignored is better than being rude.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
0 Votes
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Replying/not replying to a IM 8/11/2018
So, I tend to have a habit of trying to reply to anyone that
IM's me whether I'm interested or not. I've
been wondering though. Is it better to not reply if I'm
not interested? What do you all think? Polite to reply that
you're not interested or better to not reply at all?
0 Comments, 16 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Why is it weird for guys to say "No thanks" 8/9/2018
Why is it weird when a guy turns down a girl? Maybe hes not
attracted... girls can do it all the time, but a guy does
it and theres something wrong with him.
4 Comments, 32 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Say it firmly but politely 8/7/2018
If you are saying "NO THANKS" Say it with conviction
but not with harsh words. Understood some people simply
don't get it because in their minds eye they are the
most desirable of all partners. If they get TOO persistant
Block them
2 Comments, 22 Views,
16 Votes
,3.42 Score
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Try to be nice to everyone. 7/24/2018
We get a lot of messages from others that we are not interested
in. I always try and tell them that we are not interested
but appreciate them taking the time to us. Our response
is thanks for the message but we are not interested in you
but wish you luck in your search. We have had some that say
thanks you to. Then we have had some that get very offended
and say mean things. I sorry but we are ...
4 Comments, 65 Views,
16 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Was punished for saying "No Thanks" 7/17/2018
I live in gated secured condo complex and I love using the
workout room and hitting the pool but there is a woman who
always appears and tries to engage in conversation. I have
told her she is not my type, that I wasnt looking for a liaison
and just wanted my peace. <br><br>
An hour later, po-po show up and ask all kinds of questions
about the lady. I didnt even know her name!! ...
3 Comments, 35 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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Just Say I'm Not Interested 7/8/2018
I am trying to figure out why ladies won't say they are
not interested. Instead some choose to not answer respectful
approaches from a gentleman. This is very irritating.
Most men can accept when they are not wanted, and is told
so. Ladies I know you can do better. It's only a select
few. Unfortunately some men think with the wrong head.
.
4 Comments, 39 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Chemistry 6/29/2018
So if you meet someone from here and find out the chemistry
is just not there, how do you handle it? Do you treat it like
any regular date, or because it started with an emphasis
on meeting for adult fun, end the encounter quickly. Either
way, i think its best to be thoughtful of the impact on others
feelings.
3 Comments, 14 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Cam play 6/26/2018
Why is everyone so afraid
2 Comments, 19 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Be polite 6/17/2018
When somebody sends you a message about being interested
in you, the least you can do if your not interested is just
be polite and say “ no thank you “.
3 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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A female perspective on saying "No thanks." 6/16/2018
There are so many articles on here about "just tell
us you're not interested" and how "ignoring
someone is rude." <br><br>
As a woman on here, I get a lot of messages and IMs. In fact,
I always try to turn off IMs when I first log on because I just
don't have the time or ability to reply to every, single
message I get. It's not meant to be rude... If I ...
8 Comments, 185 Views,
29 Votes
,5.65 Score
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How to say No Thanks, when meeting in person first time 6/15/2018
How do you politely say no thanks, once you've finally
met in person, without coming off rude?
3 Comments, 27 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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when enough is enough 6/14/2018
when some becomes too pushy and you have to say no thanks,
should be enough for any man or woman. letsd have some
respect in this world.
2 Comments, 12 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Przyj\ciele 6/9/2018
http://DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples.com
0 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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ouch 6/9/2018
I love all the people on here that take these amazing pictures
that fool you into thinking they look amazing. Then they
send you a more real picture, this is when I feel lied to!
LOL I know that makes me sound shallow but I have a wide sweep
in taste and some of these pictures are scary. I always get
these after chatting for a while and then I never know what
to say. I don't want to be rude ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples IM 5/30/2018
Wondering what every ones thought are on the IM here. Is
it just me or does it seem extremely rude to not at least say
no thanks to a chat request. I understand some people get
bombarded with requests but when I can see that it has been
read at least say no thank you and move on.
2 Comments, 34 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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why do women not reply 5/26/2018
most of the women i send messages to don't reply they
could at least say not interested or no thanks
7 Comments, 62 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Saying "No Thanks" 5/23/2018
If someone writes you or even IMs you and you are not interested
... Please have the courtesy to say "no thanks"
or "Sorry Im not interested". Dont keep them
guessing if you are just busy. Thats how everyone on here
gets annoyed and frustrated. Just a thought that might
help others
6 Comments, 52 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score
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A difference between aggression and desperation 5/21/2018
I'm sort of torn commenting on this. <br><br>
I love it when a woman is confident and strong or submissive
and meek, either is attractive. It's hard to say no
when someone is "desperate" though, too handsy,
overly aggressive and sloppy...ya no thanks.
1 Comments, 11 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Monologue Responding to IM messages 5/17/2018
I'm sure you all experience monologuing when you chat
and no one else answers. Such a waste of time. All it takes
is for you to reply "no thanks" don't leave
us hanging.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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why do so few do this...? 5/12/2018
Why do so few people have the courtesy to say a simple "no
thanks" as opposed to just ignoring a chat request?
9 Comments, 69 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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People that don't respond 5/9/2018
How hard is it to say "No thanks." or "I'll
pass". With the sketchy performance of DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples's
Messenger, how is any to know if an actual message is
getting through? I don't mind saying, "Sorry,
not what I'm looking for at this time." but...nothing???
That's just rude anytime and anywhere. Your thoughts?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Hi 5/8/2018
How do you as a guy say no thank you to a woman who comes across
as self centred and full of there own importance? Even though
she is like this I have morals I stick by ...
4 Comments, 21 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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conversations 5/7/2018
Why is it so hard to start a conversation in IM?
4 Comments, 16 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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i wish 5/5/2018
i wish people has the respect to say no thank-you thank-you
2 Comments, 12 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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saying no 4/26/2018
just say no like the say in school
1 Comments, 11 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Does anyone say yes? 4/23/2018
Does anyone say yes?
3 Comments, 16 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Courtesy 4/22/2018
Seems that when people aren't interested on here,
that they don't even say no thanks. That would reduce
harassing texts. You only have to tell me once.
5 Comments, 34 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Chat rooms 4/15/2018
Having no luck chatting in the chat rooms! What am I doing
wrong
0 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Read and Respect the Profile 4/14/2018
I have made it clear in my profile as to my sexual orientation,
preference. I enjoy doing webcast and interacting with
the viewers. If you have seen any of the very few cast I have
done I address the woman, but if i'm asked a question
I'm going to answer or tell the guys to read the profile.
I don't care who watches but if your not tipping or buzzing
I'm going to block you. I ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Persistence even after you say no thanks 4/3/2018
I get it quite a bit from couples... but the persistence
these days when you say no thank you is crazy. I don't
like reporting or ignoring people, but they continually
think they are going to change you mind. This is especially
the case with couples and gay men on here. <br><br>
Anyone else running into this?
0 Comments, 25 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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We are too busy right now 3/16/2018
So when you meet someone and you agree to meet a second time
and they suddenly are too busy right now to meet, I get the
hint. I’m a pretty straight forward person, don’t
people have the ability to simply say not interested? Seems
like middle school behavior. My feelings won’t be hurt,
just tell it like it is. Curious what others think.
4 Comments, 32 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score
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It's best to say no instead of creating 2/7/2018
I use this site frm almost eight years and found here a lot
of fake ID's. And many mention they are here for real
fun but when any one contact them they said they are here
for fun but they were passing their tym.with chat only.
So I think it's better to say no instead of making other
fool.
1 Comments, 36 Views,
24 Votes
,6.65 Score
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Why do most people ignore you rather than say no thanks? 2/6/2018
I'm not sure why there is such a hesitation to respond
to a 'hello' on chat, but it seems that most people
ignore you rather than say no thanks. Why is that? I try to
respond to every person, regardless of sex or attraction
just out of courtesy. I think it would make for better experience
on this site if we did. <br><br>
Thougts? Am I wrong?
5 Comments, 48 Views,
17 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Money 1/30/2018
Are there more women on here looking for money rather than
just general fun?
5 Comments, 32 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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polite people 1/28/2018
I know this is a pay site and prohibitive to people who aren't
paying. I would just like people to tell me they're
no interested instead of seeing a pic and ghosting. I am
an adult. it's not like we all haven't had rejection
in our lives. <br><br>
please just communicate. <br><br>
Thank you
8 Comments, 42 Views,
18 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Just say not interested. 1/23/2018
Sometimes I wish they would just say not interested as opposed
just ignoring my message. That way I could just move on and
not try to message them again. I don't mean to be pushy,
just want to know if you would like to chat or not.
4 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Code for not interested 1/18/2018
So what are some of the phrases you use or hear when some
is not interested. <br><br>
The most common I’ve heard from couples is, “we
are too busy right now”. Has any else ever heard that?
2 Comments, 39 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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BULLSHIT people are phoney and have NO backbone 1/14/2018
Let me tell you all something, we all find out the hard way
sometimes. It comes down to ppl are not raised right. They
don't have a backbone and common courtesy. What is
right? Just say NO thank you, and move on. BUT, people play
you a long, play fucking ring a round the posey, beat around
the bush. Ultimately you have pissed off people. 
5 Comments, 41 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Why can't people say not interested 1/13/2018
Is it just me why can't people just say not interested
when u message them instead of just not responding
7 Comments, 35 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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When you chat and find out the truth 1/5/2018
It’s tough when you see a pic for the first time after chatting
a while, but it’s always best to be hst.
6 Comments, 59 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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Saying No Thank You after steamy chat 12/30/2017
What is the best way to say "no thanks" after
a long time chatting, getting all steamy, and realizing
when you meet that something is missing? How not to hurt
the other person?
2 Comments, 19 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Why dont people have basic coutesy to reply a IM 12/30/2017
If you are not keen to talk to someone. Why not have basic
coutesy to atleast reply them.. <br><br>
You read the message n ignore.. thats so bad
5 Comments, 60 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Quick and easy 12/27/2017
One of the best ways is to simply say "Thank you, but
I'm not interested. I wish you luck." This works great, as long as it is sincere. If people get
upset at it, that isn't your fault, and you've
done your part.
1 Comments, 18 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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alone on the holidays sucks 12/22/2017
its hard when you meet someone and they are just not attracted
or into you. I always just try be happy and move on but I always
wonder why they don't like me. I wonder if it was just
the way I look or if it is something I said I didn't say.
I wonder if I could have said something different or if they
just were not attracted to me or maybe its just the sound
of my voice or the way I talk.
0 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Saying NO on a date 12/7/2017
I have made the experience that some people on here use old
or fake photos to get dates. But i am also telling them when
I meet them in real life that this is a no go and I stop the date
right away. <br><br>
Who also does this?
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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So ummm 12/3/2017
Is it just me or are women very good at it? lol
0 Comments, 8 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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how do you say NO to your partner 11/17/2017
how do you say no to your partner when you don't want
sexxx ?
1 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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NOT JUST NO, BUT HELL NO 10/17/2017
I find it very funny how many people on here pose as couple,
when it is just a bi guy. I also get a kick out of the number
of women on here that are gun hoe till they find out you are
not a young hunk. I myself don't see the need for a young
hunk or a young woman to be here? I know they can find all the
sex they want on their own. I was wondering how many people
here find this site to be a ...
5 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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Honesty before things get weird. 10/16/2017
Sometimes you will find couples that want to do things together,
whether you are into that or not is not the point of this,
it is more to say that if you are up front with your limits
or what you want out of something instead of hoping you can
sneak it in you will get a lot farther in life and relationships.
2 Comments, 18 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Please if you can read my whole profile 10/8/2017
It seems I am having to say no thanks to a number of men simply
because they can't or don't read my whole profile.
I am a young 65 year old who does prefer a younger man. As my
profile states though please no one under 30 or over 55.
It is not that difficult to understand yet I am having to
say no thank you to a number of men. I am always polite say
hello then tell them sorry no the ...
10 Comments, 118 Views,
18 Votes
,4.76 Score
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Politeness 9/20/2017
I always appreciate when someone says no thanks if I page
them on IM. If someone pages me and I dont want to chat I always
let them know instead of ignoring them.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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refused 8/23/2017
a horney girl needs me but I'm very busy these days ,
how can I gently refuse her ?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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ignorance 8/23/2017
she ignored me :\
0 Comments, 19 Views,
13 Votes
,5.83 Score
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Just decent 8/16/2017
How many times have you messaged someone and gotten no reply?
I always answer my messages even if it is to say "No
Thanks" at least then the other person has an answer.
It is just common decency.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Choices that have very fine sinus congestions in the end of the wrong turn I made... 8/13/2017
Is it so very negligent to leave your pets all about and without
proper behavior? Really I'd rather swim in the ocean
and find gold perhaps at the bottom of the abyss than date
a bismol. That way the never ending battle I had with Achilles
and guess what. I offer his soul back up to Zues himself.
The little pixie liked to pick the wrong fights and found
out that I'm superman compared to his ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Whats your percentage of useless messages? 7/31/2017
I'd say 95% of the messages I get are either bots or people
that havent even looked at my profile.
Everyone else in the same boat? Anyone out there getting good messages all the time?
3 Comments, 39 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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gotta be gentle 7/24/2017
some come ready to play.. so if you don't want to, ,, ,, be
nice.
1 Comments, 11 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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funny i would love how to learn to say no thanks!! 7/17/2017
saying no thanks must be a woman thing, cause as a guy, not
sure I would turn down any woman who wanted to meet.
most women on DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples are very sexy, they may not have sexy hot
bodies, but they do have sexy hot minds. If they don't
I am not getting to the meeting part of chat!!
as long as women are hot any horny, and seem like they enjoy
pleasing people sexually, I am all in!
0 Comments, 13 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Is it so difficult? 7/2/2017
Whenever I make contact to anyone, If I am not going to enjoy
time with them... 1. I don't lead them on 2. I am always polite 3. If asked to get together, it's easy to refuse and
let the (person or individual) know I will not be meeting
them.
Sooo, why is it so difficult for other to do that? Many members
I have found do not ever let you know, we are not a match!
Shameful!!!! ...
1 Comments, 22 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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why cant people 6/26/2017
Every time I try chatting most will not answer. If they are
not interested why cant they say so.
10 Comments, 73 Views,
15 Votes
,1.75 Score
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Respeitar o não! 6/24/2017
A mulher como todo homem sabe, é de fases uma hora está
com o humor dos melhores outra hora está com o pior possível,
ela pode dizer que está afim de transar e no mesmo instante
dizer que perdeu a vontade. Muitas vezes isso é de deixar
o cara puto, porém o que sempre prevalece é a vontade de
ambas as partes no que em minha opinião é requisito fundamental
para a relação ser prazerosa, ...
1 Comments, 9 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Proper way to say thanks but no thanks 6/15/2017
Not sure what is the proper way when someone approaches
you on the site to say thanks but no thanks. I think everyone
can agree that there is a certain physical chemistry involved
in wanting to pursue a sexual encounter. I am not a picky
person nor do I think that I am shallow or wanting a certain
type. I am attracted to all women of all color and size and
shape. That being said I find it ...
3 Comments, 65 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Is blocking okay? 6/4/2017
I've been interested in some members, then they constantly
message and such to the point where I will block them to get
some peace. If I decide to unblock them do you think it would
lead to something or would they hold a grudge?
4 Comments, 31 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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no to a bad night 4/17/2017
when you are out partying trying to enjoy your night when
all of a sudden you get a gut feeling knowing something isnt
right with the girl thats trying to get with you fallow the
gut on feelings that night i had that feeling then found
out that girl that was trying to get with me got locked up
for having a shit ton of drugs in her car
0 Comments, 21 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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no thanks 4/1/2017
when u say o any one for some of work u r happy
0 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
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Rejection nicely 3/11/2017
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 Comments, 40 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Have you? 3/1/2017
Have you ever showed up for a "meet and greet"
that was suppose to lead to sex, but the person on the other
end was not who/what they appeared to be online?
This happened to me and I could not figure out a way to say
"no thanks, this isn't going any further than
coffee" without making it very awkward....
Any advice?
3 Comments, 57 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Manners 1/23/2017
We recently became members to this site... We have gotten
several flirts, emails, and our profile has been viewed
by many. We have been busy checking out profiles that fit
what we are looking for and I must say we enjoy and are having
fun already.. However there are a couple of single men that
have commented and sent us emails and we have found that
even though we didnt request single men they ...
6 Comments, 142 Views,
16 Votes
,4.89 Score
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emailing 1/15/2017
Why does it seem like on this site women are significantly
more interested in just ignoring emails rather than saying
no thanks. I get the emails that are short, 3 or 4 words, but
when a guy takes the time to compose a thoughtful email,
shouldn't that at least deserve some kind of response?
What happened to common decency?
10 Comments, 77 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Meeting up 12/21/2016
I'm beginning to think everyone is pic collectors.
No one wants to meet without pictures. Remember when we
didn't have the internet and we met for drinks. I have
never had a problem meeting in person and either you are
into them and great or one of you is not into the other and
gi your separate ways. We're all adults. Once someone
has had their identity stolen, fake profiles made and see
how hard ...
3 Comments, 53 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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No means no 12/1/2016
No means no damnit 😉
9 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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2 Comments, 8 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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ussion topics are for original mat 11/21/2016
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Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site.
Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you
see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that
may have been publish
1 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Is being crazy contagious? - There is always a price you must pay! 11/16/2016
While riding the train downtown last evening (yes
we now have light rail trains in and around Los Angeles)
to the Lakers / Brooklyn Nets game(at Staples Center) my
phone blew up (figuratively not literally) with texts
from not one but two former booty calls. What was strange
is both of the booty calls have from time to time tried to
reconnect with me a time or two in the past. I have ...
4 Comments, 144 Views,
27 Votes
,5.45 Score
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SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it? 11/1/2016
SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are
they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I
ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know
since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them
at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular
basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once
or twice every year. They were both in ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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This Member "djhits20072 " Male 55yr Old Harassing Me 10/30/2016
This guy seemed nice in beginning conversation. We only
conversated on the phone. After awhile, he began having
notions that I would video us and put it on this site. If you
go to his profile you will see that he is definitely not the
type of male you guys would want to see in a video with me.
Anyway, he kept talking about us being videoed. He began
going over and over again about being videoed ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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SAY NO THANKS AND RUN WHEN... 10/15/2016
Hi my fellow DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples brother and sisters,
I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but
to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are
on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying
to have fun and meet great people.
We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives.
Be sure to keep ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
19 Votes
,7.08 Score
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Saying No 10/3/2016
It seems allot of people like to say no and sometimes they
shouldn.ty
1 Comments, 17 Views,
4 Votes
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What is the code phrase for saying no? 9/19/2016
I have met two different couples in the recent past and during
our initial meet they were both very excited and said they
wanted to hook up and have fun. A few days later, they said
"we are really busy right now". Now this isn't
my first rodeo and it just seemed a bit odd that they were
suddenly too busy to connect up. I presume this is swinger
code for "no thanks". Can anyone verify this?
I ...
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4 Votes
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Crying through the whole first date? No. 9/17/2016
Take it from me, if you are going to cry for the whole first
date, you're not going to get a second one. It happened
to me. I met a lady, and she balled for the whole hour long
date. I'm a kind person, so i tried to reassure her and
I didn't run away. But, needless to say, she was in no
place to be dating. She really needed to work some things
out. I get it, it can be really lonely when you ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
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Is it rude to say "No Thanks"? 9/16/2016
I think we all need to learn when to say it and when to hear
it without comment. Let's bring back "no, thank
you" and follow it with a full stop.
In this world of over-sharing, it can be tough to stop at
"no, thank you." It feels awkward, but you will
get used to it.
You are not being rude by saying "no, thank you."
Anyone who refuses to accept it is being rude by questioning ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
7 Votes
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being polite 9/12/2016
we are all here pretty much here for the same reason...
this doesn't mean that one should insult or be impolite
to each other... the way I see it - there is either attraction or not - if not
- say no, no thanks or not my type...
I understand that this refers mainly to responses from
women to men BUT some men also need to accept a NO and not further
bother the ladies on this ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Personal Preference versus Racism 8/30/2016
I'm all about equality in life, every human being has
a fundamental right to try to make a living and find happiness.
I may not like some aspects of how a given group of people
approach their ethical practices towards others, but
it is behavior that transcends race and creed.
That being said, I was recently approached on another site
by a woman. Nice, similar cultural interests, ...
3 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
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The Best Ways to Say No! 8/30/2016
So I am always curious what a woman on here believes is the
"best way" to say no to someone she is not interested
in.
I know a fair number have decided not responding is a solid
route to get men to stop messaging them. At least eventually.
Women, what have you found is the best way to let a man know
"I am not interested' but at the same time get
a man to stop messaging you over ...
5 Comments, 29 Views,
8 Votes
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Just be Candid 8/26/2016
One of the more difficult things we encounter is to 'not
feel the same way' as someone we might meet. In other
words- we simply are not attracted to them and would prefer
not having intimate relations. How best to let someone
down
In my experience candor with compassion is the best way.
We are all humans with many insecurities and doubts. No
one is perfect and no one is for everyone. ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
2 Votes
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Tea compared to sex 8/26/2016
If somebody offers you tea or coffee- and you say yes- that
does not necessarily mean that you Will have tea every time
you are together with this person.
The same goes with sex.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
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SENSITIVE EGOS 8/25/2016
Some people just don't take "no thanks"
very well. If someone gets on your nerves...
My advice:
When it comes to blocking memebers, don't forget to
be on the FULL site (go through My Account, Blocked Members)
so that you can check ALL the boxes to block them from seeing
your profile (which contains multiple vulnerabilities).
Just blocking someone on the MOBILE site only ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
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Fake Profile Pics 8/15/2016
Don't you dislike it when the person you're chatting
or planning on seeing is really lying about themselves.
Why? Just be real.
2 Comments, 22 Views,
6 Votes
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Sorry, Ill have to decline 8/15/2016
I have no problem responding back, even if I dont want a meet
and greet. But sometimes I may want to still talk. So many
guys on here are so focus on the meet and greet that they miss
out on other opportunities. Like phone sex, I would be open
to that or playing sex games on the IM. Not everytime you
message a girl will lead to an physical encounter, but at
least there is still fun to be had.
2 Comments, 43 Views,
14 Votes
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what happened? 8/7/2016
you know it really bites when you're trying to just
say hello on the IM and people don't respond. Id much
rather hear not interested than wonder if my IM isn't
working. then it's me sitting there wasting my time
and points trying to get a message through to the person
and not understanding why this isn't working?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
4 Votes
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What a great idea 7/27/2016
It would be amazing if people could just say no thanks. Makes
denial easier, and less wondering on both sides.
3 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
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i wanted to but? 7/22/2016
after letting the very have me one of them rang
my phone at 9 pm a few nights later and ask to come to my home,
I was unsure as to tell him where I lived but as I was feeling
randy I gave him my address, I raced to shower before he arrived
as I wanted to be nice and fresh for what I hoped would come,
when the bell rang I couldn't wait to open the door even
though I was naked as I pulled it open ...
8 Comments, 596 Views,
41 Votes
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Ok 7/20/2016
How come this concept is so hard for people to follow? I understand
when you have to many messages to actually follow but I am
sure not every woman is flooded with messages. How hard
would it be to say no thanks?
2 Comments, 12 Views,
3 Votes
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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
4 Comments, 23 Views,
5 Votes
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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
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hayır 7/12/2016
hayır
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Is it that hard to say no thanks? 7/10/2016
Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response
just saying your not interested?
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0 Votes
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How to eat PUSSY 6/22/2016
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat
pussy because there are too few of you out there. Furthermore,
some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are
not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help
you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's
found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly.
This is one rare customer and she ...
3 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
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changes on DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples 6/19/2016
So about three days ago DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples was at it again change the cam
vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here
new management or what
1 Comments, 12 Views,
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DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS 6/13/2016
As modt Standard members now know DateEtc - Dating For Ladies and Couples is charging point
soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC
4 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Don't Ignore, just say what you think! 6/7/2016
Too many folks on here will not just say, "thanks,
but not my type"....what ever happened to being honest
instead of just all of a sudden ignoring some one...rude!
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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An older man and the younger woman ..... 5/20/2016
Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for
the youngest age of a woman a man can date.
So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year
old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I
am now called a pervert or creepy guy.
Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many
people in ...
9 Comments, 242 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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Home 5/6/2016
I'm bored and want points
1 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Whats the best way to say not interested. 4/27/2016
I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger
then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee
Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude,
just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same
couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
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