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4funinnd 59 / M
"Looking for new friends"
Rapid City, South Dakota, United States
 
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4funinnd 59/M
Rapid City, South Dakota
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Average (but not typical) guy looking to make some new friends. I'd love to meet some couples, or singles, that have a place that I could go be naked in the sun. One of the nice guys that suffers because of the jackasses out there. To them I say-- Cut it the Hell out! Quit being an asshole and spoiling the fun for the rest of us. Was in the lifestyle when I was married and am looking to get reestablished in the community. I do not expect to be invited to participate in anything right away, but it's nice when it happens. I like to get to know people beforehand. Total discretion, I will keep your secrets and expect the same in return. I will try almost anything at least once. If I like it I'll do it again. If it's over the line I'll let you know without hard feelings. I like to ride the Harley and various outdoor and indoor activities. And I love to make women orgasm, sometimes until they just cant take it anymore. I decided to come back hoping to reconnect with some of the friends I met before and hope to make some new ones. I am non judgmental and will be friends with most anyone, ladies, couples, guys, and even CD/Trans. I've had a couple good friends in the past that were CDs. Whatever you're into (as long as it's not illegal and you don't try to force me into anything). You can be yourself around me and I will accept you as you are, I will "not judge less I be judged". Note to couples: I know there are many out there that are only looking for women or other m/f couples. I will respect that if you decide to chat or meet with me. Should you decide to allow me into an intimate moment with you I will not go farther than you want me to. I respect boundaries and never expect to play, especially at the first meet. I will even sit back and watch, if that's what you want, and only join in if or when you want me to. I like to do things out doors, work on old cars, ride motorcycle, just sit in front of a fire, and go a little crazy now and then. Have a very open mind about most things, especially when it comes to intimate times. I can go anywhere from mild to wild, including being very romantic at times. I am very respectful of what others are looking for. I will not push myself onto anyone unless asked to do so with the consent of whoever is involved. I love to make fantasies come true. I am willing to try most anything legal at least once, morale’s be damned. If I like it I'll do it again. The right lady can get me to do just about anything. I have done threesomes (MMF, still waiting for an MFF) and foursomes. Anyone for more-some's? Also, I do not flip out at the touch of another guys parts. In a really good MMF (DP) it's bound to happen, even expected. D/D/VS free (tested at least yearly, even if it isn't necessary). I frequently have to call myself a doofus or idiot for some absurd thing or another and then laugh about it. I don't have a lot of body hair and what little I have I'm working on getting rid of. I don't just add people to my friends list because they ask. There needs to be some kind of connection. Age is only a number. As The saying goes, I'm old enough to know better, but I'm not old enough to care. Ask me and I'll tell my real age.

My Ideal Person Attractive and height/weight proportionate. Good sense if humor, open minded, adventurous, and willing to try just about anything at least once.

Friendship is important, but not mandatory to me, but if all are comfortable I am willing to play. NOT looking for one-nighters, that does not mean I will not participate in them, just that I am hoping for more than that. Would love to find a nice looking lady for a non/semi-committed steady relationship. That said if I meet the right lady a more serious relationship wouldn't be out of the question. That special woman that can break through my wall of defenses and show me that true love really does exist is only something I can only imagine at this point and can only hope to find someday.

Questions about what I mean? Feel free to ask anything. I may not answer certain questions until I get to know you, but that doesn't mean you'll never get an answer.

Looking for someone that is adventurous and likes to try new things to keep me in shape, both mentally and physically. A nice looking lady who wants to indulge in this lifestyle is preferred. Pluses are open minded, willingness to go a little crazy once in a while, not clingy or jealous, and a good attitude. Also someone who isn't afraid to roll me over in the middle of the night and take what she wants.

I have been known to participate in fantasies too. Do you have one you want to have come true? Also, I would really like to find someone looks hot on my Harley. Who knows, if I meet the right one I just might take her to Sturgis. I also have an affinity for lingerie, especially with garter stockings.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
An orgy complete darkness. You have feel your way around
the room. No one would know who was touching or doing what
to or who. You can try whatever curiosities you secretly
hold . All must be comfortable being touched by other
members of the even they don't touch back.
Any penetration has to be initiated by the receiver of the
penetration.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Might be easier the ones I haven't.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 59 / male
  • Rapid City, South Dakota, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: December 7, 1964
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
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