So, need to know basis, here is all you need to know! 1) Divorced, white, male, 6'0", 240, reddish-brown hair, and a red goatee. 2) Let's say negotiable on the "relationship" thing. A relationship; whether committed, friends with benefits, fuck buddy, booty call, or yes even one night stands; take two people both consenting. So just call me open to any of those possibilities. 3) I could say D&D free, but really, I feel that should be assumed, and we all should be adult and considerate enough to give a heads up if they are NOT. 4) I am a "normal" "regular" guy, this does not include me having "six-pack abs" or the "washboard stomach", although, I can try for that, and plan to start a regimen(I've lost the gut before, I can and WILL do it again). 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I also know when to be serious. Many, not all, that know me I believe would generally say I am fun to be around. 6) I am a "compartmentalized" per. Call it a "safety feature" that I have, we all have our defenses. Basically, I have all of these boxes/compartments that I keep life in, and people are allowed into the boxes or compartments that I choose to allow them into. No, this does not mean I hide who I am or what I am about, I am typically very clear on that, it means that things in my life that I value are kept safe and out of any relationship I may find myself in that is unhealthy. For me, it is a way of protecting myself and everyone else, just trust me, it's better. 7) No, 6 does not mean that I have no place for anyone in my life, plenty of space, and a lot of "love";) to give, it is just a means of keeping things in their proper perspective. 8) If I actually consider you a friend, I do not take such things lightly. I am honest and truthful to a fault, with an exceptional filter installed. Do not ask me a question that you are not prepared for a full on honest answer to, and if I ask you to allow me to not answer that one, just trust me, and let that one be! 9) I am a Southern Baptist, just a life long backsliding one! Do not fear, I am not going to thump you on the head with a Bible saying "DEMONS OUT", after all, I am here with equal intentions as the majority of everyone else!! I will not force my beliefs or faith upon you, it's a choice! But it is part of who I am. I am a of God first, a father second, a third, and a friend fourth. Anything else left over, is just me for myself! So, if you read all of this, and any of it sounds interesting, or at least not completely psychotic, let me know!

My Ideal Person My IDEAL person, I have no idea what that is. Mostly, I sum it up as "I will know it when I see it" kind of things. But me being attracted to her, and vice versa, does seem kind of on the important side!!!
I live in Norman, travel frequently to Tulsa for my daughter, and have family around the Bartlesville/Dewey/Copan area, so distance is not always an issue.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list, More of a song by song basis!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
With more than a few. Don't really want to list names,
but it's a combination of many and varying things that
turn me on about each of them.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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