My tongue can do things a vibrator can't... I've had serious relationships before and at this stage of my life I just want to let go and have fun. That doesn't mean a 'wham, bam thank you ma'am' type deal (unless that is what you want). I do like to be mentally stimulated by intelligent women and have fun outside the bedroom. I have been a professional musician/teacher for the past 12+ years and it would be a big bonus if I could find someone who also has a musical background but that's not a prerequisite. Other than that, I look forward to telling you more about myself and hearing about you!