64-yo white female, married, looking for someone to be a friend, to talk with, laugh with, sometimes cry with, share moments with...and just all around enjoy each other. I love hugs, kisses, fun in many forms, foreplay, and more with guys. 5' 4" around 188 lbs now...blue green eyes that change color depending on what I wear. i love to look deeply in to your eyes...I believe the eyes are the window into the soul. My short hair used to be dishwater blonde, now if not colored honey blonde, it has streaks of gray in it. I like to read, write fiction, have a bit of experience with playing with others for a few years...about 20 years ago. Was introduced to BDSM and found it intriguing to play, but would not be interested in living that lifestyle. I seek an honest yet discreet relationship, not just a one-time thing,. I am not clingy, Just looking for a friend and find most women too insecure for that sort of friendship.

My Ideal Person Thoughtful, funny, intuitive, intelligent, open communicator. Not trying to be someone else, comfortable in his own skin.

I like touching, massage, and emotional as well as physical foreplay - and I consider it as important as sex.
Foreplay is underrated. I like lots of foreplay and pillow talk afterward.