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Ottawa_Hedonism 53 / M
"Pleasure Is an Intrinsic Good"
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
 
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Ottawa_Hedonism 53/M
Ottawa, Ontario , Canada
Introduction
Yes, I love pleasure -- from great food, to great wine, to sex in all its pleasures, life should be fun and full ... and it's best when shared. Me? I love to laugh, love to be active, and love to create ... which makes for a rich life, yes, but certainly makes for a lot of fun in the bedroom as well. I'm about open minds and open exploration and great experiences. I'm not about labels. I'm fit, curious, and not one to judge and as long as everyone playing is having fun, then that's what it's all about. Generally, I'd appreciate the same in those I play with, equally able to have a great conversation and park the baggage of life at the door when we get together and just enjoy the here and now. For those who wonder what "bicurious" means -- it means that I openly put myself on a continuum of exploration and am open minded. That doesn't mean I don't have my own limits or that I am open to one-line invitations for late night booty calls from anyone. I don't particularly like labels in any realm, but certainly as it applies to my own sexuality. To say that I'm "bicurious" for me is akin to a woman here saying she "likes" or is "open to" [insert kink]. Just because you like going to a club, doesn't mean you only go to clubs; just because you like anal, doesn't mean you always are in the mood for it. Just because I'm bicurious, doesn't mean I prefer playing with men or only do ... it just means that in the right context, with the right couple/person, I'm open to different (but limited) combinations. It also doesn't mean that I only play that way -- and, truth is, I spend 98% of my time not playing that way .... So, one and all, let's keep an open mind, be respectful, and remember, we're all here for something that we can't find in the light of day -- or we wouldn't be here, right? WARNING! In short, the images and videos you see as part of my profile are here for your viewing pleasure -- you do not have my permission to copy, save, or share them in any way or form. Any institutions, groups or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects or any other peral use. Again, YOU DO NOT HAVE MY PERMISSION to use any portion of my profile or pictures or videos in any form or forum both current and future. If you have previously used, borrowed or copied or are currently using, borrowing or coping ANY portion of this public yet, peral and private profile, I will consider it a violation of my privacy and you will be subject to all legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person My main expectation is for partners who generally takes care of themselves in all the ways that matter. You're not a model and you're fundamentally comfortable in your skin. I don't think we should have to spell that out or things like hygiene and respect .... Fun should be about quality, not quantity, while keeping everything safe. Let's share in experiences with an open mind together ....

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
All the imagination that three people can share in one room.
It's "one" thing -- it's an experience
without obvious boundaries.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 53 / male
  • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious
Looking For:  Men, Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: May 3, 1970
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Married
Height: 172-175 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None
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