Looking for friends first.. Benefits a bonus. I am married and live in a shared home thus can only host some weekdays and the occasional weekend. I enjoy many things that are not things at all, love to meet new people, love to talk, laugh and have a good time. Not so long off a 10 year stint in monogamy so my Peacock dance may be a tad clumsy. I can go from sexual animal to lost puppy looking for a hug. I am intelligent and know how to please, not just in the bed room. For the right person I can be very romantic. I really don't know how to measure my member but it is average in size ... for some that matters, but then I prefer those that do not care. Reading is something I do often but I don't watch any TV so if your idea of a good conversation requires knowledge of the latest soap opera plot then we are going to struggle however if you prefer to get comfortable and tackle the big issues ... great ! what do you drink, I'll grab some on the way over. A destructive habit of indulging my curiosity and 'reverse engineering' everything I could get my hands on has translated into a love of creating, building, fixing. My life-long passion for motorcycling persists and is frequently indulged so if heading off for the day cruising the mountains sounds like something you'd enjoy - "Add to Cart" as I'll definitely be keen. While I would never describe myself as conservative in any sense, it appears others may when it comes to hetero interactions ... If you're likely to interpret being referred to as Princess or having the door opened for you as somehow paternalistic or chauvinistic instead of recognizing it for its chivalrous intent then I'm sure I'll get on your nerves pretty quickly. As a self employed business owner I find my opportunities to socialise are limited and irregular hence the attraction of this targeted approach.

My Ideal Person Attractive, creative and playful individual with the capacity and motivation to act on her lustful desires.

I'm looking for beauty, femininity, creativity, vulnerability ... A muse who inspires a wry smile and feelings of nervous excitement at the mere thought of our next rendezvous. I'm not much of socialiser, preferring to share my time with that someone who actually desires and appreciates my attention.