Not into kissing or cuddling. Not going to be your girlfriend or wife Just looking for play once or twice a month that includes bondage, impact and, if we’tible, some fucking. Married. My wife knows about this and is supportive as long as I’m careful.

My Ideal Person I’m looking for someone to make me feel feminine and attractive and submissive.

Prefer masculine, taller men close to my own age or a bit older. Either single or in an open relationship (I’m not interested in helping anyone cheat). Must have an interest or experience with BDSM as a Dom/top. I’m not interested in switching. Please treat me with respect when we are not in a scene or at least understand that getting into a submissive headspace takes time and trust and that trust needs to be earned.

Please be in Chicago, city proper. Preferably North side. Bonus points if you live near bucktown/wicker/logan hoods. I can travel a bit for the right person, but having a safe, clean environment to play in is important.