I am 41 yrs young and he is an old fart at 42yrs old. We place the utmost value in honesty, trust, communication, and integrity! In other words, we know what out flaws are and accept them with grace and dignity. Everyone has baggage of some kind and we are no different however, it does not define us but instead adds to our unique character traits. We are very new to the lifestyle and as such, are still working on our likes/dislikes, interest specialties, and boundaries. We are keeping an open mind though as we work to discover where we fit in the alternative lifestyle. We are an absolutely no pressure, curious, but determined couple who hope to find other couples/women with similar interests who also want to find that elusive situation of REAL friends, with benefits even.

My Ideal Person We are looking for curious, happy, chill, reasonably intelligent, and relaxed people who are fun to be around and hang out with, both in AND out of the bedroom. We'd love to find a couple and/or just another woman to play with, again-both in and out of bed. She might start out in a soft swap "safe-zone" playing just with the woman half of the couple, but is certainly open to more if the connection/trust is there with the male. My husband is happy enough to simply observe or possibly let me play alone if all are in agreement. He is straight but especially loves the idea of sharing me with another woman, possibly her guy too, in the right situation.

I/we ARE NOT looking for anything or anybody too outrageous. We are looking for someone/s within about 10yrs +/- or so of our age. We are not physically perfect (In other words, while he is the seemingly "all important deal-breaker HWP, I on the other hand, am NOT HWP but am very happy and comfortable with who I am!) and don't expect you to be either. Chemistry is important so we will NOT jump into anything without spending some time and effort exchanging emails, phone calls, etc to determine compatibility. This IS EXPECTED AND ENCOURAGED!! Just be REAL, HONEST, and TRUE to and we should get along just fine!

WE ARE NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN! WE ARE LOOKING FOR A COMMITTED OR MARRIED COUPLE OR SINGLE WOMEN ONLY!

UPDATE!
As a side note-We have recently decided that I am able to "branch" out on my own with other women as I have decided to "hop the fence" and explore a life of bisexuality. I know little to nothing about this lifestyle so if you'd like to be my friend w/ benefits on this journey, please email me! (p.s-I do this with my husband's permission and support and would be happy to have this verified.)

We are for real, NOT here to play games, but have never been too adventurous so we might need some gentle guidance. PUSHINESS AND EAGERNESS to just jump right into sex or if all you want to talk about is sex, MAJOR TURN OFF!! No compromises here!!!! Flirts ARE encouraged so reach out and touch someone!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I can tell you what turns me on.... I really don't get
too turned on by watching a movie with a man and a woman having
sex. We all know what it looks like and I actually find it
a bit boring if you will. What I enjoy is.........watching
a movie with 2 women kissing, fondling, and generally having
sex with each other. Every time I watch those scenes I try
and imagine myself there. IT IS A HUGE TURN-ON FOR ME and
a big inspiration for my husband and I's sex life! Please make my dreams
cum true!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope. I much prefer the real thing, person actually.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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