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need4excitement9 52 / M
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Carlisle, Pennsylvania, United States
 
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need4excitement9 52/M
Carlisle, Pennsylvania
Introduction
I"m divorced and father of 2 school aged ren. I have been active on this site now since June 2010 and have met some interesting people and I made some friends. I have had a lot of fun with some great women but what I think I really would like to find now is someone I can call my own. I want more then just the sex now. I want to go out and do other things too. Doesn't matter what really. I would really enjoy having someone to court the old fashion way. Someone to walk through a street fair with, gaze at the stars, go to nice dinners with, or a walk on a boardwalk on the beach, or go see a live band play, or walk through a museum, watch TV, go to a backyard BBQ, see a Hershey Bears game, bike ride through a park, and just do anything that is fun. If it gets really serious, doing things with my ren and your ren if you have them. Basically, someone to share good times and laughs with. I still don't want to get to serious to quickly, but I do want something more then just a booty call. I'm on this site because I still need a women who is very sexual and very open about it. Someone who is open to experimenting and open to many things. A women who is submissive in the bedroom because I learned that I really enjoy the dominate role and want to develope that more. That doesn't mean I want to dominate you outside of the bedroom though. I want a strong, confident, and independent women. I don't want a clingy needy women. I want a women who knows who she is and won't change for me and will be who she is. I aslo don't want a drama queen. If your life can make a great MTV Reality show, then I don't want you around. I don't focus on the negative. I like to surround myself with positive energy. I'm also looking for a women who can get down and dirty climbing a mountain or can get all dressed up for an elegant evening at the Ball. I love the country and simple life but I'm no country boy. I was raised NYC style and want a women who can appreciate art and culture. Basically a well rounded women. I was raised a Lutheran but I'm am not religious. I am spiritual though and exploring all religions (new aand acient)to find my path to a spiritual awakening. I'm still playing and willing to have fun, make some friends, maybe have FWB or two while I'm on my search but ultimately, I hope to find something that is much more significant. I hope to find "The One" before I'm not feeling so young anymore. It's pretty easy to find a lover and not to hard to find a friend but, it is very, very, very hard to find a lover who is also your best friend that you can have the trust, openess, and honesty to create something special that will last a lifetime. I want to be that 90 year old couple that are still laughing, have fun, and enjoying the time they have left. I want to still be holding hands while walking, or perhaps, riding our power scooters down the sidewalk while running everyone into the streets so we can be side by side. I am extremely passionate and need a women who enjoys it and enjoys flirting, kissing, and cuddling. I have no issue with you flirting with others or even living the lifesyle if we can build that kind of trust. I tend to be dominate but like to switch once in a while. I can get pretty kinky but I'm not into true pain or the other darker stuff of BDSM. I enjoy pleasuring my partner, not causing her pain. I have no wish to do anything with another man. So, if there are any ladies out there that wants a little more then just a fling for a few nights, then contact me.

My Ideal Person I am not looking for one night stands. I like to bring lots of passion to the bedroom so I prefer to know and have some kind of connection with the women who gives me the honor and privilege of pleasing them. I love to explore a womens body, give massages, and love to give lots of stimulating oral and I enjoy having the control most of the time.

I am a little gun shy on the "serious" relationship but willing to try for the right person. I can be exclusive or open but everything must be honest. Also, if I do find someone worth starting something serious, they will have to except my kids and be willing to do "family things" with them. My kids are the most important thing and there needs come first. I would hope you felt the same way about your kids. If I were to meet up with someone, there will be no pressure with having to have sex. I am fine with making just friends or taking it slow. I will still go out for a booty call or have a FWB when I really need a fix but it's not what I want to do the rest of my life. .

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rush, Pink Floyd, Dream Theater... Most Classic Rock bandsand
any band that sound great LIVE

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
to many to list

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 52 / male
  • Carlisle, Pennsylvania, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: July 2, 1971
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses