I am an honest, sincere, clean and discreet man looking to expand my horizons and experiences sexually with the right woman on an ongoing basis. I’m as open as the next guy to a one night stand if the chemistry is right, but what I would prefer is a steady safe and outgoing partner that can meet on an ongoing basis for some regular fun as we fulfill each others fantasies. I would much rather get to know someone on a continuing basis as I find half the fun is getting to learn what the other person likes and wants, and that can only come with repeat encounters with the same partner and an open dialogue. I am happily attached and am searching for the right woman with the full knowledge and support of my partner. My partner and I are only playing separately at this time as she has her own fantasies to fulfill. I am NOT looking to change my life status or yours, other than to open us both up to some clean, discreet hassle-free, no-strings-attached fun. I work in sales and am based in Ottawa but I travel between Kingston, Ottawa, North Bay and Sudbury on a fairly regular basis. Would be great to chat a bit first and exchange some pics to see if the chemistry is there. I know some women don’t like attached men for some reason, but what better way to just have a good time with no worries about future attachment or heavy drama? You want a long term life-partner, go to a dating site. AFF is about sex and people enjoying themselves.

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: It would be great to find a "regular"” friend with benefits”. Someone with a sense of humor whom I click with, who can be honest about what they are looking for, It would also be great if you have read a book or two in the last year or so and can also carry on a meaningful conversation. Looking for some hot and heavy e-mails, an exchange of fantasies, maybe attend a few group parties or functions, some flirty texting to get us in the mood and then a bit of fun whenever the mood strikes us. Not looking to change my status or yours. I can be discreet if needed and ask the same.
I love all kinds of women but have a preference for mature women who have a great sense of humor and a mind that can keep up with the conversation. I also like BBW's when I can be lucky enough to meet one. I have a particular penchant for gloves of all kinds, handjobs, foreplay, oral (giving) and giving massages and am very interested in trying new things.

Cock pics…. Do you really need to see another one? If that's all you want then drop me a line and I'll send some along. Check out my profile and if you're interested in more of what's behind the scenes then drop me a line and I'd be happy to let you know more about myself as long as you can share also! I’m interested in meeting someone fun who can challenge my limits and maybe we can bring a little NSA fun into each others' lives.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Meat Loaf, Kid Rock

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
In a nutshell... <br><br>
A woman knocks on the front door with a large fur coat and
cocktail gloves on. I ask her in and one thing leads to another
as she opens her coat to show me she is wearing nothing underneath.
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She leaves it on as we spend the rest of the night pleasing
each other in every room of the house.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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