Discreet professional looking for clean, safe fun. I am happily married, so can assure your discretion. Occasional afternoons and weekends only, for friend with benefits. I am honest, loyal, and intelligent, with a demented sense of humor. I am healthy and work out daily. I play competitive sports on a regular basis, and have no weight, drug, smoking or alchohol issues. My family is important to me, and I am not seeking or interested in someone who wants to date. Rather, I am looking for a little passion that I no longer find at home. I am also committed to my work. I am a professional with a successful business, which takes up a lot of my time. I work hard and play hard. I believe that physical pleasure is to a significant degree the result of the mental connection between 2 people. The right attitude goes a long way, and anticipation can be extremely erotic. I get much pleasure from my partner's pleasure. Besides, giving satisfaction is in my own best long-term interest. My partner will then want even more to heighten my pleasure. My partner should have a healthy attitude toward sex. I want a woman who is a lady while we have lunch, one who can converse intelligently while our eyes and bodies simmer with anticipation. Once we are alone, she turns into a nasty little minx who wants (and needs) all the two of us can muster. At times we will be playful, and at other times urgent. Sometimes soft and and sometimes needy. Again, attitude is probably the most important factor.

My Ideal Person Clean, safe, sane woman to be a lady if we are having lunch, but my personal slut when we are alone. Your pleasure is my pleasure, so I expect you to want to please me as much as I do you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Too many to count. We should have new ones often.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work, all locations can be great

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, passion

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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