I am solo poly straight guy with a respectful imaginative open minded sensual dominant persona. I also have a beautiful younger bi poly gf who is avail to play and meet with me and other women or mf couples. She is shy and careful about revealing herself in photos on the site without first getting to know you and with her consent, I could privately share clothed pics of her. The one pic I do have us is a watercolor painting photo I just posted made from a photo of us playing . Love to laugh...my sense of humor ranges from nerdy and goofy, to strange (think Monty Python) to Perverse (think Lois CK) and deep (think George Carlin) i can be passionate , as well as rough .Sensual sex can have its place as well kinky dirty rough bdsm style scenes. i play as a sensual dominant . I can be rough and use restraints and rope..or be sensual and slow and tease and enjoy every inch of you passionately. I can do both in combination as well. The excitement of slow sensual erotic flirting always feels best to get me in dom space. I enjoy stimulating conversations very much . Brains are the most powerful sex organ ! Vasectomy-safe. I get STD tests 2-3 times a year. If you want to play bareback we should exchange test information together to be safe. GGG...good, giving and game. ( Do you know much about Dan Savage , who invented that term?). Kink and fetish are part of my mind...see below for details. I lead a double life, as many of us must feel we do. I have family and professional responsibilities i take very seriously. I am many things other than sexual, but this website i guess is where we focus on the sexual aspect of ourselves. Just want t people to know i am a great complex per in good way, I don't want to seem like only a sexual pervert ! haha If you live outside on my area I cannot host other than hotels. i can travel to you, if out of town, 1-2 times per month. I play safe always ...so my photos without condoms are with ladies i was fluid-bonded with. Sapiosexual d+d -free health professional adventurous funny witty goofy sense of humor ( think Louis CK, Hannibal Buress, Bill Burr, Mitch Hedberg ).Love comedy . Trustworthy. I hate gossip. I respect privacy and discretion. Family-oriented at home, professional by day, very responsible with my life. My sexuality and sex life is my passion , my outlet and i never stop trying to learn more about what turns people on. I read a lot about sexuality, erotica. I have many interests like drums, music, food, cooking, comedy, film, rock music, live music, I have impeccable hygiene as would my partner. Non-vanilla extensive sexual imagination excess stamina stay hard for hours teasing and pleasing others is a huge turn on, more than receiving. I enjoy witty banter, great sense of humor I am extremely cognizant of the importance of discretion and trust with partners I am very easy going and spontaneous, not at all high-strung I am never judgmental Open minded and curious in all things . Sexually I have a huge broad palate of likes, turn ons, experiences, and must haves! I am learning with my current playmate, rope bondage/suspension, impact play.We do it for turning her on, and giveing her the freedom to let go and not have to think about what she has to do , only to enjoy sensation play, and have me use her for pleasure. I do that, but need to be sure I make her happy and tease her and ensure she gets pleasure . I have many interests outside of sex and appreciate knowing partners and friends who can easily enjoy these things together. I cannot be turned on by a sexy body with a non-sexy brain. I am not into drugs, though I do not mind if you are into pot. I drink socially. If you do drugs and alcohol..you are responsible with them, and handle it well. You are not out of control when drunk and high and are not addicted. I do not smoke. I do not mind if you do.

My Ideal Person Knows that the above qualities I noted are important in both partners.
If we cannot make each other laugh I doubt we will be a sexual match.
Mutual mental stimulation is important to me in sexual partners.
My ideal person is honest. Their photos match their true self at this point in time.
Whether all you desire is a hot fantasy played out with an anonymous partner, or someone you can be friends with and laugh a lot with...you could be the type of person that can be both things and everything in between.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
“ I think she likes you”. “Do you really think so?” I reply...” nah I am not
sure...”. I say that while being modest but hopeful. My friend Janice pokes her elbow into my side as we walk to
the elevator. “Did you see how she smiled at you? She pushed her hair
aside and bit her lower lip...she was so obviously into
you” , replied Janice. I had not noticed, but was super
excited to hear that Janice was sure of this. I said “ I think she is gorgeous!. Never ever in the hundreds
of hotels I have ever stayed at, seen such a sexy pretty cute
chambermaid”. What are the chances that here...in Niagra Falls...at
this random weekend getaway, that we encounter such a
sweet hotel employee.? And she is flirting with me ...with
her smiles and conversation, each time she sees me the past
day and and a half. My ego was stroked quite heavily. <br><br>
We walk to a patio for lunch . All the way Janice as this shit-eating
grin on her face. “What the heck are you thinking?” I ask...with a grin
on my face. She looks like this when she is thinking about
sex. Janice and I get a table in the corner ...and she is biting
her lower lip. She takes her foot out of her flip flop and
reaches out to rest in on my lap—pressing into my growing
cock...under my shorts. I love when she plays with me in
public. I get off being watched..and getting away with
things in public. I also like it if a woman watches me play
or be playing---as does Janice. She says “ you know how
I always wanted to see you fuck another woman..make her
moan, give her pleasure?”...”Mmmm yes” I reply
...pushing my hips into her sexy foot---my hard cock poking
up at the edge of my shorts and out the top of them just a little—her
bare toes tickle the engorged head of my cut cock...i whimper
in delight:.... “What if I watched you fuck that sweet little chamber
maid---would you get off watching me masturbate , as you
fucked her little pussy for me?” “Oh my god yessssssss”...I say...” but that would
never be able to happen and you know it—she would run to
the hills thinking we are creeps...and she could get fired.”
“ You are right, but it is fun to think about it...i so want
to watch you please a woman the way you please me”. I have
to admit I would never ever be luckier to have a woman like
Janice---so selfless to share her lover with another ...but
we had yet to ever try this. We are looking at each other...and
I can see she is very horny...she is rubbing her boob thru
her t shirt—playing with her nipple...i take her foot
and slide it up the leg of my shorts...and I am not wearing
underwear...I unzip my fly and open my belt—my t-shirt
is large enough to cover the now open shorts and my freed
thick cock. Her foot is right up onto it—and i love the
feeling of her warm soft foot on my hard cock...her heel
pressed into my balls. The waiter has brought us olive oil
and bread for dipping. I cannot tell if he noticed what we
we were doing and if he did he was good at hiding it. I am certain
we were looking obvious to anyone who looked our way. It
made me nervous, but it also turned me on. I can see there
are some women at a table glancing over at us a lot—we are
not being very subtle...the tables are small and everything
is visible—making this whole thing so fucking hot. I
get an evil inspiration and I grab the bottle of olive oil
and i lift my shirt and drizzle some onto my cock, her foot,
and my hand. I dont give a fuck about the stains—we can
go back and change at the hotel down the street after lunch.
I am able to grab both her foot and my hard thick cock all in
one hand. Her foot is now totally up against the whole underside
of my cock and I start to stroke , squeezing her oiled foot
onto my shaft. Fuck this feels good...her toes are totally
oiled and i press the thick wide cockhead between her big
toe and second toe. I pump and squeeze us gently...it feels
so fucking amazing with her toes around the head---i stroke
us both pretending to shift my hips in my seat. My god I am
sure we look like too obvious to the rest of the people around
us. Janice has her fingers down her shorts...her button on
top of them loosened---she is rubbing her clit furiously.
Her back is to the rest of the patio so she is not really being
seen, but, I am! I stare at her hand---i tell her “give me those fingers”.
NOW. She reaches out to me ---holds three wet fingers to my nose---and
i inhale her sweet aroma... I want to taste her. I slowly
suck her fingers into my mouth and suck them like a small
cock...i can smell and taste her---and i start to cummmmm.
I softly suck on her fingers as cum shoots from my hard cock---between
her toes...on my hand, on my shirt, but i keep stroking---using
the oil and cum as a lube. Fuck I am oozing so much cum and it
is being rubbed all over her foot and toes and my shaved balls.
The cum is so hot to the touch---and i am so soaked... I grab a slice of french bread...and take one of my cum-covered
fingers...rub in onto the bread..so a dollop of oil and
cum is on it. I stare at her and she is cumming too....she
looks amazing...i love watching her cum---her leg stiffens
and her foot presses into my set slippery cock and i love
the feeling of the pressure on it. I tell her “ take a bite of your appetizer....” I hand
her the bread she does..and giggles----then i take a small
bite too! We both smile wide as we taste my cum on the bread.
Needless to say---we had a few drinks with lunch...and
ran back to the hotel to fuck hard in bed for a few hours. We then ran out to the local sex shop. Janice said she was
so psyched and horny she wanted to buy some toys. I said sure! I love adding to our huge toy collection. She
bought this kit that ties a person to a bed---the kind that
has long wide black straps which run under a bed and up so
you have one large strap for the wrists, the other for the
legs...and you tie someone spread eagled on the bed. I thought
'cool---she would be so hot tied up like that and i could
tease her with my oil, hands, mouth and some vibrators and
dildos we had brought with us. She also bought a few other
things but she told me “don't peek---this is a surprise!!!”
I was so exited and did not mind, Fast forward to the next morning....I woke up to Jsnice
slowly sucking my cock—and I was thrilled to feel her
hot wet soft mouth on my hardening cock. She whispered to
me..”while you were sleeping---i went downstairs for
coffee—and I went down the hall, and started talking
to that cute chambermaid !” I was thinking..”whaaa?” Janice told me they had a nice talk and she was a sweet girl.
It was close to 10 am and i guess Janice was up like at 6 am...i
had no idea what made her do that or why---she normally slept
late with me. She told me she wanted to role play with me.
She wanted tp pretend she was the chambermaid I liked—let's
call her Bella, she told me. She whispered into my ear..as
she held by balls in her hand...” i am going to tie you up---and
pretend that Bella walks in to find us screwing ...and that
she stays to watch us. I want you to be super quiet the whole
time so as not to frighten her—and let me take the lead---i
control you and this fantasy. Ok?” She stripped the covers off...and quickly hooked me up
to those straps! That little vixen...she them up when i
was sleeping! Now my arms and ankles were spread eagle d
on the bed---I was naked...and she spread me tightly!...she
then put a shirt around my eyes...like a blindfold---and
i was totally unable to see anything!! She grabbed my cock
and started sucking it slow...and she poured silicone
lube all over it, and was stroking it the way i liked---hard
grip---with this squeeze/let-go technique as she moved
it over the whole length of my shaft---then stopped and
sucked the head only---stroking the remaining shaft like
a i do when i jerk off for her. She oiled her other hand and
was rubbing my bumhole with 2 fingers the way i like it....i
was rock hard and throbbing for her. She said----”ok
now ...i am going to let go one of your hands ...so you can
stroke that cock for me---” She let one wrist go from the velcro wrist band clip and i
grabbed my aching cock and started groaning so hard and
stroking and pumping. I tried to reach over and get my other
hand but it was not possible—this king size bed had me
spread really too wide. She kissed me deeply---” i am
going to leave the room and come back in pretending I am Bella...and
I (Bella) will be knock on the door like they do to see if you
are in before they enter the room. I will get no answer..and
she comes in to find “us ---as you stroke you will imagine
i am fucking you ...riding you---and she comes in and sees
us---i want you to keep super quiet. What will be great in
this fantasy is that now she is going to feel comfortable
watching us because I am in control---and you are tied up.
So she will feel safe. I am going to come in pretending to
be her---and you keep pumping that cock imagining my tight
oiled ass is slowly going down on your hard thick shaft---you
keep pumping and whisper to your hand imagining it is me...and
'Bella” is going to be at the chair over here---watching
. You are going to have to imagine what Bella is doing as she
watches us...i want you to put on a show for her---with me
(your hand)...and I would be whispering to you what she
is doing as she watches us!! I was pumping my cock..and pressing my fingers under my
shaved balls---bucking my hips...”yessss Janice Yesss”.
I hear the hotel room door open...and i am getting so nervous
and excited for this fantasy!!! <br><br>
Here is what I did not know, Janice had met with Bella and brought her a coffee---they
went into a room Bella was cleaning and Janice set this whole
thing up. She confessed this was a huge fantasy for her.
She asked Bella if she would go along with it. Janice gave
her my cell phone, and Janice's cell #--and said she
was going to go into the restaurant downstairs and masturbate
in a booth imagining things here. Bella could call her if
there was any hesitation or backing out and she would understand.
Janice explained she would not return to the room until
Bella called her...and that Bella could do anything she
wanted with me, or nothing at all. Her choice. NO expectations
or pressure. I (Bob) would have no idea what was happening
and as far as I was to know...the person watching him in the
room was Janice. Bella smiled and was rather eager to go along with this crazy
thing!! <br><br>
So there I am pumping my cock...tied up---unable to see
anything—and the room is quiet. Then i hear the knocks at the door---knocks again---no
voice----and the door clicks open. I am imagining Janice
in a chamber maid outfit she borrowed from a staff member
or something---but i am also recalling that gorgeous girl
Bella...imaging her gorgeous face walking in on me..and
standing there in shock. I am stroking hard...whispering 'yes Janice---your
ass feels so tight ...i love your wet ass on my hard cock”
I am so turned on that Janice is letting me pretend this girl
Bella is watching us!!! MY balls are tight and i am grabbing them so hard---pulling
them down hard with a tight grip, pulling and massaging
them roughly as my hard cock twitches , rock hard...precum
ooozing from the tip. I only wish i had my two hands to grab
my balls as i stroke..and play with two grips... <br><br>
My free right hand is slapping my hard cock to and fro left
and right---I love that feeling . I also like to slap Janice`s
wet swollen pussy lips and clit. I am bucking my hips as if
i am inside Janice's tight ass as she rides me. Little
do i know Bella has entered the room...she locked the door—and
she was sitting on the chair next to the bed watching me.
Janice had left her a brand new Rabbit vibrator , silicone
lube, condoms, a pink curved smooth dildo (the same one
I have a t home that we play with all the time), a strap on harness
just like that we have at home as well....I love to let Janice
make love to my ass...in different positions...missionary
, her standing facing me on my back....or doggie style as
we take turns stroking my hard cock. I am not at all gay or
bi—and do not want a man at all, i just love the kinky naughty
look of a pretty woman fucking me and making my hard cock
burst in pleasure because pressure on my prostate feels
so amazing!!!! We both love butt plugs in our asses and play
regularly with them..as well as my passion for sliding
my tongue in side Janices pretty bum.`m I love rimming a
pretty butt...i can lick and eat and suck all day! It is my
passion to give oral pleasure to a sexy woman. <br><br>
I hear a vibrator start...to my right in the chair---and
Im so hot now---imagining Janice bought a new vib and is
spread open there rubbing her wet pussy for me!! Mmmmmmm!!!! I whisper “Yes Janice get on your knees and suck my cock
now that I have been in your hot ass”---i thought i would
get kinky for Janice , pretending we were doing this for
our Bella watching. I hear the vib sound getting muffled
now ...I know it is in her pussy now. Then I feel a hand on my
inner thigh ticking me---on the other side of me..where
i cannot reach at all...i am too tightly tied up. I feel a
tongue on my balls...mmmmmm i buck up to meet Janice's
mouth...but she pulls away. I hear the vib...and I feel
her standing on the bed now next to me on the tied hand side---i
feel a bare foot on my hip----the toes running on my skin....mmmm
i love it.... i feel oil being poured on my cock—and her foot presses
on my shaft and rubs the whole cock...i fucking love this!!!!
Yesssss...Janice –show Bella how I love to fuck your
pretty feet. I love taking Janice’s two feet, covering
them in coconut oil, massaging her pretty soles and balls
of herr feet and her toes. I like to stand above her, holding
her feet together facing each other so i can slide my hot
hard cock in the space created by her arches. It feels surprisingly
sooo amazing on my cock..and she tells me the sight of me
doing that , and the heat my cock gives off feels so nice for
her too. I then hear the vib getting closer to my face---she is kneeling
by my head and i hear the wet sloshing sounds of a wet pussy
being rubbed with a hand. Mmmmmmmm...I wish i could see
that. Watching her fingers rub her wet lipd always mesmerizes
me and makes me so hard and hot. “Janice let me taste that pussy---show Bella how I love
to eat you”...I say more loudly. I expect a warm pussy on my face, but instead ...i am shocked
to feel the solid vibrator press against my mouth and she
shoves it in----i taste her yummy pussy juice—and it
is so sweet...and different ---but i am too turned on to
notice. I suck the toy`s cock head and lick the shaft a few
times--grooaning---- <br><br>
I am dying to feel her on my cock--- <br><br>
I imagine Bella watching Janice and I doing this and I am
just freaking out horny and hard. What would Bella be doing
I wonder? Then “Janice” takes my free right hand and locks the
wrist back to the strap and pulls it tight. I am not able to move. I feel a tongue on my cock head and i love the hot wet tongue...and
a tight tight tight grip on my shaft ---much tighter than
she normally grabs it. Fuck!!! I love it! MMMMMM <br><br>
Next---i feel lots of oil being rubbed in my ass.... and i am wondering ---- she kneels at my cock...her knees rest up on my thighs I am
guessing she is sitting on her heels and her knees are wide
pressing on my thighs....and i feel the tip of that red dildo
we brought from home? I feel it sliding into my ass---fuck
i love when Janice fucks me with the strap on!!! I feel this
insane awesome tingle in my ass and cock and i know i am now
oozing drops of cum...the strap on presses just right on
this 'male g spot'. <br><br>
I feel it in me—but her legs feel different shaped to me
...and her hands are on my chest now---and they are different
too. I am being fucked deep my cock bobbing ...fuck ! I imagine
Bella seeing us doing this kinky thing---omg I hope she
does not freak out---but i M IN heaven imagining her watching
this....Janice is fucking me and stroking that hard cock---fuck
it feels amazing' <br><br>
I moan ---”please let me feel your pussy baby”-----
then the dildo comes out of me---and i feel her starting
to position herself on my cock---suddenly i feel a tight
warm wet feeling on my cock---- THIS IS NOT JANICE. OMG WHAT IS GOING ON!!!!!???? <br><br>
This fucking amazing mystery pussy is on my cock---who
is this???? I start to moan loud “who are you????...where is Janice???”.
There is no reply—just some soft moans of a woman. I feel a hand on my mouth and she presses it hard on my lips
and I hear “shhhhhhhhhh!!!” OMG---is this Bella?? NO---it cannot be!! She is riding my cock—grinding me hard and deep, her ass
moving in circles on my shaft , which buried so deep i feel
her walls of her vagina and can feel me touching her cervix...and
my hard cock base is being pressed into her clit very very
hardddddd. I love when i am used like a sex toy!!!! I am bucking my hips—she grabs my nipple ring and tugs
it---and i feel a mouth on mine---i am kissing a stranger---mmmm
what delicious lips---she is panting ---i am sucking her
upper lip like a little harmonica—side to side from the
edge to the edge of her mouth . Running my tongue under her
lip on her teeth. My god I am in heaven. Is Janice here? Where is she? What is happening??? This gorgeous pussy is gripping my cock and now is slapping
up and down on me---her ass slapping my sweaty skin and the
slap sounds of this girl riding up and down on me sooooo hard
and fast is too much for me!!!! She reaches forward and i feel a nipple pressed to my mouth---i
suck it passionately---suck lick, nibble...im going
crazy===== I am starting to cummmmmm...... I yell “ I want to cummmmm...where should i explode my
hot cum for you baby????” I hear a whisper in my ear.....”in my cunt”!!! She said 'cunt'? That is so hot and dirty and sexy
and ....omg—-soooo naughty. I scream...”yes fuck yes..i am cumming for you ---i love
you---fuckkkkkkkkkk cummmmming!!!!!!” i buck my hips up and up and i spray jet after jet of hot watery
cum ....like a water pistol would shoot water, into this
sexy tight wet body. This stranger's body!!! I scream...”please please sit on my face i need to taste
us baby!!!” This gorgeous stranger gets off my still hard cock, and
sets her hips around my face---and i feel this wet pussy
press to my lips---her ass cheeks on my chin---i eagerly
lap her up like a thirsty dog...lick after lick inside her
---i lick her asshole with a wide tongue. Then up between
her swollen lips---my cum is ooozing out from her pussy
hole into my mouth and i swallow and swallow...tasting
her tangy juices mixed with mine---this stranger has her
pussy on my face!! yessss my god i am freaking excited and
confused and happy and hard again and.... she presses herself into me harder---my tongue is now circling
that little hole you pee from just under her clit---and
i am loving her taste—her sweet soft body on me---my cum
all over my face and cheeks.... i hear the vibrator turn on---and she rubs her clit with
it....i am straining wishing i could use my hands to caress
her and grab her tight---but i am immobile!! Mystery woman starts bucking her hips and moaning faster
...I can tell she wants to cum----she moves so my tongue
probes inside her hole like a small cock and she rides my
tongue like a small cock as i swirl it in her deeply---i can
barely breathe she has her pretty lips all over me...my
nose is breathing her in...i love her smell---and my nose
presses under clit. I feel my nose vibrating as she rub the
vibrator on and around her clit---one of hands is pulling
my hair really hard....and she cummmmmmms---i can feel
her pressing into me—and she softly mains “ mmmmmm
I am cumming”...i love this...i am in lovvvve with this
mysterious awesome woman!!! Who is this amazing person---can it be Bella??? Is Janice watching? <br><br>
She gets off my face ..I am panting ....she kisses me hard
and deep---i am loving her face on mine--- “thanks baby”is all she says. She gets off the bed...I am sweating, panting, and so excited
still. Tied. Unable to see. I hear the cell phone dialing---and hear the bathroom light
switch and fan go on--- then I hear ”I am ready Janice---you can up in 5 minutes”...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, hotel hallway

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage, licking my cum out of your pussy

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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